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Any Witches Here? Part 12.

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speakout · 17/08/2020 06:41

Or Wiccans. or Pagans? Or anyone who is interested in a magical path or feels some magical stirrings.

A place for support, learning, swapping ideas and magical inspiration.

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CobletCymraeg · 14/09/2020 14:52

Good day everyone! I'm just having a little rest with my familiars, after a very draining morning at work. Whilst in a state of contemplation, I have realised I would love to incorporate more of these witchy ways into my everyday life, especially green witchery, and head down a more simple and connected path as I continue my life journey (there was a time where I didn't think I would get to this grand old age of 33, so determined were my demons to help me self destruct). Any knowledge or recommended readings you are willing to share would be very gratefully received! Wishing you all peace and love, and strength to help you through any challenges you may face this day.

YashmisCrone · 14/09/2020 15:39

Good afternoon everyone,
Thank you again for all you share here, it’s so good to be able to connect with like minds who share similar joys in life. Really pleased to hear how everyone has been nurturing themselves and connecting with nature seems such a power source for us- like plugging into the the mains to recharge!

I also felt the water was alive with elemental energy yesterday, it was just the tonic I needed to be submerged in it. Just wanted to share a little of that energy here too.

The stew sounds delicious and I look forward to trying it, thank you.

Love to all and solidarity with those facing challenges. We stand together

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BlankTimes · 14/09/2020 16:07

Thanks so much for the recipe Speakout that sounds delicious, I'll give it a try. Yum!

CobletCymraeg this is said gently, please have a look through the previous threads, sorry if it sounds like a chore, but most new people ask similar types of questions and if we didn't refer back to the older threads, we'd be in a state of continuous repetition about book recommendations, why we chose our respective paths, why we won't do spells on request, how/if we celebrate the sabbats and esbats and all the other FAQs from people new to this way of life.

All of us are on our own individual path of self-development and know from experience that having to find answers yourself is a much, much better way to learn than anything you can instantly be given. Instead of a simple Q+A, the diy process becomes one of investigation and discovery of things that are important to you, things that will help you grow.

Having said that, the lovely Gather Victoria website and blog is always a joy to look at and could give you some inspiration.

speakout · 14/09/2020 16:51

CobletCymraeg
I would also add that books I may find useful may not be right for you.
There is no right way of walking a magical journey, no road map, it is our path alone.
I always hestitate to recommend books because I don't want to sway or influence anyone into the idea that there are right ways and wrong ways.
Some books are helpful- more of the practical aspects of a magical craft- herbal lore or essential oils for instance and there are some books on spellwork that are useful.
Have a browse in a bookshop - your instinct is your best guide, choose books that call to you.
In fact many of my favourite books have found me - usually in charity shops a book has literally jumped off the shelf and has turned out to be just the book I needed at that time.
The universe has a grat way of providing exactly what we need when we neeed it!

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CobletCymraeg · 14/09/2020 17:11

@speakout and @BlankTimes, thank you very much for your guidance. I understand it is all a journey of self discovery, but felt I just needed a gentle nudge and some reassurance before I set off on my own 😊

speakout · 14/09/2020 17:21

CobletCymraeg

Of coures- I understand. Take reassurance- you have all you need within you. Trust your instincts and follow your heart, they are powerful tools.

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KateF · 14/09/2020 17:33

Thank you for all your kind words. I knew I would find kindness and wisdom here.

The girls are 20,19 and 16. I'm fairly sure most of the negativity is coming from dd1. She is a clever girl but has been plagued by anxiety since her early teens, has not achieved her potential yet and is very conscious of 'what other people think'. dd2 has autism and is 'younger' than her years in some ways and dd3 is a sweetheart but very easily led. dd1 has always been very much the ringleader and as some of you have suggested is very much influenced by Instagram especially this Mrs Hinch person who seems very popular at the moment (I don't do Instagram). Apparently my cleaning routine is inadequate and I am 'filthy', 'everyone's' house is grey and coordinated and my books, knitting etc are 'clutter' that needs to be got rid of. My taste is more towards natural colours including my favourites green and yellow, pictures/photos/ornaments from the various countries I have lived in, and plants. I also dislike strong artificial fragrances and chemically household cleaners while dd1 wants me to Zoflora everything! They are also heavily influenced by their father who judges everyone by their salary, only drives BMWs, sneers at people who volunteer etc.

Boiler update: the engineer had not been told he needed to bring the parts that had been ordered so couldn't do anything. Booked in again for Friday. It's reminded me that running hot water is a privilege that I don't appreciate enough.

It's been a beautiful day here. I'm off work this week so dog has been taken to the park then lounged around ouside while I gardened. Laundry magic has also happened so the basket is empty which doesn't happen often!

I will light my candle at 8 o'clock (lime,basil and mandarin from Aldi - lovely)

BlankTimes · 14/09/2020 19:26

Sorry Yashmis I didn't see you to wave to [pun intended] when I posted my last post.

Hi KateF Ah, I thought as much. Here are a few ideas, apologies for getting on the soapbox.

One massively blinkered view on how to live and use chemical crap promoted to give a whacking great income to said Mrs. Hinch then.
I'd seriously look at public accounts for the Insta Influencers, should be easily available online. Do they do it because it's something they passionately believe in, or are all their actions influenced by freebies and large payments for product placements and free publicity from companies?
What would your DD1 think if Mrs. H did a u-turn and started promoting Ecover products? Why doesn't she? Follow the money trail.

It's time to educate your girls on what really matters in life and what's designed to part them from their money and freedom of thought.

Your DD with autism will present as emotionally younger than her age-peers, it's a rough rule of thumb that kids with AN have an emotional age of around two-thirds of her chronological age.

Your DD1 needs a boost to her self-esteem and learn that nothing other people think matters. She also needs to do some serious research into what's in household "cleaners" and follow the production to distribution and profit trail.

As for using synthetic chemical shite to clean your home aka line someone else's pockets with the profits, you can tackle that from the environmental aspect and also the allergen aspect.
How cruel is it to spray that stinky cack near our pets whose olfactory senses are so much more developed than ours.

What about people with eczema and asthma breathing it in and having it on their clothes?

A little bit of education about sustainable living and treading lightly on our endangered planet could persuade your girls to see the truth.
Have they ever looked into the source of the products they use daily, what repercussions of their choices are having an impact on the world?

I've got to go and prep dinner, but will just say that at their ages, they are all old enough to understand. I think there's a new David Attenborough special due to be shown soon about our impact on the environment, maybe you could all watch it together to raise their awareness of the effect of millions of people who are blindly following a mindless lifestyle.

Rather than challenging their views, try and show them the alternatives

Gets off soapbox

Gives Flowers to Kate,

Broceliande · 15/09/2020 14:45

Hello again everyone, on what is a lovely, mild and sun-drenched afternoon here in Yorkshire. I’ve been quiet for a few days as weekends are busy for me; finding the balance between two young and (feeling in a generous mood today thanks to the peace and quiet) ‘rambunctious’ children, the housework, spending time with my husband and cramming in some private study means very little mental energy left for anything else! It’s lovely to find the time to catch up on this thread.

It’s also exciting to hear from fellow Jung fans; his work was a huge influence on me as a young adult, and I’ve recently begun to refamiliarise myself. Today I've been reading about the mythopoeic imagination and his use of mandalas.

A little synchronicity to report: I recently moved (with a great deal of reluctance) to a house on a newly built estate, after living almost exclusively in Victorian houses. In the absence of previous owners I’ve become a lot more interested in the history of the local landscape (always good to check your house isn’t built on an ancient burial ground and all that!). A few months ago I bought a nature diary written by a farmer who lived in this village 140 years ago and have enjoyed learning about local traditions as well as the wildflowers and plants that used to grow in the area; I’ve had a vague notion that I would try and recreate something of that landscape in my garden, which is currently barren and neglected – really just a rectangle of patchy, balding grass - filling it with native plants and herbs, and hopefully a small vegetable patch. Yesterday I came across an old tithe map from 1828, and after a bit of detective work, overlaying that map on top of the present day, I discovered to my surprise that the farmer who wrote the diary actually owned (and very likely lived on) the land where my house was built just over a decade ago. Perhaps synchronicity is the wrong term, but I’ve taken it as a sign that I’m on the right track with my garden plans.

Speakout what a beautiful, healing song. I’m also paying very close attention to your recipes – house full of fussy eaters here, but now the fussiest ones are back at school I’ve been starting to cook for myself again, at least during the day. DH is sometimes a little skeptical of my experiments, but all in all he’s enjoying our long-awaited release from the beige food diet!

YashmisCrone it looks you live in gorgeous, wild place; even if they can't do it full justice, those photos convey so much energy! Unfortunately there are vanishing few truly wild places where I live, but I’ve always been drawn to water, and there’s a lovely, ancient little brook that runs along farmland not far from my estate; it passes through a straggle of woodland that’s managed to survive the last century of ‘progress’ – I often go there to be alone and reconnect with the older energy of the landscape (and, in spring, to avail myself of its plentiful supply of wild garlic).

Kate, my children are still (although the eldest is just beginning to suffer from that mortal illness, embarrassment) and you’ve received good advice from those more experienced, so I’d just like to say that I’m thinking of you, and I hope your daughters come out the other side Flowers

speakout · 15/09/2020 15:53

Broceliande what amazing synchronicity!
How wonderful that you were drawn to that spot to live.
There are "thin places" everywhere, tied to the land and the earth, and no amount of building or demolotion can change spots that are sacred, and teeming with energy.
I am sure your garden will grow with a special magic.
Like you I live in a newish house- 1970s. As much as I would love an old cottage the spot I live feels very magical to me.
Ancient monastic land, surrounded by ancient woodland teeming with wildlife and a fast flowing river nearby.
I have done some work to honour the genius loci, to tap into the energy of this scared space, it helped my magical growth and settle into my new home here.

Molly Roberts ( one of my favourite you tube witches ) has some lovely ideas about working with the genius loci- worth watching.

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Delphinium20 · 15/09/2020 16:31

@ speakout. Thank you for introducing Molly - never heard of her before but I love her craft!

speakout · 15/09/2020 16:56

Delphinium20

I am glad you like her- some of her poetry is fantastic too- the moon ones have helped me in some dark times.

THis poem is lovely too- full of positive affirmation:

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KateF · 15/09/2020 21:24

Thanks for your ideas Blank Times. Your soapbox is remarkably like mine! I have been trying to live a sustainable lifestyle since long before it was mainstream. I was vegetarian for years and am now vegan, preach reduce, reuse, recycle, local Green Party activist (not that my local party is very active mind you), buy eco-friendly everything. I know that preaching to teenagers is counterproductive but I had hoped the steady drip, drip, drip would be effective, and it has been in some ways. They eat little meat, no dairy or eggs, are good about recycling and avoiding single use plastics but when it comes to fast fashion, make-up/toiletries and dd1s cleaning thing I've not made much headway. They want what everyone else has and I do understand because I was horrendously bullied in my teens because I didn't have those things. Dd1 also has other things she is passionate about such as anti-racism (her godmother is Zambian and they are very close) and a growing interest in feminism which I am feeding.

Gosh, raising teens is hard! This is why I spend my working life with babies Grin

Broceliande your local history research is fascinating. My house was built in 1928 and we are only the third occupiers after the lady who had it built and the gentleman we bought it from who was 92 when he moved out. The land was previously a cart track through to farmland, now an estate, and so is a slightly eccentric rather skinny detached house!

speakout thanks for the recipe. I plan to buy some green beans tomorrow and give it a try. I will also have a go at flatbreads. Being off work this week means I can spend a bit more time cooking than usual.

YasmisCrone those sea pictures are wonderful. If I could change one thing about where I live it would be to have some coastline. I think Bedfordshire is about as far from the sea as you can get in England!

GinIsMySaviour · 16/09/2020 10:18

Good morning friends,

I hope everyone is doing well today - I feel like our Indian summer is over and that autumn is properly ready to be fully present now. I’m a bit sad to lose the wonderful sun we had yesterday but my little corner of London feels more in balance somehow now things are cooler and cloudier.

VioletCharlotte how is your DS? I hope he is feeling better and that you are getting a chance to relax in your week off.

Speakout thank you for sharing the recipe - sounds amazing and I’m looking forward to making it soon.

Yashmis what beautiful photos. When I moved into our current house, I was surprised that I had lost my usual craving to drive out to the sea / a river every weekend and then found out there is an underground river very close to where we live ... isn’t it funny how water can have such a connection with us.

I still miss the sea if I haven’t visited for a few weeks though so I can enjoy its power (and do the odd bit of paddling with DD and Ddog)

Broceliande your gardening plans sound amazing. I bet your indigenous plants from the old ways will flourish.

KateF oh gosh teenagers must be exhausting. My DD is 8 but already showing flashes of teenager behaviour so I’m bracing for that continue. I hope your girls start to appreciate your support and way of life soon.

My week has been fairly straightforward so far, for which I am very grateful. I do, however, have one story to tell - I got up for some water last night (just before 2am) and I heard an owl. I know most of you will have them around all the time but this was such a rare treat to hear one in zone 3. I’m hoping he / she is checking out a little wooded area nearby and may set up residence - I’m not sure how much food there will be for an owl family but if they can live off mice, they should be fine. I assume they’d be happy with town mice? Or do they prefer field mice? I have NO idea.

We’ve recently had a woodpecker set up home in the same woods and at the start of the summer, we had a sparrow hawk in our garden. It’s such a gift to see these amazing birds in town although the sparrowhawk scared the living daylights out of my cats ... “it’s a bird with longer claws than us -

Well, I had better go and walk DDog before getting stuck into work.

I wish you all peace and light today xx

queenrollo · 16/09/2020 15:50

I've just dipped into the Molly Roberts channel and the video about Pop Pantheons has really resonated with me. I have always struggled with identifying with deity etc beyond the Goddess and the way Molly frames this whole issue to use modern/fictional icons in the place of ancient figures makes a LOT of sense to me.
I feel deeply connected to Frida Kahlo, and have done long before she became such a popular figure and I have realised I have images of her in places around my house which have become mini altars.

I helped a friend clear some negative energy this morning. It's the first time I have actively performed ritual outside of my own personal and solitary practice. It's not something I have ever thought of doing, but they are a very close friend and they asked if I would do it as they felt 'stuck'. It has been an amazing experience but I am feeling a little fogged up now and need an Epsom soak to clear myself. I think my protection wasn't as strong as it needed to be.

YashmisCrone · 16/09/2020 19:57

Just stopping by before I light my candle and connect with the beautiful collective energy here. My favourite time of day 🙏

Look forward to catching up properly later but just had to share this. I thought it was beautiful:

“When my darkness seeps into my heart, when my bones bend with the sorrow.
When my flesh feels ready to welcome the end of this journey.
I remember the touch of wild water gliding over my skin.
The way the medicine plants give so freely.
I recall how the light of the moon kisses me as I sleep, and how the smell of rich deep earth feeds me.
The flight of buzzard and the swoop of swallow.
The sense of belonging in the arms of nature,
the kinship of my non human community.
I see the hearts I love, the ones I cherish.
And that darkness, that pain,
feels held, feels loved.
And I choose life, I choose me.”
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• Words Brigit Anna McNeill •
• Art by Taryn Knight •
tarynknight.com

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speakout · 16/09/2020 20:00

YashmisCrone

Beautiful. I have just lit my 8pm candle too as I settle down with some peppermint tea and consider and early night.
Blessings to everyone.

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WatershipDown7 · 16/09/2020 23:12

[quote YashmisCrone]Just stopping by before I light my candle and connect with the beautiful collective energy here. My favourite time of day 🙏

Look forward to catching up properly later but just had to share this. I thought it was beautiful:

“When my darkness seeps into my heart, when my bones bend with the sorrow.
When my flesh feels ready to welcome the end of this journey.
I remember the touch of wild water gliding over my skin.
The way the medicine plants give so freely.
I recall how the light of the moon kisses me as I sleep, and how the smell of rich deep earth feeds me.
The flight of buzzard and the swoop of swallow.
The sense of belonging in the arms of nature,
the kinship of my non human community.
I see the hearts I love, the ones I cherish.
And that darkness, that pain,
feels held, feels loved.
And I choose life, I choose me.”
——————
• Words Brigit Anna McNeill •
• Art by Taryn Knight •
tarynknight.com

www.facebook.com/562976081/posts/10157128890311082/[/quote]
Hello everyone. I have been lurking for a while and enjoying the contributions so much.
@YashmisCrone
That poem is so beautiful. I find it so moving.

Craftycorvid · 16/09/2020 23:23

Blessings, all! Just catching up with this thread and seeing delicious recipes to try (definitely going to try the stew) and lovely photos and art. What a magickal lot you all are!

I love this time of year - the liminality of the season always seems especially obvious summer to autumn. My mum’s birthday would have been this month, and she loved this time of year too. Mabon blessings!

Delphinium20 · 18/09/2020 02:22

@speakout thank you for the beautiful poem! It was a new moon and I found a bit of time to make some very small fresh starts.

speakout · 18/09/2020 06:30

Good morning. I am up just before dawn today to go to an early yoga class. I am a little nervous as it will be my first class in 6 months.
However it will be lovely to practice in a group again.
Then I have to pick up DD - she has to have her hamster euthanised at the vet, poor little thing, it's only 4 months old.
DD is then coming back home with me until tomorrow- with her laundry it seems, but a task I enjoy doing, a way to infuse some magic into her day to day!
We are set to have some bright sunny weather, perfect for drying clothes.
Cooking and trying to fit work around my other duties. Just having a blessed coffee to start my engine!
Delphinium20 it was YashmisCrone that posted the poem, and I agree it is very beautiful.
I am enjoying the new moon energy too, it has brought a jump start to my week.
I hope there are magical moments in everyone's path today.

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lasttimeround · 18/09/2020 07:19

Hello all, I hope it's ok to just drop in. Is anyone else planning for mabon? I am putting together my ritual/spell (maybe I'd call myself a freelance witch I seem to get ideas for something and then just do them) I was wondering how others mark it or if you have plans.

Craftycorvid · 18/09/2020 08:14

I’m going to be away for Mabon, but am hoping for a walk and being immersed in the changing seasons.

speakout · 18/09/2020 09:10

I like to mark Mabon too.
I will set up a small altar, do some baking, hold a small ritual, decorate the house with bounty.
Mabon is a lovely time to think about gratitude- a time to honour and respect ourselves- the fact we are holding things together during such challenging times.
I will use some of the time to nurture myself as a way of thanks.

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YashmisCrone · 18/09/2020 09:37

Welcome lasttimeround
I like autumn equinox for it’s theme of balance-like speakout I’ll be focusing on the balance I’ve managed to maintain despite uncertainty. I think the equally
balanced day and night provides a pause too, a moment to breathe, reflect on how far we’ve come and decide which direction we’re setting off again in.
Crafty I love this time of year - the liminality of the season always seems especially obvious summer to autumn. I feel the same and simply absorbing that energy seems magical to me

Sorry to hear about the hamster speakout, it’s always sad to lose a pet isn’t it. I hope your yoga session went well this morning.

High winds here coupled with clear skies and autumn sunshine are inspiring me to get some washing out there- feels like there’s an extra zing in the air!