good vibes request thread #2 (fm can't find theother one!)

[fransmom]

please could you lovelyladies please send some good vibes this way as have had some bad news a couple of days ago and with other things am feeling very low tonight.

many tia xxxx fm x

Good vibes sent
I hope you feel better soon
xxxxxxx

thank you. i should go to bed but don't feel like it. does that make sense?

sorry, hows you?

Sending you vibes, FM. Hope things are lokking brighter. xxx

Vibes from me too fransmom.

startouched - sorry, I know I owe you an email. Not ignoring you, just seem to have 1001 things to do whenever I get on the PC!

thak you very much ladies x i am thinking of going for counselling, though i should probably have gone a looooooong time ago x

Can I add here please - my granddad is in hospital, he doesn't recognise my dad, my dad hardly recognised him. It could go either way but they have signed a DNR.

Oh Flamey, so sorry.

Sending healing thoughts and wishes. xx

oh sweetheart, am sending helaing thoughts to your family xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

healing

Thank you

Sending vibes for you all, Flame.

Can I ask vibes for my bil? He has serious issues with alcohol and totally flipped at a family party at the weekend - we suspect he may have something like manic depression. He hasn't been seen since Saturday night.

Thinking of you too STT

Update from hospital is that he had a fair night, but no change. I don't know what has happened since Drs rounds etc.

'Vibes' for all who need it

Breathing easier, more comfortable but still no idea of long term prognosis.

Is it bad that part of me just wants him to stop suffering?

Flame of course it isn't bad, it's want we all want, the avoidance of suffering for our loved ones.

Better news here, so thanks for the thoughts and vibes. Bil spoke to dh on the phone, he has acknowledged he has a problem and says he will get help. Personally I think this is more likely to be more complex than a straightforward addiction. I'm hoping he gets the right help soon, and that fil and others are understanding.

Granddad is about the same - no update really. His other eye has gone cloudy so they think he has probably had a stroke and lost the sight from that one now too. He isn't responding when my dad asks him to squeeze his hand etc so we don't know if he has lost his hearing completely now or just can't/won't squeeze.

Apparently the minister is there now... this can't be good

Strength Flamey.

Hearing is the last to go, so tell your dad to keep talking to him.

You know where I am if you need a chat.

xx

Thanks

The minister was just the friend of the family who has known him for years, not a last rites kind of visit as such.

They met with the doctors today, and have decided to stop his antibiotics. It is the right decision - he will have painkillers, but that is it.

On top of that they have found my gran's diaries (kept every day all her life), and it turns out that all the bitter and venom that she put across whilst she was alive, she poured into those. They are being destroyed so that she can cause no more pain.

A good burning I hope, sounds like they are fit for nothing else.

Yup (or ) - we're all wondering if the bloody things will actually light though!

Liquid BBQ fuel - wonderful stuff

flamey am sorry to hear about your grandad, how are things tonight sweetheart? i felt elated at the thought that my mom wouldn't be suffering anymore, it is a completely natural feeling to have and as stt says, it is what we all want for our relatives.
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stt, hope things work out for your bil.
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