Im just saying "i have no belief in God" equates to "I believe there is no God". Why is that contentious?
Its not 'contentious', its just wrong. Of course you can find an atheist that also believes their is no god, but you can equally find christians that also believe their is no god. The only thing atheists have in common is that they dont have confidence in the evidence of a diety existing (therefore they have no belief in any deity existing).
I dont get why you think you know what atheists believe better than any atheist does.
This even comes up on Wikipedia
Wikipedia is a reasonable source but it is not a definitive source. If I found something that someone on wikipedia said 'christians' believe, does that mean all christians believe it? The best way to find out what people believe is to ask them. And no atheists on here have said that their atheism means they believe their is no god.
FYI wikipedia says about atheism is in its broadest sense, an absence of belief in the existence of deities. Less broadly, atheism is a rejection of the belief that any deities exist. And in an even narrower sense, atheism is specifically the position that there are no deities. So you are taking a minority position and trying to turn it into a majority belief.
"position", view, belief whilst similar are not the same thing.
The secular way of seeing will only admit the ordinary world
aka Only believing things that you can have confidence that the evidence shows has a high probability of being true.
The religious world view admits more than this
I agree, religious people do say they believe things they have no evidence to demonstrate is true. I accept they believe it, I just cant join them without good reason.
you cant measure love for example I guess we agree to disagree, you can measure love in many ways. eg Just have a read around the various forums of MN and you will find many examples that demonstrates if a person loves you or not.
Is this all it is? Or is it more than that? For me love is a feeling, it is demonstrated by an action. Not sure how that is in anyway connected to believing in a god.
You need facts No, I need confidence in the evidence. I have confidence in someone who treats me with respect, lies in bed with me every night, doesn't sleep with other men, buys me gifts, shares my life etc etc
I do not have confidence in someone who never talks to me, never meets me, never buys me gifts, doesn't share my life ...
On a separate note. I have a friend who is a christian minister, their husband works for a company that makes missiles. We recently had a conversation and he explained that god helps him make better guidance systems so their is less collateral damage. Isn't god great at saving lives. I literally did not know what to say. I mean, WTF?