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Spiritualist church, medium, non religious ? help with the ghost please........

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lulumama · 07/04/2007 14:03

Right ! thanks to all who contributed to my original EEEEEEEEEEEK ! thread, have decided to take the matter in hand and find someone to deal with the ghostly goings on in Lulu towers!

so, anyone with any experience of having their house cleansed, blessed etc.

original thread is here

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 07:16

STG, i spoke to the little boy once, when he first appeared, and he went away, but now he is back and he is naughty !! and that scares me, i think actually, he is ok, and there is another naughty spirit

Lucy- it has coincided with me spending more time in the top floor of the house, which we rarely use, and quite a busy and stressful time for me and DH !

yes, frogs, coincidence, or meant to be !!! ??

will keep you all posted xx

thanks for the support

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LilRedWG · 20/04/2007 08:09

Glad it's getting sorted Lulu!

Ladies - I realise that some of the posts have caused contention, but can we please not turn this into another bickering match. Lulu came here for advice and support. If you want to argue, please do so elsewhere.

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 16:32

my friend's friend cam round at lunchtime, and neither i nor my friend had told her anything other than there was a spirit....

so, as soon as she walked in , she stood in the hall , and said something is here, and she had a good walk around the rest of the house

she felt something in the bathroom, and down the corridor to the bathroom....

also, felt something in DDs room , which i mentioned on my other thread, i had felt something when i used to feed her in the night !

she also has a contact at the spiritualist church so is going to try and get someone to come and have a look !!

so , i sort of feel better knowing we are not imagining it, and that she can find us someone hopefully to sort it out!!

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muppethasakitten · 20/04/2007 17:09

Well done lulu! At least you know it wasn't in your head now! We wait with interest to see what happens next...

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 17:10

thanks muppet !!

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SpookyMadMummy · 20/04/2007 17:29

Yes, Lulu's upstairs is a bit spooky(!) I must say. I did definitely feel like I was being watched from getting to the top of the stairs....

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 17:51

just filled DH in , on what the psychic lady said, and he said, 'erm, i meant to tell you that when i went to the bathroom a couple of mornings ago, someone was in there with me !!! heard the floorboards creak, thought it was DS, and then felt a cold breeze on the backs of my legs....and DS was not there........'

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEKKKKK!!

Also, pyschic lady thinks that the little boy is being more active as he is drawn to DD's presence , as she is just fizzing with energy, so might be looking for a playmate !

also, she felt a bit of a something by my side of the bed, wondering if the little boy is looking for a mum and dad....?

none of us think that this spirit is malevolent in any way, i am happy for us all to live together, but not get frightened!!

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HEIFER · 20/04/2007 18:02

Lulu - I can't believe that I missed this..

I was spending too much time take the p*ss out of your crocs..

Seems to me that you are doing the right thing re church involved, but out of interest

What is the jewish take on such things?

Do religious jews believe such spirits exist? if so why don't you approach the jewish church to ask for help? that way you may feel more comfortable with whatever they do in your house.

I am really having to hold myself back here and not take the p*ss in any way, it's killing me...

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 18:05

am grateful for you r lack of snorting Heif,,
well, Jewish people can actually be quite superstitious, and we believe in souls and heaven and that sort of thing

we have mezzuzhas ( little decorative thing ) on our doors, containing a prayer, to keep our houses safe and blessed....

asked Dad about blessing the house, he is going to try and find something

the rabbi near us is very very very old, but we are getting a new one soon, and he might be someone to ask

i am quite superstitious and had a little amulet in DDs cot to keep away nastiness until she was about a year old, i wear a red string, i have had it for ages, but have just put it on, as feel i need more protection

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HEIFER · 20/04/2007 18:14

Even I wouldn't take the p*ss on something serious like this lulu...

I think you should stick to the jewish side of things, as you will be more comfortable and understanding of what they do..

If you go down the Christian route (which is what I would do) then you may not feel as though the problem is solved afterward and will waste time worrying about it afterwards.

Please don't feel that you need protection lulu - it seems from your posts that you nothing to fear, just need to understand a little more of what/why has happened.

Good luck getting it sorted

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 18:30

well, i actually managed to make contacct with the spiritualist church after all that !!

they are h aving two evenings at the church this week, but one is tomorrow, and i have the baby day all day ,and the other is on wednesday , when i cannot go !!! but there was a phone number... so spoke to someone who said if i call back at some point tomorrow afternoon, he can arrange someone to have a chat with me !

so that is progress...

heif.... i will feel it will be dealt with properly, regardless of it being churchy , as they will know what they are doing, and that is all i need!

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fryalot · 20/04/2007 19:01

well, it's good that it looks like it's getting sorted at last

Wotzsaname · 20/04/2007 19:22

lulu I don't know what to say. I have never seen a ghost. Is dd OK?

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 19:23

she is fine, only me and DH have seen / been aware of anything.....

bit spooooky though !!

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Wotzsaname · 20/04/2007 19:25

very but if you live in the old part of c'twm it is very very old around there. Lots of history. Lovely too.

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 19:26

we are outside of the actual c'town proper , more H park area. but old house, almost 100 years,

what has shocked me more, i think, is DH is so actually convinced it is happening, as he is not a beleiver, IFYSWIM, but he is wanting to get it sorted

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Wotzsaname · 20/04/2007 19:30

H area is still nice, one of the first house we looked at was there but we didn't get it.

I hope you get it sorted out.

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 19:32

thanks wotz! maybe one day you will join us for a cuppa at lulu towers !!

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LilRedWG · 20/04/2007 19:49

Lulu - glad this is getting somewhere for you. You may be suprised - DD may see this little boy (children are supposed to be more open to seeing things) but not say anything because A: she's not old enough to explain and B: she won't see it as a problem. To her it is a little friend who wants to talk to her. I think he's quite sweet, but mischevious, from what you've said, but what little boy isn't? I'm also glad that you don't particularly want to evict him, just for him to be a good boy

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 19:53

thanks Lilred.... i am happy for him to stay, as long as he is well behaved, same as i expect of my real children !!

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LilRedWG · 20/04/2007 19:54

fransmom · 20/04/2007 21:22

hi lulu! i am glad that things are getting on for you and it pulled at the heart strings when you mentioned he might be looking for a mom and dad

when i was in the bathroom on my own a couple of weeks ago i heard a little girl call me "mom" and i had to explain to her that i wasn't her real mom but she sounded like a lovely little girl so i would ask my mother (who died 8years ago this june) to come and look after and take her to the angels. and you know what? the little girl was quite happy with this and went off holding my moms hand.

so it's nothing to be scared of and i agree with lilredwig - your dd may well have seen him as very young children are very perceptive and wouldn't have seen anything unusual in a little boy wanting a playmate. you are right to expect him to abide by your rules if he wanted to stay!

fransmom · 20/04/2007 21:22

oops sorry, lilredwg

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lulumama · 20/04/2007 21:24

thanks fransmom ,that is sweet...x

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fransmom · 20/04/2007 21:37

let us know how you get on with your friend's contact(?) x

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