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A new Christian prayer thread for summer...

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Tuo · 22/06/2016 01:38

This thread is a safe space where anyone - regular, occasional visitor, lurker, committed Christian or waverer - is welcome to come and leave their prayers in the knowledge that they will be prayed for. No problem is too big or small to share here, and if you just want to come and say 'hi', that's fine too.

Looking back through our previous thread, we pray in particular for:

abbsismyhero - for help with her anxiety and relationship with an abusive ex.

amberlight - for her work supporting people with autism, and for health and happiness for her and her family.

Aphie - for her fiancé's family following the sudden death of his uncle, and for her anxiety.

BlackEyedSusan - for all that she has to juggle as a single mum, for her DC, and for her mum.

Bluetinkerbell - five years on from the loss of her baby DD, Sterre.

Cocoa button - for issues around the safety of her DS2.

Dontbesilly - for strength as she grieves the loss of her dad, for her mum and the rest of her family, for her DD's school issues, and for Dont's own health.

drspouse - for full recovery from a recent chest infection and for happiness and a warm welcome in her new church.

DutchOma - with gratitude for all she does to support people on this thread and elsewhere, and for her to find peace and joy in her life following the loss of her beloved Bob.

EdithSimcox - for her to find joy and fulfilment in her faith and understanding and support from her DP.

ethelb - for her MIL who has blood clots in her leg and suspected sarcoma, and for all who love and care for her.

FaithLoveandHope - for her anxiety and depression to lift and for her to be able to avoid falling into despair and self-harm, and for her relationship with her DSD.

greyscalealmond - for her depression to be alleviated and for family relationships.

HardyLeodicean - especially for her FIL and for a recently-bereaved friend.

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece - for her friend's pregnancy.

LarrytheCucumber - for family members involved in fostering and adoption, for the DC involved, and for their birth parents and all involved in their ongoing care.

LifeofBriony - for her relationship with her DH and for her DD's friend, J, who is in a coma after a seizure.

LittleBootsTheBabe - for healing and happiness for an acquaintance of hers.

MadHairDay - for her health, and for her whole family at a time of change and uncertainty.

Malefriendproblem - for her relationship with an old friend which has turned sour, and for her DD who suffers from anxiety.

Newmamatobe - for her new life with her baby DD and free of alcohol.

niminypiminy - who will be ordained very soon.

passportmess - for her friend who has schleroderma.

Paulat2112 - for friends who are experiencing relationship difficulties.

PositiveAttitude - for her whole family, but especially her DD1 who has been depressed, her pregnant DD2, her mum and dad, her DH and his work. Above all, we pray for PA herself, who is always there for others when they need her, for her studies, and for a potential house-move.

QoF - for her relationship with her DH.

SESthebrave - for all who are grieving over the loss of a friend from church, for work-related decision-making, and for the friend who was Best Man at her wedding whose relationship has broken down following his wife's infidelity.

SouthernLassie - for her relationship with a colleague.

sweetandsour - for her auntie who has been diagnosed with cancer, and for her mum and all who love and care for her auntie.

Teallove - for her to feel free to move on following the breakdown of a relationship.

Trazzletoes - for her 6-year-old DS who has previously had cancer and who is now unwell again - praying for a swift (and hopefully reassuring) diagnosis and for Trazzletoes and all who love him at this worrying time.

Tweebee - for her DS to settle at nursery.

And also thinking of friends who haven't visited for a while, who who pop in only occasionally, including ALittleFaith, Anjelica27, Kaykat, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, Pandora97, shortscotty, weegiemum and others.

And, as always, prayers for anyone I've forgotten (with apologies), for all who lurk but don't post, and for newbies who may not have posted yet.

This prayer was posted by Edith on the old thread, and I really like it and would like it to stand for what this new thread is all about:

All that we are, Lord,
we place into your hands.
All that we do, Lord,
we place into your hands.

Everything we work for,
we place into your hands.
Everything we hope for,
we place into your hands.

The troubles that weary us,
we place into your hands.
Thoughts that disturb us,
we place into your hands.

Each that we pray for,
we place into your hands.
Each that we care for,
we place into your hands. Amen

OP posts:
Orchidflower1 · 05/10/2016 20:12

heavenly father please be with bes and all the family as they walk through this difficult time with school. Send your healing Holy Spirit to alleviate the stress and anxiety so that the best outcome can occur. Send wisdom to the teaching staff/ head so that they make good choices with your guidance. Amen

passportmess · 05/10/2016 22:37

Praying Bes that this gets resolved asap.

Praying also for the health concerns big and small on this thread.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2016 07:38

thanks for your prayers. it realy helped knowing that someone had prayed. it made a big difference to me being able to keep calm and not brood on it.

Dutchoma · 06/10/2016 08:50

Hopefully you will not have long to wait before you see some result of your emails. Meanwhile prayers remain with you to keep calm and capable of dealing with all the storms life throws at you.

Cocoabutton · 06/10/2016 10:22

I am praying for you too bes, it is so hard to manage everything and keep advocating. You are doing so well and I am praying for a favourable response to your effortsFlowers

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2016 15:55

I need masses of wisdom to know what to do next.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2016 15:56

oh and I have been praying for no's op. and calmness for all with anxiety.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2016 16:10

and another school visit. hope we manage this one without a meltdown.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2016 17:20

... though it is not looking hopeful given the noises being emitted

Dutchoma · 06/10/2016 17:35

Praying BES, for wisdom and calm and all things to go smoothly

Cocoabutton · 06/10/2016 17:36

Prayers bes Flowers

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2016 22:59

not as bad as he was at other schools.

Dutchoma · 07/10/2016 07:30

Praise the Lord for small mercies. How are you coping with all other difficulties?

Orchidflower1 · 07/10/2016 10:03

bes glad it was more positive. Prayers for thanks for you.

cocoa how are you with your anxiety and all you have going on?

Things with me had thankfully been getting better anxiety/ calm house wise until yesterday. Dh had very cross, shouty episode over dishwasher. I'm going to contact doc next week as these mood swings can't be good for anyone and I'm sure it's not all my fault. He takes meds for long term condition wondering about side effects. Today is mil bday meal and dh is just taking chn. This was arranged before yesterday as I knew I'd be too anxious to go. Hate being on my own at night anyway. Praying I shall be calm and chn will have a nice time.

Cocoabutton · 07/10/2016 10:54

Orchid, of course it is not all your faultFlowers. It is good that you can see this, the Lord will guide you to clarity and speaking to people in RL is a good step to take. Your GP may not be able to discuss DH for reasons of confidentiality but they will be able to discuss the way you are feeling about it and hopefully suggest a way forward. Do you have a sympathetic GP? Have you read the info leaflet in the box with his meds?

I am praying for you that you are calm today. Do you have a plan to do something nice when DC and DH are away?

Thank you for thinking of me. I am at work (annual review in a bit); I will write more later.

Dutchoma · 07/10/2016 11:28

Orchid have you looked at the relationship thread and checked out 'emotional abuse'? A partner making you feel anxious and making you feel that it is'all your fault' could fall under that category. Maybe it doesn't, maybe it does and then you will have to decide how to deal with it. Maybe when you are on your own tonight you could have a look at it.

You remain in my prayers.
Cocoa I hope the review went alright.

Orchidflower1 · 07/10/2016 13:35

oma thank you for your support I will prob be on mums net quite a bit later whilst I'm on my own. As soon as they ( dh & chn) go out I'm planning on getting into bed watching TV, colouring, reading and trying to relax. They prob won't be back until 10.30/11 ish ( chn will be tired Tom). Trying not to get stressed about them going out and being later than I would like. Everything stresses me at the moment!!
cocoa how was review?

Thank you all for keeping me in your prayers.
Praying also for those affected by hurricane Matthew

Dutchoma · 07/10/2016 16:38

Sounds like a lovely evening Orchid

Cocoabutton · 07/10/2016 18:11

The review was long - it is a new system and it is part one of a two stage process and also, the reviewer is now outside your line management. But it was refreshing and really helpful because my reviewer spent quite a lot of time being constructive and helping me prioritise several objectives. And I managed not to cry, which I was worried about because it has been a difficult year personally and I had lost sight of any kind of professional identity, and I was expecting to have to justify myself a lot, which did not happen.

It was a surreal experience though because it was like he was talking to and about a parallel me, and I have not stepped into that parallel self again. It seems slightly more possible now though, so in that sense, I can only be grateful for the time he gave to it. It is scary how much of a mess my head still is though - I can see clarity on paper, but I can't join the pieces in my head. It is hard to describe the feeling of being fragmented I have, it sounds quite bonkersHmm

Apart from that, I really want to ask for prayers in the on-going legal situation. After much prayer and reflection, my solicitor has written honestly and openly about my concerns and the longer and shorter term events which led to contact stopping with DS with a view to his involvement in addressing these over time. It is an attempt to be conciliatory and compassionate whilst maintaining boundaries around what I would hope is an acceptable way forward. It may not be the immediate answer xH wants but I am praying he responds positively and not by rushing to court. Please pray for a positive response for me which allows time and space to sort things in DS best interests longer term.

Cocoabutton · 07/10/2016 18:14

His involvement = xH's involvement

Cocoabutton · 07/10/2016 18:15

Orchid I hope you have a restful eveningFlowers

Cocoabutton · 07/10/2016 18:16

Oh, and my solicitor was not praying and reflecting, I was

Dutchoma · 07/10/2016 19:00

Sounds to me Cocoa that you have so much stuff going on in your life that I am surprised to have any sense of self or identity left over. I'm glad that you could get a glimpse of your professional 'self' that your reviewer could see and which you might see as well and step into. It's obviously there. Excellent news about not crying.
As far as exh is concerned, you can only hope that he is sensible, but if he does rush straight to court it might be like he is the unreasonable one and not you. All you can go on doing is keeping your ds safe. I hope you have a lovely weekend.

passportmess · 07/10/2016 19:41

Praying for our family members to engage with their common sense. If not, praying for strength...

Orchidflower1 · 07/10/2016 20:26

cocoa thanks for the prayers. Praying for you too.
passport a very sensible and hopefully helpful prayer thanks.