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A new Christian prayer thread for summer...

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Tuo · 22/06/2016 01:38

This thread is a safe space where anyone - regular, occasional visitor, lurker, committed Christian or waverer - is welcome to come and leave their prayers in the knowledge that they will be prayed for. No problem is too big or small to share here, and if you just want to come and say 'hi', that's fine too.

Looking back through our previous thread, we pray in particular for:

abbsismyhero - for help with her anxiety and relationship with an abusive ex.

amberlight - for her work supporting people with autism, and for health and happiness for her and her family.

Aphie - for her fiancé's family following the sudden death of his uncle, and for her anxiety.

BlackEyedSusan - for all that she has to juggle as a single mum, for her DC, and for her mum.

Bluetinkerbell - five years on from the loss of her baby DD, Sterre.

Cocoa button - for issues around the safety of her DS2.

Dontbesilly - for strength as she grieves the loss of her dad, for her mum and the rest of her family, for her DD's school issues, and for Dont's own health.

drspouse - for full recovery from a recent chest infection and for happiness and a warm welcome in her new church.

DutchOma - with gratitude for all she does to support people on this thread and elsewhere, and for her to find peace and joy in her life following the loss of her beloved Bob.

EdithSimcox - for her to find joy and fulfilment in her faith and understanding and support from her DP.

ethelb - for her MIL who has blood clots in her leg and suspected sarcoma, and for all who love and care for her.

FaithLoveandHope - for her anxiety and depression to lift and for her to be able to avoid falling into despair and self-harm, and for her relationship with her DSD.

greyscalealmond - for her depression to be alleviated and for family relationships.

HardyLeodicean - especially for her FIL and for a recently-bereaved friend.

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece - for her friend's pregnancy.

LarrytheCucumber - for family members involved in fostering and adoption, for the DC involved, and for their birth parents and all involved in their ongoing care.

LifeofBriony - for her relationship with her DH and for her DD's friend, J, who is in a coma after a seizure.

LittleBootsTheBabe - for healing and happiness for an acquaintance of hers.

MadHairDay - for her health, and for her whole family at a time of change and uncertainty.

Malefriendproblem - for her relationship with an old friend which has turned sour, and for her DD who suffers from anxiety.

Newmamatobe - for her new life with her baby DD and free of alcohol.

niminypiminy - who will be ordained very soon.

passportmess - for her friend who has schleroderma.

Paulat2112 - for friends who are experiencing relationship difficulties.

PositiveAttitude - for her whole family, but especially her DD1 who has been depressed, her pregnant DD2, her mum and dad, her DH and his work. Above all, we pray for PA herself, who is always there for others when they need her, for her studies, and for a potential house-move.

QoF - for her relationship with her DH.

SESthebrave - for all who are grieving over the loss of a friend from church, for work-related decision-making, and for the friend who was Best Man at her wedding whose relationship has broken down following his wife's infidelity.

SouthernLassie - for her relationship with a colleague.

sweetandsour - for her auntie who has been diagnosed with cancer, and for her mum and all who love and care for her auntie.

Teallove - for her to feel free to move on following the breakdown of a relationship.

Trazzletoes - for her 6-year-old DS who has previously had cancer and who is now unwell again - praying for a swift (and hopefully reassuring) diagnosis and for Trazzletoes and all who love him at this worrying time.

Tweebee - for her DS to settle at nursery.

And also thinking of friends who haven't visited for a while, who who pop in only occasionally, including ALittleFaith, Anjelica27, Kaykat, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, Pandora97, shortscotty, weegiemum and others.

And, as always, prayers for anyone I've forgotten (with apologies), for all who lurk but don't post, and for newbies who may not have posted yet.

This prayer was posted by Edith on the old thread, and I really like it and would like it to stand for what this new thread is all about:

All that we are, Lord,
we place into your hands.
All that we do, Lord,
we place into your hands.

Everything we work for,
we place into your hands.
Everything we hope for,
we place into your hands.

The troubles that weary us,
we place into your hands.
Thoughts that disturb us,
we place into your hands.

Each that we pray for,
we place into your hands.
Each that we care for,
we place into your hands. Amen

OP posts:
BlackeyedSusan · 21/09/2016 17:34

I live opposite a mind erm... house/centre

Orchidflower1 · 21/09/2016 18:46

bes is the centre not nice? I went to like an office type thing with little rooms off it but as I was leaving I heard one member of staff talking about the cafe they ( mind) have next door.- didn't even know they did stuff like that but maybe I missheard. Tbh I was done so I just wanted to leave xx

Cocoabutton · 21/09/2016 20:39

Well done Orchid, really pleased you persevered through the nerves - I hope the centre are helpful and you got some rest when you got home.

SingaSong12 · 21/09/2016 21:20

Hi
Just coming back to thank you for your prayers. I didn't get the job, but I think it was for the best, and good experience for future job applications. i'm not upset at all, it just wasn't the right thing at the moment.

Cocoabutton · 21/09/2016 21:29

Hey, thank you for the updateSmile. I was thinking about you the other day! I am glad you feel the interview was a positive experience- the right job will come when you are ready.

Early night here, praying you are all okayFlowers

Dutchoma · 21/09/2016 22:40

Thanks for the update Singasong. We always knew it could go both ways and I am very pleased that you found it a positive experience.
Mind do all sorts of things Orchid, to help as many people as possible. I'm glad yo managed to persevere and I hope you had some rest when you got home.

Orchidflower1 · 23/09/2016 10:25

Got doc this morning to discuss meds so anxious plus dh cross again last night but I'll chat more about that later. You've been great but please keep praying for calm in me and my house xx

Dutchoma · 23/09/2016 10:58

Praying Orchid. Do come and talk if it helps. It worries me that so often the cause of your anxiety is stress and anger from your husband.

Cocoabutton · 23/09/2016 13:38

Praying for you too OrchidFlowers

Cocoabutton · 23/09/2016 14:50

Strength, strength, strength - remembering there is a world beyond certain difficulties which grip me with panic. Praying that God will give me strength to do the right thing, and time - to find the right path, time to reflect. Time to stop just feeling sad. Making sure we can stay safe and afloat. Praying, oh my God, praying to the heavens, please God, keep me calm and safe Flowers

Orchidflower1 · 24/09/2016 19:03

cocoa I'm not sure if the prayer was for you/ me / both of us or general but thank you anyway. Hope you're ok.
Dh gone out with bil so am on trying to be calm. Dc in bed watching TV I'm listening to panpipes on headphones. Praying for calm xx

passportmess · 24/09/2016 20:16

Praying for calmness and peace for all on this thread.

I'm returning to my new church home with ds tomorrow. It's just dawned on me that it is 62 days til the beginning of the Church year and I'd like to prepare by buying a few book for Advent or indeed the church liturgical year in the round. I like Henri Nouwen and I see books by Thomas Merton on Advent are recommended on Amazon. I also like Rowan Williams. Would any person reading, lurker or regular poster have any recommendations? I've had difficult family issues this year and have become isolated from my family of origin and I'm trying hard to be more of a community Christian rather than a hermit Christian, if that makes sense. Preparing for Advent is especially important for me this year. Thank you in advance.

Cocoabutton · 24/09/2016 20:36

The first one was definitely for you, Orchid, the second was me praying to God, to stop me panicking. If it helps you or anyone else of course, I am happy with that. I always pray for those dealing with similar and other struggles, it makes me feel less alone.

I am so scared of DS's dad getting back into our lives, which of course he will and the law will grant him that right; and also DS should longer term know his father. But he did so much damage; I am trying to work on compassion but you are talking about a person who is psychologically very controlling and who abused DS. I am praying for guidance really, and strength to navigate through this. I am so tired of living with this tangled heat of anxiety in my chest, but I need to get to a place which is liveable with, and be able to move on. Which means I need to keep speaking my truth and protecting DS.

I have moments of sheer terror. I was brought up to be a compliant person! This is non-compliance big time for meShock. But I believe I am doing the right thing, may God guide me to a compassionate, safe and workable way through.

Cocoabutton · 24/09/2016 20:42

Hi passport, x-post, I understand what you being a hermit Christian; I feel like I have become a hermit full stop. Maybe one way through for me is re-establishing old links. I will be happy to see any recommendations you get

passportmess · 24/09/2016 20:54

Cocoa what a stressful situation to be involved in. However, if there has been a gap since his father has lived with him and your son is now older, I think it will be easier to mediate the situation. There is some distance in time and place. You were brought up with an expectation of compliance on your part but remember, on big important issues you can stand up for your family. This perception that kind people are weak - a misperception if there ever was one!

Cocoabutton · 25/09/2016 18:56

Thank you passport; I think if I did not immediately respond with terror to any thought of contact, it would be easier! I am working with an older understanding of things, whereas you are right, there is some distance and clarity. DS has benefited enormously from the break in contact, he is more settled and I am seeing more clearly his stress and trigger points.

I went back and read recent correspondence- it is more conciliatory than I initially read. I think I need to hold my faith and courage to argue for the right path for DS shorter and longer term. I have stood up so far, I will continue to do so.

How did you get on at Church? DS is expressing an interest in going - I am pleased, as I have stayed away as I thought he would not cope with it. I would like to take him.

passportmess · 25/09/2016 19:20

It went really well today Cocoa! Ds is going to the Children's liturgy and he is reading a little prayer next week at the service. He is preparing for a sacrament so there is a little homework but he is enjoying going to church with me and I am enjoying the community aspect as well as the prayer! It's the thing that we do together as a team.

Orchidflower1 · 25/09/2016 19:28

Hi all so sorry things are tough for you cocoa I wish i had your strength. Praying for you.

passport glad church is going well.

had been having a nice day - dh taken chn out to shops and lunch then I cooked roast. Then dog pooed in kitchen and dh got v cross as I hadn walked him far. I love him so much but I know he's fed up of my anxiety😢

passportmess · 25/09/2016 19:36

That's hardly fair on you Orchid. My little Jack Russell preferred to go at home (but not in the kitchen).

Orchidflower1 · 25/09/2016 20:22

Thanks passport it was my fault as he ( dog) had only had 2 short walks. Just taken him again but he didn't go ( cos of kitchen). Dh says he may go to stay at his mums Tom as he needs a break ( from me and my MH issues) am beside myself . Sitting upstairs trying to cry quietly so I don't wake chn

Cocoabutton · 25/09/2016 21:08

He needs a break from you and your MH issuesHmm I am sending you courage to believe the problem lies with him here and not you; and I am praying that you know you did not ask to be ill and you, like everyone, deserve compassion. I pray that you find comfort somehow. It almost sounds like he trying to make you feel insecure, saying he will leave (even temporarily- that is a rotten thing to do)Flowers

Where was he to walk the dog?

Can I ask you something kindly? When he is away, what is the source of your anxiety? That is the first question. The second is what support you have, beyond him, I mean.

Cocoabutton · 25/09/2016 21:12

I should also have said thank you for your prayers. Yes, things are tough but they have been worse. I am keeping faith, prayers are helping.

Orchidflower1 · 25/09/2016 21:19

Thanks cocoa he keeps saying he can't cope anymore with things. I have very little support- my family don't live nearby and inlaws don't really contact me. Dh talks/ sees them regularly due to work but they don't understand and think of something is wrong or dh is a bit grumpy it's automatically my fault. I'm so so sad and lonely and clinging on to the love of God.

Dutchoma · 25/09/2016 21:29

Orchid I am wondering whether you and you MH issues might benefit from a break. It is extremely unfair of your husband to just opt out of family life and leave you with dog and children to look after.
I wish you much strength.
Cocoa, it's difficult, isn't it, when old issues cannot be forgotten. I hope ds copes with renewed contact, but if not, you will be more aware of the signs that he is not coping.
Passport, lovely to hear that your ds is coming to church with you. Is he preparing for first communion?
I went to a nearby church this evening for solemn evensong with about 60 people (from three churches) in the choir, followed by an organ recital. I opted out of training in 'natural evangelism' in the church I belong to Blush

Orchidflower1 · 25/09/2016 21:30

I don't understand how someone I love this much can say unkind things when he says he loves me too.