DS (14 yo) and myself discussed the fine tuning argument over dinner yesterday and I have to say it is pretty ridiculous. The example he used was, imagine an ant on a leaf floating on the Atlantic ocean looking around and saying, "omg, this ocean is so perfect the wise ant in the sky must have designed it specifically for us to live on." Later a wave kills them. Seriously, theists use this to prove god exists?
We live in a Universe that is on the whole inhospitable to human life, in a billion years our planet will be destroyed by the sun and bible bashers claim this is proof of a god?
For 14 billion years humans didn't exist, if anything you would claim earth was made for bacteria or dinosaurs not mammals, that was just a quirk (random asteroid) of fate.
Looking at it from the other side. If god created this universe, why did he do such a crappy job. He had the power to have a cosmological constant of zero but he didn't fancy a nice safe universe. If he just wanted to create life why didn't he create a stable world instead of a massively unstable universe? Why did he wait so long. Why create dinosaurs?
Seriously the fine tuning argument is about as useful as Santa.