Edith No, that's not the argument I'm making.
Firstly, I am not talking about evolution. There's nothing in evolutionary theory that relies on having to accept stunningly unlikely coincidences.
The issue at hand is how we happen to live in a universe that is, apparently, so perfect for us. Indeed, so incredibly perfect that if gravity (for example) was even minutely weaker or stronger than it is, we would not be here. There are several such values with other forces that are seemingly "fine-tuned".
It's basically argument from design's more intellectual brother. But it's no more convincing when you think about it.
The reason the universe looks exactly the way it does is because we are here to observe it.
That's not as throwaway as it seems - that's the answer. If the universe did not have the precise values it does, we would not be here. And another sentient being in another different type of universe would not be there to ask questions about it's universe unless it's universe was perfectly able to support it.
But we then have to ask....actually, how perfect is our universe for us, anyway? We only need to head a few miles up to die leaving our own planet. For all we know, there may be precisely nowhere else in the entire universe where we could settle without our eyeballs being sucked from their sockets (a la Buzz Lightyear). So, how on earth can anyone suggest that it is here just for us?
We have no idea at all whether our universe existing as it does is a "staggering coincidence". We have no idea if there were any failed attempts or how many. We don't know if ours is the only one, or whether there are an infinite number of others....in which case, nothing "coincidental" about it at all.
And even if we could somehow determine that an intelligent thought process was responsible for the universe....what on earth makes us decide it was all for us?
Finally...from the theistic point of view, the biggest problem is that the fine tuning argument is inconsistent wih their notion of an omnipotent being anyway. Why do we have to exist in a universe that is "perfect" for us when, if Yahweh made it all, he can use him omnipotence to place us in any type of universe he fancied.
The fact that we are living in a universe that needs to be the way it is in order for us to be here strongly, strongly implies a naturalistic not supernatural explanation.