"I took the view that you did not have to take a literal view of the Bible and the church's teachings; as a child I was very literal-minded. I also love the sense of community in church.
Does anyone think it is because a generation of young adults are remembering being forced to obediently sing hymns, hear prayers from their school days, had to learn "impossibilities" such as the great flood, and are now making sure their children won't have to do the same, now that they have the right to say something which they didn't as a child?"
I suppose for me, it's simply that I don't believe in God. It's got nothing to do with the sort of things you mention, although I did go to an RC school (complete with nuns!) and get plenty of religion, I just never believed in it.
The key here as far as my experience goes is whether you are a spiritual person or not, isn't it? And I think this is just an aspect of us, of personality. Some people have a feeling or sense that there must be more to it, that there is some kind of guiding force or higher power or originator or something, and some people just don't have that feeling at all. I think it's wrong to say that non religious people are turned off it all - studies show that people who are religious are happier - I think due to a combination of feeling meaning in life and also the community aspect. So if it were a matter of "choice" - choose to believe or not, sensible people would choose to believe. But it's not a choice is it, you can't make yourself believe in something (anything) that you just don't.
So I think that's it really. Some people are "spiritual" and they tend to find a way to express that whether it's through the religion they grew up with, another mainstream denomination, something that speaks to them that is more uncommon (I have a friend who is a pagan) or something that they think of for themselves. People like my DH, who believes there is "something" but he doesn't know what, and he doesn't agree with organised religion. He is "spiritual" - he has that side, some people simply don't.
In days gone by it was the "done thing" to go to church (well and before that it was compulsory!) but as times have changed people are freer to follow the path they feel fits for them. And for many, this is a non traditional religion, a personal thing with no organised aspect to it, or simply none.
This is a good thing, it's progress that people can be how they are without fear.
Did anyone ever really think that when a large % of the population went to church every week that they all actually believed it? And that something has happened to stop people believing? If so, maybe I can understand some of the upset.But it's not true. The people who don't go - they are happier fulfilling their spirituality in a different way - or they are happy not having to go along with something that they simply do not understand and never will.
That's my view 