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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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Dutchoma · 05/07/2015 21:39

Why is she so inconsoleable Edith. Is there no way she can be happy because you are happy? Praying for both of you.

EdithSimcox · 05/07/2015 21:49

She feels betrayed, in short. I'm not happy if she's not happy, just stuck between a rock and a hard place.

QofF · 05/07/2015 23:05

Hi all. Can I ask for cryptic prayers for a couple of family members who are estranged through some really daft reasons and being kept apart by stubborn pride.
Sorry to hear things haven't improved Edith. I really struggle to understand how people who don't believe can have such extreme reactions to something they don't believe in the existence of. I have tried to get an understanding by reading the atheist v theist threads here and I get the reasoning, I just don't get the level of feeling. I am praying for you and hope your dp sees that any changes happening to you don't need to be a threat to your relationship.
Kay I am praying for you and ds. Such a sad and frustrating and totally unfair situation!
flah I pray for clarity for you. And for what it's worth I think it is not unusual to have periods of not being sure re whether you are still in love. It doesn't always signify the relationship is over (although it obviously can also signify that).
Ninetynine that anger is so hard to deal with. I am praying that it is lifted from you iron the meantime please don't see it as a barrier to your relationship. Remember Jesus also got very angry with situations that were unjust.

Tuo · 06/07/2015 01:19

QoF - I am praying for reconciliation for your family members. May they have the courage to let their barriers down and encounter one another in peace and love.

Kay - I also think it's good that your DS doesn't see his dad for a bit - he's such a noxious influence. And perhaps your DS will realise that, ultimately, his dad will always let him down - something that you will never do, even if he may criticise and complain. Please don't lose heart. Just continue to be there for your DS and I'm sure he will come round and you'll have your loving son back. Asking God to be with you and him as you negotiate this difficult time.

Ninetynine - It's good to see you back. Praying for you in your difficult situation. I'm sorry that things are so tough: please do stick around, and if you don't feel you can (or want to) pray, we will happily do so on your behalf.

Edith - Continuing to pray for you and for your DP, for insight and openness and love.

FLaH - cross posted last night with Oma, but didn't realise it till just now. Funny how we both said almost the same thing! The situation is really complicated and I'm praying for clarity of thought and peace of mind as you approach it.

Soozi - How are you feeling now? Have you been/Are you going to the doctor's? Praying for you and for your family.

PA - praying for your parents and your DSis.

A prayer of St Ignatius

Teach us, good Lord, to serve you as you deserve; to give and not to count the cost; to fight and not to heed the wounds; to toil and not to seek for rest; to labour and not to ask for any reward, save that of knowing that we do your will. Amen

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BlackeyedSusan · 06/07/2015 15:08

well I have booked an MOT took two weeks of procrastination to do it.

it is the end of term, I am struggling to getr on with anything.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/07/2015 19:45

arse. ds seems to have chicken pox. he is adament that he has not.

Dutchoma · 06/07/2015 20:48

There's a lot of it about BES. You might get it over and done with before term ends. Has dd had it? Have you?

BlackeyedSusan · 06/07/2015 20:51

I have had it twice. dd has not had it. there are special events on at school that we will miss, we are going on holiday in three weeks which is when dd is likely to erupt with vesicles. ...

Dutchoma · 06/07/2015 21:38

Weren't you just waiting for something like that to happen Sad

BlackeyedSusan · 06/07/2015 23:03

someone has just expressed incredulity that we can not go out....

I will be ringing school in the morning to ask to drop dd off in the car park.hopefully they will agree. going to have to pop into the one stop with parking in front and car visible from till, or perhaps petrol station. urg. also ring mot to postpone for a few days.

KayKat · 07/07/2015 08:01

My solicitor has stepped in now to prevent the very dodgy and dishonest thing that XH was trying to do. This means that I get more blame and hatred from XH directed at me which I do struggle to cope with. I've also decided to let DS do something with XH that he's been wanting to do for months which means a daunting long motorway drive for me but they won't be able blame me for preventing it any longer and I get a few days to myself.

OsloGin · 07/07/2015 14:09

I am a long time lurker and pray-er. Would it be possible to pray with me for a friend of mine who has a job interview this afternoon? He has been suffering from serious mental health issues and it is great he has come this far! It would change his world to get the job.

QofF · 07/07/2015 15:06

Oh dear BES, is it definitely chickenpox? Are the spots all out in force?
Kay you have so much to deal with, prayers for you. When is the motorway journey?
Oslo welcome and praying for your friend that things work out with this job and if not then it is because something else is round the corner that is better. Let us know how he gets on

OsloGin · 07/07/2015 15:11

Thank you QoF I think he's there now. Hope he has good news and if not (as you say) that it is because something much better will come along.

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Tuo · 07/07/2015 23:21

Hello all, and welcome to newbies/de-lurkers. [Offers Brew and Cake and Biscuits]

Praying tonight for BES as she deals with the pox and all that goes with it. Hope the itching's not too bad, that the frustration of being confined inside is manageable, and that this doesn't affect your holiday plans.

Praying for Kay too, for courage to continue to call XH on his dishonesty (because I somehow feel that he's going to continue to lie and threaten and bully), and for strength to do the long drive that worries you. You have been so very strong throughout this whole long and difficult situation, despite having been hurt in so many ways. You have always been there for your DS, and always will be, and he will come to recognise that (I think he knows it now, even if he doesn't acknowledge it) and to love you for it more than ever. Praying for a few days of peace and calm while DS is with XH, in which you can just be yourself again and let go of some of the worries that have been troubling you, even if only temporarily.

Praying for OsloGin's friend. Do you know yet how it went? Praying for it to have been a positive experience, whatever the outcome, and for him to find something (this, or something better) that will help him to rebuild his self-esteem and move on from his mental health issues.

And praying for PerpendicularVincenzo's friend too. It was a long time ago now, but I know what that wait feels like, and it's truly awful. I pray that the news is good tomorrow, but also that, whatever the outcome, God will be with your friend, giving her strength to cope with her situation, comfort in His love, and hope for the future.

Prayers for Oslo and Perpendicular themselves, too - such lovely friends. And keeping prayers going for Ninetynine, for FLaH, for Edith, for Oma, for PA and family (especially DD2 at this time), and for all those known to us who need our prayers tonight.

On the anniversary of the 7/7 bombings in London, we also pray for all affected by those events, and by the dreadful acts of terrorism that we have witnessed since, asking God to bring peace to the world, and understanding between its peoples. We pray, in particular, for our muslim friends (in RL and on here, in the muslim tea-room), that they may meet with understanding rather than fear, so that misconceptions may be challenged and bridges built.

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QofF · 08/07/2015 00:02

Amen to that Tuo.

madhairday · 08/07/2015 07:32

Amen, tuo.

Welcome to Oslo and perpendicular. Prayers for your friends.

Dear 99, that sounds so hard for you. Is ex still at your church? I think church should be a place we can show how we really are rather than pretending all is ok. Same with worshipping God - God's interested in our deepest beings. Praying for you. Would looking at another church be an option at all or is it the thought of church altogether? So hard for you. I can sense your pain Flowers

Continuing to pray for you Edith. So sorry dp reaction is so extreme. This must be incredibly hard for you, being drawn toward God but facing this barrier dp is putting up. Has she has bad experience of church in her past? Praying that she will see your happiness and her walls will be broken down Flowers

Praying for you, Kay - you are so strong and brave. I am praying one day ds will see the real situation and all you have done for him. Your h is being so very awful, with this new legal thing too, it must hurt so much dear one. Keep leaning on God who loves you beyond measure. Flowers

Praying for all of you here. FLaH, bes, oma, PA, amber, QoF and everyone else. May God bless you all today.

madhairday · 08/07/2015 07:34

And dear TUO how are thin gs going with you? I just want to thank you again for all your amazing roundups and prayers and time you put into this thread. Bless you Flowers

BlackeyedSusan · 08/07/2015 07:58

spottier, Sad quieter, Smile not sure on the itchiness as he is reading horrid henry so is quiet.

EdithSimcox · 08/07/2015 08:37

Everything Tuo and MHD said. Amen.

Not getting enough sleep, makes me bad-tempered. Poor kids. And full of doubt (again) this morning, and sad. Thank you all for your prayers, that helps.

Praying for a peaceful day for all.

PositiveAttitude · 08/07/2015 11:43

Just diving in from work with some news: DD2's sexual attacker (rapist) has been found guilty!!! GUILTY!!!!!! He will be sentenced on the 20th. We feel such a sense of relief. DD2 was worried that if it had gone hte other way she would have felt as if people thought she had been lying about what happened. She now does not have to face that and can try to put this all behind her and move on her life. I know she will struggle with the fact that he will remain in prison for a while, as she feels guilt that he was put inside in the first place.(when he tried to leave the country to get away from the trial) We are praying for her, obviously, but we are also praying for this man that has ruined my beautiful DD2's young carefree attitude to life. We pray that he will understand what he has done and that he will become a Christian and know true forgiveness.

Sorry, can't hang around, but prayers for everyone and welcome to the 2 newbies who have posted - be assured of prayers for your friends.

madhairday · 08/07/2015 12:56

Oh PA Flowers

Must be such mixed up feelings, all around.

Much love to your dd, and to you all.

OsloGin · 08/07/2015 14:12

PA glad to hear that news. I hope that it will help your DD on her healing journey!
Thank you for prayers for my friend. He managed to get through the interview OK which is a big deal. But now he is waiting to hear if he has the job.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/07/2015 15:48

poor lovey.

hope she is on the way to recovering now. (hugs)