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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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HydrochloricTulip · 16/04/2015 22:31

Soozi praying for you

Tuo · 17/04/2015 01:53

Just a quick check-in. Arrived safely and all going well so far. Speaking at a conference today so will be happy when that's over. Otherwise busy but good.

Keeping you all in prayers. Thinking especially of Tulip, FLaH, Bssh and Soozi.

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HydrochloricTulip · 17/04/2015 07:36

Praying that the conference goes well Tuo, and for everybody else needing it.

QofF · 17/04/2015 08:10

praying for your conference Tuo and for all of you

Tuo · 17/04/2015 19:14

All went well. Thanks for thinking of me!

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SESthebrave · 17/04/2015 22:03

Hello all! Am trying hard not to lose touch again! Am on my phone so please forgive me if I post in chunks.

TUO - thanking God for all going well

Soozi - that sounds very hard with your Dad. Praying for you, him and your mum. Hoping you got away in the caravan safely.

Tulip - praying that you've had chance to catch up with your shock (rather than it catching up with you) and that God will grant you peace, wisdom and strength.

Praying for all on this thread and particularly littlehouse, innerstrength and Bsssh

SESthebrave · 17/04/2015 22:08

Also wanted to share a lovely evening we had at my Tues evening church group on Tues.
We continued our celebration of Easter by looking back at the Triduum liturgies. We did a prayerful meditation around the key symbols and happenings from Maundy Thurs, Good Friday and Easter. It was most beautiful and here is a photo of all our symbols set out. Not sure how clear it is but there's a bowl of water and jug for washing of feet, a cross, a crown of thorns, holy oils used in the sacraments, Eucharistic symbols, a picture of the empty tomb and our Easter candle.

The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...
SESthebrave · 17/04/2015 22:12

And finally, for me, my conversation with my boss has not yet happened. He postponed on Monday to the Tues when we had another meeting planned anyway. Then on the Tues he had a family bereavement and had to cancel. We are now scheduled for next Friday - just over 3 weeks since the ultimatum was issued to me!
Help me to pray about this meeting and prepare for it appropriately.

BsshBosh · 18/04/2015 08:08

Zipi so much on your plate. Can you get your dad referred to hospice first because they can sort night time call outs, medications even at odd hours and are infinitely patient and lovely people... You shouldn't have to deal with this alone! I pray for your doctor to be more helpful and compassionate and for you to get the speedy help you need.

SES praying for you re your meeting; may God guide your thinking appropriately.

Praying for everyone else too.

BsshBosh · 18/04/2015 08:09

madhairday thank you for your wise words :)

BsshBosh · 18/04/2015 08:11

Obviously I would never wish cancer or similar illness on anyone but certainly it has brought some very valuable learning lessons for me, for which I am grateful (I'd better scoot over to the Gratitudes thread!).

madhairday · 18/04/2015 11:52

I know Bsssh - I would dearly love not to be chronically ill, but it has given me so many insights and different experiences of God. It's a mystery, but it has brought me much as well as taken much away. I do not think God 'gives' diseases to teach people lessons, not at all, but I do think that God meets us in those awful times in some amazing ways. Praying for you. Flowers

SES I love the picture and the Easter objects :) Praying for this meeting, that it will go well, that things will be resolved, that you will have peace.

Praying for you Sooz and for you Tulip. Flowers

BlackeyedSusan · 18/04/2015 12:16

morning! just

we arrived home last night but it took me so loong to read through all the posts. you lot have been busy! Smile

as DO said the weather was fabulous and nobody got lamped with a frying pan. there was abit of bleating about how they would cook if they were told what to cook. unfortunately there were no brick walls available at this point as it shows a lack of understanding of the the though process of shopping and meal planning and the fact that i would still have to think about tea and provide step by step instructions. however, this is not news. ex comes along for a holiday, I carrry on working, and as another friend said, it is harder as it is somewhere new and there is a lot more thinking involved.

ds has learned to swim with armbands in the deep for him pool. I have to be within touching distance (about two cm) but he is not clinging on so tight that he is strangling me, like last year.

I did get to relax sometimes. I swam a few lenghts of the pool, sat on a few benches, enjoyed the wooden maze at one place. we went out a lot and have rather blown the budget, on woods, caves, and mazes. ds strugggled with SPD. the butterfly farm stank. he liked it last year so it was a bit of a surprise that it stank so much this year. he got too hot and this is not a good thing. on the plus side we managed to play crazy golf without him throwing the clubthis year. there was a lot of adjusting his shots and that one not counting. but hey , no clubs were thrown.

we took him to a wood and he went wappy, rushing around, and stressing about finding the hidden things in order in a place where there is no map and the idea is to find things on the list. that day was very hard work!

FaithLoveandHope · 18/04/2015 12:27

Hi All,

Things have been pretty rough the last few days. I posted a thread in Chat about it but basically DP reached crisis point, said he felt suicidal and then stormed out the door. I phoned 101 who picked him up and brought him back. I don't really know what to think tbh. I was terrified when it all happened tbh and I know my response of getting angry with him certainly didn't help the situation. I'm feeling a little calmer now I've had chance to chat to someone irl about it all but I think the next few days / weeks are going to be tough and I really hope DP sticks to what he said about seeing his counsellor.

Oma I think you're right about the issues with my PhD and the issues within my relationship are linked. I'm not sure I can explain it very well but I feel like there's a lot going on at the moment and we seem to be in a bit of a vicious circle. I'm in a stressful phase of my PhD and doubting my ability to do this, which in turn means I feel I'm less emotionally available for DP and I'm probably not giving him as much support as he needs but in turn he's not giving me as much support as I need either. So thinks are spiralling in the PhD and spiralling at home and it just feels like I've no idea how to get out of either spiral.

Tuo I'm glad your conference went well. I've been keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Tulip I hope you've had a chance to take in the news and are feeling a little better. Am keeping you in my prayers.

Bshh your faith in all of this continues to amaze me. Praying for your positivity and trust in God to continue.

SES I love the photo, it looks like it was a lovely evening. Praying for your meeting - that it goes ahead as planned and that God guides your conversations. I really hope you find some peace from the meeting.

Inner how are you doing now?

Is BES still away? Praying things with DS have calmed down a little. Glad to hear she's coping. Let's hope things can move into a more positive phase of enjoying her time away rather than just coping.

Soozi that's a shocking way for your Dad's GP to respond! You'd think doctors of all people would have some more compassion! Hope you managed to get to the caravan okay - sounds like you had such a lot to do beforehand! Are you still away? If so I hope you're enjoying your time and have chance to take your mind off all the stressful things that are going on.

FaithLoveandHope · 18/04/2015 12:31

Cross-posted with you BES! That's great about your DS learning to swim! well done him! I know what you mean about holidays being more hard work sometimes - and I have a supportive DP who helps out so goodness knows how much more stressful it is for you! I have to laugh at his golf and that shot not counting - my little brother is the same! Gosh that day at the woods sounds very stressful! I'm glad you managed to relax a little bit though. Are you glad to be back home now though? I always feel that whilst it's nice to go away, it's soo good to be back in my own bed!

BlackeyedSusan · 18/04/2015 14:00

the day at the woods got better. cafe, adventure playground and indoor maze were a success. they did enjoy the woods, in parts but oh boy was it stressful. that was the day I told DO that at least they were all alive.

Dutchoma · 18/04/2015 14:56

And I said: "Well done".

FLaH I wonder what else is going on in your partner's life? I know that the news of his father being terminally ill must have come as a sock, but being suicidal? If there is a lot more going on, then you giving up the PhD is not going to help. There comes a point when you have to realise that you can't fix things for him, he will have to deal with it himself.

Dutchoma · 18/04/2015 14:56

shock, even

BlackeyedSusan · 18/04/2015 15:12

the great living room tidy has resumed. it looks pretty terrible as they played in it this morning but that was not too bad to tidy. all the furniture is out while I clean under the table.

FaithLoveandHope · 18/04/2015 16:04

I definitely wouldn't give up my PhD because of DP. It's just I'm at a difficult phase and doubting my ability to do it. I know I just need to get through the next few months and then once I've done that hopefully my confidence will be back up.

BsshBosh · 18/04/2015 18:47

Faith could you let your supervisor know and simply postpone for a few months? I did my PhD 15 years ago but had to postpone for 2.5 years due to my first brush with cancer (yep, have had it twice which is why I'm more adaptive to it mentally this time round) and my supervisor was very understanding. Another friend postponed her PhD around the same time due to family issues and her own chronic fatigue syndrome. When my cancer was cured I had the mental and physical energy to resume the PhD and finished it very quickly. Is it possible for you to postpone?

BsshBosh · 18/04/2015 18:48

Praying for calmness for you BES.

BsshBosh · 18/04/2015 18:50

Postponing was such a relief and it meant I could 100% focus on the things that really mattered at the time. You could do with some relief...

BlackeyedSusan · 18/04/2015 19:30

thanks bssh.

I have finished...

...cleaning under the table.

there was a lot of junk under the table which has been sorted and mostly put or thrown away. the messy mat has been swept and wiped and I have chipped weetabakes off the wall. that is enough for today. there is a lot more to do but the worst area of the room has been cleaned.

We shall endeavour to do some more tomorrow. It looks terrible, but quite a lot of the stuff in the middle of the room can be put away comparatively quickly.

Dutchoma · 18/04/2015 20:44

Well done BES. I hope no one undoes your hard work.

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