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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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Dutchoma · 26/03/2015 06:26

Had very sad news from Silverstars who has posted under the name AnxiousKeziah in Premature biirths that her ds was born prematurely with multiple handicaps and didn't make it. Lord have mercy.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/03/2015 07:22
Sad

poor silver.

ZipadiSoozi · 26/03/2015 09:51

Oh gosh, how very sad, thoughts & prayers for Silver and her family x

BlackeyedSusan · 26/03/2015 11:41

right, flat is a mess. gotto find some motivation somewhere.

so far, done some shopping to top up the bananas and chopped tomatoes, even put some of it away. gathered and squashed the recycling. I was too busy to take it out yesterday so trying to compact it.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/03/2015 14:41

oh anduggling too many balls has lead to me fucking up some paperwork tht is going to be very expensive to put right.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/03/2015 14:55

and I have to get the children when all I want to do is sit in a corner and cry. I have completely run out of energy but do not have the option of a rest.

Tuo · 27/03/2015 02:08

Prayer for Lent: Day 37

Oh... I'm so sorry to hear about Silver. Thank you for letting us know, Oma. I don't have words, but am thinking of Silver and her family tonight and asking God to be with them in their sadness and grief.

BES - you sound frazzled, lovely. Praying for rest for you tonight.

A prayer for Silver's DS:

May the choirs of angels
come to greet you.
May they lead you into paradise.
May the Lord enfold you
in his presence
May you have eternal life.
Amen

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Tuo · 28/03/2015 03:13

Prayer for Lent: Day 38

A prayer of St Therese of Lisieux

May today there be peace within.
May we trust God that we are exactly where we are meant to be.
May we not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May we use those gifts that we have received
and pass on the love that has been given to us.
May we be content knowing that we are children of God.
Let this presence settle into our bones
and allow our souls the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.
It is there for each and every one of us.
Amen

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KayKat · 28/03/2015 07:25

Love last nights prayer. Tuo how did your talk go? I'm very impressed that you travel the world and give talks.

Difficult day with DS yesterday. He has a sort of teenage tantrum says awful things then is happy five minutes later and has probably forgotten it whilst I end up crying for an hour. I need to stop letting it affect me, not sure how. On top of that my ex was quite threatening to me he wants me to accept a lot less than I'm entitled to in the divorce and anything more he said he would be very angry even if its a judges ruling so out of my control he said he will blame me. Although I felt a pang of fear for a moment I actually don't really care and expect him to be nasty anyway so at least I have come a long way in detaching from him and I think he saw from my reaction that his threats don't scare me any more.

innerstrength100 · 28/03/2015 08:44

Morning kay so sorry to read all this. Very very tough. Sending up prayers for you.

BlackeyedSusan · 28/03/2015 12:59

sorry, still massively struggling.

ZipadiSoozi · 28/03/2015 16:18

Prayers for Kay and bes, it is so hard with teenagers, I try and not bite the bait for a happier outcome, like you say you end up still upset when they have forgotten all about it, sometimes when everything calms down I have a chat to ds1 to clear the air in a more adult manner (although they still have to be right, but you get your point across for the more unacceptable behaviour) teenagers hunger and tiredness make a difference. Bes hope you have a better end to the day. X

Tuo · 29/03/2015 04:19

Prayer for Lent: Day 39

My last night here. I'll be travelling most of tomorrow so may not now post again till Monday. I'll be thinking of you all.

The talk went well, Kay, thank you. I was really panicking about getting it finished, but in the end I was pleased with how it went. I have spent the day today with some good friends, for whom I thank God - they have been very good to me and my family.

I'm sorry things are so tough for you, Kay, but you really do sound so strong, and I have every confidence that things with your DS will improve over time. It's just a very tough time anyway, and your DH's stirring isn't helping. I am praying for peace and happiness for you and your DS and for strength for you to continue to show your DH that you're not scared of him and to keep working towards reclaiming your freedom and your happiness.

BES - I'm sorry that things are hard for you too. I pray that you find a way to get some peace this weekend and also some rest.

Soozi - continuing to think of you and your family.

It doesn't feel particularly Spring-like here (temperatures have not really crept above zero all week and we had a lot of snow on Monday) but I am looking forward to getting back the, hopefully warmer, UK and enjoying signs of new life and renewal in nature, in preparation for the celebration of the new life of Easter.

A Prayer of Hildegard of Bingen

God speaks
'I am the breeze that nurtures all things green.
I am the rain coming from the dew
that causes the grasses to laugh with the joy of life.
I am the yearning for good'.

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madhairday · 29/03/2015 09:10

Morning everyone.

Prayers assured for you all. Esp bes, Kay and for Silver at this time.

Glad your talk went well, tuo :)

LifeOfBriony · 29/03/2015 13:09

Hello. I lurk on his thread from time to time and have been impressed with the gentle support it gives.

DH and I had big issues in the autumn and I thought we were slowly (very) re-building our relationship but recently it has become apparent that I was wrong. I don't know what the future holds.

DS is in 6th form, says he wants to go to Uni, but is doing very little work. He has also split up with his gf and this has hit him very hard.

DD is at Uni and finding things difficult. Fortunately she has a supportive bf.

Both my DCs have been affected by the issues between H and me to an extent that has surprised me. What might be right for me might not be the best thing for them.

I went to church this morning and felt better. Now I am back home and nothing is better.

Dutchoma · 29/03/2015 13:39

So glad you were able to come on this thread and post. Have you any real life support?

I'm just sharing the first thought that came into my head which was that you should put your own oxygen mask on before trying to help others in an emergency. You cannot support them if you are at a low ebb yourself. It is inevitable that children are affected by their parents' difficulties, but they wouldn't want you to be unhappy, whatever their own needs are.

LifeOfBriony · 29/03/2015 14:21

Hello Dutchoma, thank you for replying.

I have family and friends who know a little about what has happened but I am too embarrassed to tell them the full story. I have been having counselling but it is a long time between appointments.

Going to work helps. I now have time off over Easter, think I would rather be at work, except that I am spending time with DS.

I don't know which way to turn. I am trying to find small pleasures/things that keep me busy but that seems to annoy H. And H and DS are also not seeing eye to eye at all.

Dutchoma · 29/03/2015 14:30

Opening up to one good friend might help, even if that is an internet friend. You know the support is here, whether you want to share what is really happening or not.
If your husband is not seeing eye to eye with his son either is't unlikely that it is 'all your fault'

ZipadiSoozi · 29/03/2015 15:35

Welcome LifeOfBriony, you are in good hands here, Dutchoma is a lifeline to me as are others, I feel you can say what you really mean on here, everybody supports each other no matter how big or small a problem is, if it needs praying for you're on the right site. I also have a ds at uni they are trying the best of times without added stress, hopefully over Easter you can have some quality time with your ds to treat yourselves, (although I know my ds has a lot of revising to do) but nevertheless, enjoy your time off. Prayers for you and your h, xx

thegreatestMadHairDayinhistory · 29/03/2015 16:39

Welcome LifeOfBriony (love the username) to the prayer thread. You're very welcome here and as Sooz said nothing is too big or small for our prayers here. God bless you today.

How are you Sooz and Oma ?

amberlight · 29/03/2015 17:59

LifeofBriony,welcome from me too. I don't often post on here, but the thread is such a blessing to so many of us, as are the lovely people on it. Keeping your situation in prayer. And those of everyone else.

ZipadiSoozi · 29/03/2015 18:31

Hi MHD and Amber, I am fine thank you, shattered playing Badminton, was a good distraction from taking care of Mum and Dad so now my batteries are recharged ready for next week and a Dementia assessment on Tuesday for Dad to get the next plan of action (hopefully) but today is a good day! X hope you are both well and happy!

Thank God my MRI scan is clear, going through an inconvenience really more than an illness, I have Ménière's Disease, it's dormant at the moment, the tinnitus is bad, but... I still have my hearing so that's good for now.

LifeOfBriony · 29/03/2015 20:16

Thank you all for the warm welcome. It is so sad that so many people have such awful worries.

Praying for anyone for whom the Easter holidays will be a challenge.

Tuo · 29/03/2015 22:31

Struggling with airport wifi. Posted, then lost service so I think it has disappeared, but if it appears in the future, apologies for duplication!

Prayer for Palm Sunday

Will post quickly in case wifi lets me down again. Just to say welcome LifeOfBriony and that I'm praying for your situation. How are you, MHD?

This Palm Sunday I pray that we all recognise and welcome Christ in our hearts as the crowds welcomed him into Jerusalem. Thinking especially of our clergy, ordinand, and lay minister friends on the thread as they prepare for a demanding week.

Love to you all and see you on the other side!

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Dutchoma · 29/03/2015 22:45

As I thought TUO would not be able to post I fished this prayer out of the computer. I think it is rather lovely and no reason why we can't have two prayers, is there?

We can also pray for Briony and for Silverstars (AnxiousKeziah) whose story is made even more sad by the lack of support she has received. Praying that she will have the strength to seek that support. Praying that she will be comforted by God Himself. Also praying for Soozi and her parents and for all who struggle with health issues.

Almighty and everlasting God, the comfort of the sad, the strength of those who suffer; hear the prayers of your children who cry out of any trouble; and to every distressed soul grant mercy, relief and refreshment.