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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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BlackeyedSusan · 12/03/2015 14:39

praying for strength

got parents evening tonight. I made it for later so ex can come but it makes it more difficult for me to sort out the children.

Dutchoma · 12/03/2015 15:34

Zipadisoozy* (some, if not most of you might remember her) is going through a bit of a hard time and would value our prayers.

fakenamefornow · 12/03/2015 17:48

Thank you for all your prayers, I wish I could say things are looking up. I will keep praying for everyone and hope that prayers work to make things come right and help us all through our troubles.

NotChimpandZeeagain · 12/03/2015 19:27

Sorry I haven't been back for ages. Ds2 has had another rough week at school, being hurt by a couple of children, one of them his best friend. He is now even clinger at drop off, not crying, just refusing to let go. Waiting for paeds report, which will (again) ask school to refer to autism outreach and EP, but not holding my breath. Owing to the fact that he implodes rather than explodes, school are reluctant to use the support hours they have on him. I just feel a bit useless, really. It feels like I am losing my sparkly, bright little boy.
On the upside, at least mil will see him again now. Still not me, though. Apparently I am being kept an eye on by her though to make sure i don't have any friends round to visit or anything like that.

Tuo · 13/03/2015 00:07

Prayer for Lent: Day 23

Welcome back NotChimp. It's good to see you. I'm so sorry that things are tough for your DS, though. I pray that he gets the help and support that he needs and finds understanding and friendship. Praying too for the situation with your MIL; that sounds very hard.

Continuing to pray for your situation, fakename: once again, I'm sorry that things are difficult, but I pray that God will be with you in and through the current situation, and that you, too, will find support and happiness.

Praying for ZipadiSoozi - thanks for passing on that request, Oma.

BES - praying for a stress-free parents' evening and good reports on your DC.

MHD - praying for you to stay well for the New Wine day on Saturday and for you not to be too tired afterwards either.

Momey - praying for your DD to be able to recognise her achievements and rejoice in them.

From the Northumbria compline for tonight:

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Tuo · 13/03/2015 00:09

Gah, that keeps happening!

From the Northumbria compline for tonight...

May God be in our sleep;
may Christ be in our dreams.
May the Spirit be in our repose,
in our thoughts, in our hearts.
In our souls always
may the Sacred Three dwell. Amen

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howoapproachthis · 13/03/2015 06:50

thinking of everyone with dcs that are going through a hard time, crying on their way to school etc. dd is going through a stage of crying when she is going to her dads, and its heart breaking. one encouraging thing to note is that they are crying and bringing their problems to you - when i was growing up, i hated school and had a lot of problems, but i never cried in front of my parents, or told them about my problems, i held it all in behind my bedroom door and this caused a lot of problems for me later. its good that they can express themselves and means we can help do something about it.

my meeting with friend went amazingly, she was so lovely. i know that i need to do something about the isolation i feel from the church, and i need to maybe set up a group from my house, just once a month at a time that suits me(during the day) when DD is with her dad and i can rest after. the alternative is to continue to go on the way im going and never get to meet anyone and not feel a part of things, and i know if that happens i will go back to my old church which i wasn't happy at either. please pray for me to get a group going, and for the right people to come, and for me to be able to keep it going ok.

madhairday · 13/03/2015 07:43

Where are you in the country howto ? (Don't have to answer that or PM! ) praying that you find a good way, glad your friend was helpful.

howoapproachthis · 13/03/2015 11:20

pmed u :)

BlackeyedSusan · 13/03/2015 11:27

been considering if there is anything we can do to raise the profile of the lack of support and structures that actively exclude single parents from churches. thing is I am often so shattered to even bother.

Dutchoma · 13/03/2015 11:58

I think you can only do it on a small scale and with your own church. I know that one of the churches had single people who would babysit for families and the current parenting course at the church I'm in now is held once a month on a Saturday morning with child care provided.
But I agree it is very tiresome if you have to keep flagging it up. Does your church have a family outreach worker? They would be the person to organise something like that.

howoapproachthis · 13/03/2015 14:24

BES it is tiresome. the thing is single parents don't have the energy or time to put the structures in place. its tough.

amberlight · 13/03/2015 14:47

Keeping prayers going...

BlackeyedSusan · 13/03/2015 15:04

talking of tiresome ...

off to get ds and hang around for an hour for dd.

urg.

PunkrockerGirl · 13/03/2015 21:07

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.
Db went down for his operation on Tuesday as planned. When they opened him up they found not only the tumour in the bile duct, which we knew about, but also a large mass on the pancreas. It's inoperable (and they tried for several hours) because the mass is wrapped around a major blood vessel. They did a bypass procedure on the bile duct so that bile can drain past the tumour iyswim. He's had a lot of post-op complications, so we're just living day to day at the moment.
He may be able to have chemo when he's recovered from the operation, but it will be palliative treatment and will only buy him a bit of time.
After losing both our parents to cancer, I can't believe this is happening. I'm trying to support dsil and my nieces and nephews who are grown up but completely shell shocked. Db is only 59 and this shouldn't be happening. It's unlikely he'll see his children get married or hold his grandchildren.
Apologies, I sound very sorry for myself!

innerstrength100 · 13/03/2015 21:25

So so sorry to read this punkrocker and you do not need to apologise. We will all pray for you all. Stay strong. You are not alone.

Dutchoma · 13/03/2015 21:50

My dear girl, you do not sound sorry for yourself and even if you did, you would have every reason to. Such devastating news, don't know what to say. Will keep praying for you and your brother and all the family of course. May the Lord uphold and comfort you in this very sad time.

BlackeyedSusan · 13/03/2015 22:56

so sorry. Flowers

PunkrockerGirl · 13/03/2015 23:09

Thank you. I hold all of you in my prayers too. This is so amazing to be able to post on here and receive support and to know that db is being prayed for.

Tuo · 13/03/2015 23:40

Prayer for Lent: Day 24

Oh Punkrocker that sounds devastating - I am so so sorry. I am holding you, your brother, and all who care for him in prayer. May you find comfort and strength at this time.

Also praying for howto and BES and Momey and all single parents struggling to make church work for them.

Sorry for a short message tonight. I have to be up at 5 and am abroad for work just for one night tomorrow night so may not get to post on the thread (as I may not have wifi access). If I can, i will, but if I don't know that I will be praying anyway. Not looking forward to a weekend of two 5 am starts (returning very early Sunday morning) but I'm sure it'll be worth it.

A very brief prayer from tonight's Northumbria compline. Short but meaningful... and for everyone on this thread, whether they post or not:

God with us protecting,
the Lord with us directing,
the Spirit with us strengthening
for ever and for evermore. Amen

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PunkrockerGirl · 13/03/2015 23:46

Hope your work trip goes well, tuo. Moo I'm ok

PunkrockerGirl · 13/03/2015 23:49

Gosh sorry don't know what happened there! Blush I really hope your trip goes well tuo

Anjelica27 · 14/03/2015 09:03

dear PunkrockerGirl,praying for you and your dear brother. Sending you love x

FaithLoveandHope · 14/03/2015 12:41

punkrocker that's awful news. Praying for you and all your family.

bes and all other single parents, is there anything in particular you think could help you attend church events? I'm just thinking of my own church and how it's probably not single parent family. I'm wondering if there's anything we can implement to help out.

FaithLoveandHope · 14/03/2015 12:42

Single parent friendly even!