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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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Dutchoma · 07/03/2015 21:40

If he was pushing the boundaries FLAH he will be relieved to find where they are. You have enough to cope with at the moment, don't beat yourself up about it.

Tuo · 07/03/2015 22:43

Prayer for Lent: Day 18

Trying to catch up... forgive me if I forget anyone...

Praying for your FIL(-to-be) FLaH and for you and your DP and DSS at this time. Don't panic too much till you have the full picture about proposed treatment, prognosis, and so on. I pray for strength for all of you as you deal with this news, for wisdom for those looking after your FIL, and for hope for the future. As for your day with DSS, it sounds as if you handled it perfectly. If he's pushing the boundaries with you it's because he knows it's safe to do so, that your love for him is not dependent on him being 'good'. He trusts you; I pray that you can trust yourself - trust your instincts in helping to bring him up to be the wonderful human being I'm sure he will be.

Thanking God for a happy day in the MHD household: for DD's fab running and for your health having stood up to being there for her. I know how much that means to you.

Thanking God that howto's DD has settled well with the CM. It must be a relief to know that she's happy there, even if the additional hours are prohibitively expensive. Also well done, howto, on treating yourself - you should do it more often! Praying for your health, energy, and happiness longer-term.

piercedprincess - welcome to the thread. Praying for you and your DH. I turned away from God for a long time (nearly 30 years, between my late teens and mid-40s) and was nervous at first about turning back to Him, but when I finally did it felt like coming home. I hope and pray that you feel the same way.

fakename - keeping prayers going for you too in your difficult situation.

Punkrocker - keeping prayers going also for you and your DB.

Also thinking tonight of Kaykat, Anjelica, QoF, PA, innerstrength, Oma, amber and all who need our prayers.

From tonight's Northumbria compline:

The God of life with guarding hold us;
the loving Christ with guarding fold us;
the Holy Spirit, guarding, mould us;
each night of life to aid, enfold us;
each day and night of life uphold us. Amen

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howoapproachthis · 08/03/2015 08:24

qof sorry i totally missed your post about the thought - i tend to skim through the thread these days which isn't ideal at all. im so glad it was encouraging for you, that is encouraging to me to, that it was encouraging to you, if that makes sense!

dd sick at the minute, chicken pox. hoping it doesn't last too long

BlackeyedSusan · 08/03/2015 09:51

morning. ds is playing happily withthe lego. no sign now of the broken banana melt down other than a slightly squished banana in the kitchen

ds has a party today so we are not going to church. too much sensory stimulation.

nochocolateforlentteacake · 08/03/2015 09:55

How can you break a banana?

BlackeyedSusan · 08/03/2015 11:38

far too easily.

Dutchoma · 08/03/2015 12:05

I found the only way to deal with it was to say:"You cannot have a whole banana, do you want half a banana or none?" And then deliberately break it if they said they would rather have half a banana, then none at all. You could always relent and let them have the other half as well.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/03/2015 12:31

there is no stopping an asd meltdown when it has started. shorten it, lessen it, yes, but no stopping it.

FaithLoveandHope · 08/03/2015 15:31

Thank you so much all. Today has been pretty tough, just want it to be the day we find out more.

howto hope your DD gets better soon. Chickenpox is horrible.

bes hope your ds enjoyed the party and had no more meltdowns.

Anjelica27 · 08/03/2015 20:29

Sorry was trying to be as organised, but beyond me at the moment. Including u all in my prayers every night and hope that counts. After lurking at the door of my church support group for weeks, went in on Wednesday. Amazing to say it all in rl but after i did it all I've done since is cry. A mixed group of ladies and gents and they were so incredible I will go again and if I could get ds to come too there are people there that would support him. Will work on that. Pray constantly for guidance to do or say the right thing but have a sneaky feeling that ds is taking advantage of my weakness and that just makes me cry again. Feeling a bit of a (trying to one an inoffensive word here) fool, idiot. Ds is safe at the moment but still very angry and scary. It will be ok x

Anjelica27 · 08/03/2015 20:44

Should have said. Dm is 80 next month previously big celebration planned, can't have anyone here because ds self harms when they do. Dm says I'm 80 it's my birthday is ds wants to do anything then he can I'm coming anyway. Eldest ds says says i would be sorry if this was last dm birthday and could I live with that. Think ds has to be my priority but what if something happens to dm. Have asked for guidance but not finding the answer at the moment. What do I do next, someone is going to be upset in a very big way x

innerstrength100 · 08/03/2015 20:58

Keep asking for guidance Anjelica and we will all ask too.

Huge well done for going to the support group. You are braver and stronger than you think you are.

FaithLoveandHope · 08/03/2015 21:46

well done Anjelica on going to the support group. I think it's normal to be really emotional afterwards, I know I've always been emotional after going to support groups, as you've really opened yourself up and spoken about what's on your mind rather than bottling it up and trying to deal with alone. As inner says, keep praying for guidance and we here always keep you in our prayers. I don't know what's best to do with regards to your DM's celebration. I'd be inclined to say a party could be good - part of me thinks you'd regret not doing it if something did happen to your DM more than you'd regret doing it and dealing with the fallout from DS. But praying for guidance for you on this and strength to deal with the upset you're anticipating whatever choice you make.

howoapproachthis · 08/03/2015 23:20

sorry for quick prayer request but please keep dd in prayer. she has chicken pox but its developed tonight into a chest infection and shes been vomiting... i have just put her back to bed, and the last time the chest infection and vomiting happened it went on continually. it means she won't keep down the antihistamine that helps with her itch. pray God turns this night around for us :)

Tuo · 08/03/2015 23:26

Prayer for Lent: Day 19

Hi Anjelica, it's good to hear from you, but I'm sorry you're facing such a difficult dilemma. Praying for guidance for you, and for peace of mind about whatever decision you make - I have no idea what the right thing is for you to do, but I pray that you will be able to make a decision and to feel confident in it.

Praying also for howto's DD - CP can be nasty, but it's also good to get it out of the way when they are little. Hope she's not too itchy and upset by it.

And praying for chocolateteacake (or rather nochocolateteacake!) - it's good to see you. How are things with you now?

BES - praying the party went well and was not too much for DS.

A prayer for today:

Eternal God,
give us insight
to discern your will for us,
to give up what harms us,
and to seek the perfection we are promised
in Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

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FaithLoveandHope · 08/03/2015 23:42

Praying for your DD howto. May God bless you both this night, keep you safe from harm and heal her from her sickness.

I hate being alone. DP is away tonight and it's the first time really that I've had time on my own since I found out about FIL. I burst into tears, ended up self harming then burst into tears again. tuo I particularly like the bit in you prayer about giving up what harms us. I hate crying but maybe its a good thing, it's a healthier way of releasing my emotions. I feel like I've been holding everything together so I can support DP but by holding it together what I probably mean is bottling it all up. I know that if I cry in front of him, it'll just make him cry and fall to bits more than he already is. I've taken my mirtazapine now and starting to feel sleepy so hopefully I fall asleep soon.

FaithLoveandHope · 08/03/2015 23:55

Sorry, probably a bit of overshare in that last message.

I've been listening to Let it be Jesus on repeat tonight and thought it may help anyone else struggling at the moment.

Kaykat · 09/03/2015 00:18

Faith I'm still awake and praying for peace you.

Also for Anjelica and her DS and howtos DD.

Tuo · 09/03/2015 00:39

I'm here too, FLaH, and holding your hand through the ether. Stay safe, and cry if it helps to release the emotions a bit.

howto - cross posted with you before. Hope DD is OK and that you manage to get some rest tonight.

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Anjelica27 · 09/03/2015 04:35

Praying for you Faith, hoping you can find get some rest tonight,also you too howto and your dd hope that she is soon feeling well. Ds is still up so keeping a watchful eye.

howoapproachthis · 09/03/2015 11:59

faithloveandhope i hope you are ok im thinking about you. i used to never be able to cry and used to deal with things in not too great ways. it took m ages to cry, but when i let myself feel the emotion and express it and practised it over and over again - now i can't stop crying if something happens after years of the opposite. sometimes i think what am i like, but then i realise its a good thing. i hope you can start to feel what you are feeling, if u know what i mean. sometimes i just say 'i really don't like this, this isn't nice' out loud, and i feel like a child, honestly, but it seems to help me undertsand and express what im feeling.

thank you for prayers for dd. im wrecked to be honest - and dds sickness didn't progress last night, but she isn't herself this morning at all, shes so quiet and subdued, not like her at all. but im confident she is ok.

BlackeyedSusan · 09/03/2015 15:33

oh dear. I am not managing to do much more than keeping the whole thing ticking over: badly. I am exhausted and have a miserable sinus infection. children are at school. need to collect soon. lunch first though.

howoapproachthis · 09/03/2015 16:07

bes hugs. sounds we both need sleep!

madhairday · 09/03/2015 18:38

Praying for you FLaH and for you howtoapproachthis (have sent you a pm.)

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madhairday · 09/03/2015 18:39

Oh Bes sorry to hear about the infection, that's nasty, you're in my prayers.