"No time to catch up yet, but you are using your 2 alternatives to explain why you are religious."
No, I am using my two alternatives to explain why atheists do not have the monopoly on - or even a command of - logical and rational thought.
This has been proved over and over again by the complete and utter failure to understand that there either is, or is not, something eternal. We get statements like 'we don't know if there's something else' (like what, for the millionth time) and 'I'm not interested' (really? you haven't thought about it? so why are you here arguing for atheism, when you know that a central core of religious belief lies in the origins of life and consciousness?)
They do not engender respect in the atheist stance.
This argument, of the basic duality, is not an ingenious argument but it is entirely valid. If you want respect for the atheist stance as a rational, logical stance, you need to challenge it with more than 'obviously flawed', 'untrue' or 'but that doesn't prove the existence of God'.
As to the latter - no one says it does. I have never said it does. But it shows the logical likelihood of eternality, which is a question that should trouble atheists - or even simply interest them - if they want to argue their case. And I do assume that's why most people would be on a thread like this.
"You need to admit - at least to yourself - that the one doesn't support the other"
this makes no sense at all
"and that you that were just wildly guessing when you decided the biblical god was real."
for the removal of all doubt, I will repeat what I said earlier. I don't guess - I choose. The existence of something coming from nothing is just as impossible as the existence of God. I've gone with something eternal. And out of all the myriad choices that opens up to me, I've gone with God. That's my choice. It's not an automatic consequence of believing that something is eternal. Therein lies the joy - for me - the fact that I don't have to, and I have. It's is most definitely not an argument for someone else believing in God.
Quite frankly, if you can be argued into believing in the existence of God, there's little point.