'I also don't understand is why it is relevant to the god/not god debate.'
I have said many times that my argument is not about God/not God. It does not try to convince anyone of the existence of God.
My argument, here on this thread - is about the original thread title, about respect. Atheists are often scornful or dismissive, claiming superior rational and logical thought. But quite often they have not themselves thought clearly about the problems of existence and origin: they do not understand central questions about origin and existence. This is all of course fine, in that atheists can just dislike religion or whatever reason they have. But they should cease and desist from pouring scorn on people of religious faith on the grounds of clarity and logic: because there's no monopoly there, and often no command of ration thought.
'I don't know how life/ the universe started. Maybe one day we will find out. But the one thing I do know is that god cannot have been involved'
How can you know nothing, but know this one thing?
'because all the evidence says that god does not exist' it is unclear what you mean here. Which evidence are you talking about? Are you talking about the fact that God would seem to 'disobey' the physical laws of this universe? Because your next sentence
'Maybe the new physics i mentioned will show that something can come from nothing after all'
indicates that you are willing to consider that the physical laws of this universe may not apply, and that there was a point in which they didn't apply. You cannot use the physical laws of this universe to support your argument, if in the next breath you say those physical laws may in some cases not apply. If there is a possibility that the physical laws of this universe do not apply or have not applied in certain circumstances, then it undermines your claim of evidence that God does not exist. That is, of course, if you are relying on evidence of the physical laws of this universe.
'I don't know. And I am happy with not knowing.' It's nice that you are happy. And it doesn't matter that you don't know. But you still have beliefs. Two beliefs you expressed here are:
Belief that there is no God; and belief in the possibility that the physical laws of this universe may not always have applied or may not apply now.