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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

OP posts:
Questionoffaith · 09/08/2014 19:41

Praying for your husband muskey and welcome

Questionoffaith · 09/08/2014 19:43

Praying for your husband muskey and welcome

howtoapproachthis · 10/08/2014 09:07

thanks so much for replies... haven't a minute to reply but have read and thinking and will reply soon thinking of you all here xxx

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 10/08/2014 10:15

Jan ((hugs))

Kaykat · 10/08/2014 12:49

Hi Jan so sorry to read your update. I'm afraid that if he can't be kind and respectful towards you for more than a few weeks even with the huge incentive of you taking him back after so many months apart, he won't ever change. I know that you hoped you could be happy with him and an equal in the relationship but perhaps with that now removed as an option it will help you to make a decision.

I haven't posted for a while but have been reading the thread regularly and praying.

DS and I have a peaceful life for a couple of months at a time with no contact from ex, then he appears from nowhere and causes a lot of stress. Just a couple of words from him is enough to set DS against me such is his power over him. It's as if all our happy times and very strong ties with DS and wider family count for nothing. Of course we soon get back to normal again but I feel I have to face the possibility that at some point in the future he will persuade DS to have nothing to do with me and I feel that he could do that quite easily.

My divorce is being pushed forward very aggressively by my wonderful solicitor who absolutely stands for no nonsense. I'm pretty sure I am heading for court because there's no other way to sort things when all my ex wants to do is delay and manipulate. I'm fine with that and ready for it. What I'm not fine with is going to court over DS because its a huge unnecessary expense but unfortunately ex may be pushing things in that direction.

ZipadiSoozi · 10/08/2014 13:20

Hello lovely ladies!!!!

I have just found some posts in my achives from 2007, I am so thankful for this thread, I forgot how low I had been when dc were very young, I met some super people on here that helped me soooo much I am eternally grateful to.

I am happy to say I am fully better from depression, we are all now as normal as normal can be if there is such thing! God has indeed been looking over us and caring for us in ways I havent realised, we have come so far in 7 long years.

Just to re-cap:
ds 18yo going to university in sept after acheiving distinctions* all the way through college (amazing after such problems)

dtwins g/b 10yo going in to year 6, they are my musical little bookworms, very proud of.

dh and I (or mainly me) still don't get on but are still together, will be our 30th Wedding Anniversary 18th August (feels a farce but it is an achievement to actually still be married) much thanks and prayers at the same time are continually needed in this department that we can bring our children up in a broken marriage without damaging their upbringing.

Love and prayers to you all Smile
xxxxxxxxx

Muskey · 10/08/2014 14:51

Thank you for your words of kindness you just made me cry (in a good way never thought mn would do that to me)

Dutchoma · 10/08/2014 14:59

Soozi BOING, lovely to see you. Hope you can manage the MN day, with or without the 'children'.

Muskey, it's alright, we all make each other cry on here (in a good way).
Kay, how sad that his father wants to set your son against you, that is just awful. Prayers that your son's common sense will see what's best for him, I'm sure you have given him enough of an example for that to happen.

ZipadiSoozi · 10/08/2014 16:33

While I am here...

Prayers for my nephew he is expecting identical twins next week, his dad (my brother) lost his fiance age 52 a couple of months back and his bil has had cancer, so my brothers family could do with a little christian guidance atm going through such a lot.

But praise the Lord, my dtwins are sat at the kitchen table quietly (while they sort out 2000 loom bands that they dropped all over the floor) Grin I think I may get 40 winks in!

ZipadiSoozi · 10/08/2014 16:34

Is it still 23 August mn meeting in northants dutchoma? Smile will see what I can do, as I am on leave from work! YIPEEEEE!

Dutchoma · 10/08/2014 16:39

Yes, it is, all welcome with or without children, long time on MN or newbies. It may be a squeeze but it will be fun.

Dutchoma · 10/08/2014 20:27

TUO sends her love. She wants to keep internet use to a minimum and is having a lovely time with lots of prayer answered.

howtoapproachthis · 11/08/2014 09:26

thank you again for responses. im sittting here so exhausted. im going away on thursday with family, hopefully get a chance to meet PA as well. really looking forward to getting away from it all - it will give me time to clear my head and think what i really want here.

question my reasons for wanting to make it work are that i see the potential of what it could be. he has not always been this way, and we have had lovely times together, and theres times he has been supportive. also for my daughters sake, also for financial security since i am not able to work much due to health, also because i find it so hard to meet people and worry i won't meet anyone else, also because the pain of getting divorced was so much more painful than i thought it would be.

i agree that if he cannot be respectful for a few weeks there doesn't seem to be much hope. and that it shouldn't be like a battlefield, which it is, and that i just simply don't have the energy for it. he is so headstrong. his family is toxic which a major issue i would have to deal with if we were back together.

the thing is, when i brought up the emotional abuse (context - he is putting his own needs first, i read in the lundy book he needs to realise what he has done to us and put his own needs and interests on the back burner for awhile - this was one of the signs of change, i printed off about 11 points of change for him to read, as nothing else i said was getting through to him) he was very annoyed about it and said that i shouldn't be bringing it up and he won't be 'labelled' like that. he said he is dealing with the issues with his counsellor and i need to butt out of it. i have no idea wether to give it more time, if he is working on things, or to just leave it all. just need to wait on God. every time an 'incident' happens, instinct is to get a divorce straight away, i ring my mum and she says never make a decision when you are angry, which of course is great advice, but then i worry that when i am calm and he is nice i am getting sucked in. please just pray, and thank you so much for listening to this massive post!

Kaykat · 11/08/2014 09:58

Oh dear they never admit they are abusive do they. I don't think you are making the decision because you are angry I think you are making the decision because you are being treated badly again. However, why do you have to divorce if it causes you so much pain? Why not just live separately until he finished working on his issues with his counsellor then see what he's like after that?

My ex is texting DS constantly saying horrible things about me and DS either agrees or says something horrible about me himself. I don't know what to do. I don't think there's anything I can do.

Questionoffaith · 11/08/2014 10:15

Oh Kay how awful for you. How anyone can use their child like this is beyond me. I am sure that the day will come when your ds will see his father for what he is and also understand what you have done for him but that is no real consolation in the here and now. For all of us going through hard times at the moment I pray the words of the psalm that I am trying to keep in my heart at the moment, The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and he helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him.

Questionoffaith · 11/08/2014 10:25

Jan I agree with Kay. And maybe the reason it is so hard to make a decision at the moment is because it is not the right time to do so? The decision doesn't need to be either divorce or total reconciliation at the moment. You felt better when you were apart so maybe that is an idea for now. More time apart for you to gather your thoughts and heal, him to continue with his counseling and time for God to work and answer your prayers regarding what to do? The only thing that is clear at the moment is that you seem exhausted and battered and need some time and space to recuperate.

Dutchoma · 11/08/2014 11:00

I have just booked a pilgrimage to the Holy Land. Amber is going as well. We will hopefully keep each other out of trouble.

Questionoffaith · 11/08/2014 11:26

Oh how wonderful DO. What's the itinery and when do you go?

Dutchoma · 11/08/2014 12:19

We go 1-8th May next year. We will be by the Sea of Galilea, where we will sing! Otherwise I can't remember, but it will be fine.

Kaykat · 11/08/2014 13:55

I've calmed down a bit have re read the conversation and realised that he's doing the best he can for his age and maturity. Most of the time he just tries to change the subject and it is a relentless attack on me coming from his dad.

That sounds like something to look forward to Oma.

ZipadiSoozi · 11/08/2014 16:03

Congratulations Dutchoma and Amber, what a spectacular event to look forward to before you sing your way through! xxxxxxx (whilst keeping each other out of trouble) Smile

Muskey · 11/08/2014 21:24

Still asking for your prayers for my husband he is having a very tough time with a heart condition

Dutchoma · 11/08/2014 21:41

Praying Muskey.

Muskey · 11/08/2014 21:44

Thank you so much

PositiveAttitude · 11/08/2014 22:17

Praying for a break through in your DH's condition, Muskey and for you, too for peace and strength. Do you have children?

Exciting trip planned DO & Amber Smile

Jan be assured of prayers and I will see you soon Wink (I'll text you tomorrow if you see this tonight)

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