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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
jan2014 · 16/04/2014 10:07

Blessed thank you for sharing in so sorry you are going throughthis to and you are right God wants us just to depend b on him for understanding and comfort and to meet all our needs. ....He will help us and take out hand and uphold us when I we feel over whelmed. He chose us knowing our weakness lovingus any way. Thinking of you. It's hard when u don't meet your own and othersexpectations.

niminypiminy · 16/04/2014 10:21

Holding you both in my prayers. When things are hard I find this, from Julian of Norwich, very helpful:

'He did not say you should not be tempest-tossed; he said that you should not be overset.'

When the storms of life threaten to overwhelm us, be with us Lord Jesus, be with us in our fear and pain, and help us to know that your love us.

BlessedAssurance · 16/04/2014 10:27

Thank you Jan, mind what i am going through is nothing compared to what you are going through. I am struggling with breastfeeding and have never known such despair. However this is a choice i have made. I want to keep going for my two week old son and if i ever decide not to persue it then there is formula. You can not and are not able to choose and that is heartbreaking. But God is so good and my mantra is " this too shall pass" because nothing stays the same and things do eventually get better. The one perspn whose great expectations i will never meet is MIL. But that is a whole lot of threads and just to keep my sanity i will stay clear of anything MIL related. Praying for you..

Oma where are you? Have missed you. Hope you are alright and spending easter with your loved onesThanks

jan2014 · 16/04/2014 10:37

Thanks guys will reply more later for now I have marriage counselling and I don't know what is wrong with me but I keep crying not a great start. .. talk more soon

Bluetinkerbell · 16/04/2014 14:19

Checking in :)

Praying for everyone gearing up for Easter!
Very busy at work, organising a different craft activity every morning during Holy Week, which has been great so far.

Struggling with a really bad cold, but counting my blessings when I think of mhd and her rubbish lungs! thinking of you my friend!

Praying for everyone on the thread! and for those whose needs are known by God alone.

jan2014 · 16/04/2014 15:34

blessed what you are going through is totally valid and extremely exhausting and distressing experience.. I remember having struggles breastfeeding too and I felt that i couldn't give up either... it was so so so hard! (by the way it did get better for me in the end, i was glad i persevered, it was worth it, but the first few months were so hard. i introduced formula in the first few weeks so she had a mix of both and that helped) and you have a great attitude that 'this too shall pass' thank you for your encouragement.

the rest of the day has been very stressful - dh did not want to do the domestic abuse assessment as he doesn't want to label himself as this, he agreed in the end but it was very difficult so thats to come next week. im just home from my friends house...we had a play date but dds behaviour was that bad id to carry her to the car screaming.... need a break!

thinking of you all in the run up to easter and all the easter plans, and your health mhd and hope you are ok too Oma. sorry you are dealing with an unreasonable ex too kaykat at the minute, sounds so difficult being worried about your ds when he's away. thankfully dh is good to dd just saves his bad side for me.

dd asleep for a few mins yay

ZingHasAHotCrossBunInTheOven · 16/04/2014 17:32

DH has just called to say that DS5 has a place at our chosen primary school! YES! I'm so very happy about it!

I have been really worried he won't get in as we live just a bit too far ATM, but it's done. Thank you God!
I honestly don't know what we would have done otherwise, this is a massive thing for us!
I did try and pray about it today.
but now I'm just really grateful that God's plan for DS5 (and us) is the same as what we so hoped for.

I feel that I can breathe easier again.

lots of love to all of you again.

GingerCurl · 16/04/2014 23:09

Praying as I read through.

Prayers also for all hay fever sufferers at the moment.

Tuo · 16/04/2014 23:28

Lots of prayers tonight for jan. What an emotionally draining day you've had. I'm so sorry that your doctor wasn't understanding and would definitely recommend getting a second opinion. And the counselling sounds very tough indeed too. Be kind to yourself.

Also praying for BA. Have struggled with breastfeeding myself and know the physical pain and mental anguish. Thinking of you at this time, and of your beautiful baby boy too.

Praying for Blue and her busy week with a bad cold. Hoping it all goes well and that you feel better soon.

Praying for lovely Oma of course, too.

And for niminy - thank you for your prayers.

From tonight's Northumbria compline:

The peace of God
be over us to shelter us,
under us to uphold us,
about us to protect us,
behind us to direct us,
ever with us to save us. Amen

OP posts:
BlessedAssurance · 17/04/2014 01:57

Lovely prayer Tuo. Thank you.

SESthebrave · 17/04/2014 06:45

Sorry for long absence. Still just busy juggling life but all is well except for DD having a bad chest infection at the moment.

Read through TUO's wonderful introductory summary and the last page and lifting you all up to God in prayer with love.

Prayers also for a very blessed Easter Triduum for us all. I'm really looking forward to the next 3 days and feel very fortunate that we have some beautiful liturgies ahead.

Dutchoma · 17/04/2014 07:57

Oma needs your prayers
Dgrandaughter (5) asked if she might stay for a few days and was dropped off on Monday. We had a few battles in the day ("I'm NOT getting out of the park unless I get an icecream") but she went to bed like a lamb, then couldn't sleep for ages and fell into a terrible bout of homesickness. Unfortunately dd was not at the end of her phone and so we struggled for 2 1/2 hours until she finally fell asleep just before dd got back in contact. By this time I had promised her that mummy would come the following day and take her home. I think we both (dd and I) hoped that she would change her mind and stay; dd thought she could arrange that over the phone, I didn't and thought she had to come over to reassure her and give her the chance to either go home or stay. Dd thought it was too much trouble to come just to reassure her and was furious with me 1. "for not coping with a 5 year old for a few days" and 2. for insisting that she come with the chance that she would just go home without dd.
In the end she came to the park, retrieved her dd and flounced off saying she would never darken the door again and blaming me for 'spoiling Easter for everybody' The plan had been for her to come on Friday with dgrandson; ds,ddil and other dgd would come on Saturday to do coloured Easter eggs and then come on Sunday so everybody who wanted could go to church, we would have lunch together and then everyone would leave so I could get ready to go to Holland on Easter Monday.
Now she won't come at all and is depriving the grandchildren of being together which of course is all my fault. Sad

ZingHasAHotCrossBunInTheOven · 17/04/2014 08:24

oh Oma, sorry to hearThanks
that's just sad she reacted so harshly.
I think mums forget that when others look after the children the children might have other ideas (or get ill or unsettled) and it's not a guarantee that we'll have all the sweet free time we hoped for.
(and of course that's very frustrating for all involved)

Let her huff & puff today but maybe call her later? I don't think she means to "cancel" all the Easter fun & family time.
I hope she'll calm down.
I'm still struggling with the praying thing but I'm sending you big hugs.

((hugs))

niminypiminy · 17/04/2014 08:31

Oh, Oma that must be so upsetting. People who love each other can hurt each other so badly, can't they? I am praying that it will be well with you and DD and the rest of your family.

jan2014 · 17/04/2014 10:32

oh dear Oma that sounds like such a difficult situation. its such a hard experience when they don't settle and im sure even harder when you are not their mummy. i would have done the same thing as you did. i hope and pray this gets resolved in time for easter

madhairday · 17/04/2014 18:05

Oh Oma Thanks

That is so hard. Of course you have my prayers. I pray for reconciliation between you and dd, and that Easter will be lovely for you all.

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Is your dd struggling at the moment, with her dc at all?

Thanks for the continued beautiful prayers, Tuo - was thinking of you earlier, was using the Maundy Thursday virtual labyrinth I wrote last year as yet again I am stuck in away from the world, and was thinking about your labyrinth and all the good things you've talked about at your church :)

Praying for a blessed Good Friday....it's Friday but Sunday's comin', and all that...

Thanks [bsmile]

madhairday · 17/04/2014 18:06

Should be Easter Smile

they've added silly letters! Easter Hmm

crescentmoon · 17/04/2014 18:39

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madhairday · 17/04/2014 19:04

Hello crescent :) Always lovely to see you.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 17/04/2014 20:08

Oh Oma! It seems like such an over reaction and so hurtful for you Sad Ohhh lovely lady much prayer for you x

BlessedAssurance · 17/04/2014 20:46

Oh dear! Oma that is so sad especially since you are getting the blame for spoiling the holidays. I think us young mothers sometimes do forget that our darling angels are not that darling all the time. It is a pity that she took it so hard. Give her time to stew and get over it then maybe try to talk to her again. Small kids are very tricky that sometimes they are so eager to do something then all of a sudden change their minds and when they do there is no amount of persuasion that will work. Hope she will come around and realise that you did your best under the circumstances. Praying for you.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 17/04/2014 20:54

If my DD wanted to come home I'd want to know, to reassure her and either persuade her to stay or take her home. You did good Oma. Don't doubt yourself. I'm praying your daughter cools off and apologises x

Dutchoma · 17/04/2014 21:26

The biggest hurt was that she said that neither of the children now wanted to stay with me, when in both cases it was the fact that she was not on her phone that caused the difficulty. If she had been available to speak to dgd on the phone when she was so upset it would have been so much easier. It most certainly was not my fault that she decided not to take her charger with her when she went to visit her friend, knowing that the battery was about to run out.
Then if she had simply come on Wednesday after work, dgd could have decided whether she wanted to go home or stay with me for the extra couple of nights. We were on the point on sorting things out, but it was her attitude that made it impossible for dgd to say she would like to stay after all.
Exactly the same happened a couple of years ago with the dgs who was a bit younger and took a bit more work, but we were getting there.
She also said that I was the only person the children were not happy to stay with, but dgd said she also cried sometimes when she was with granny.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 17/04/2014 22:05

That's so harsh Sad and disrespectful of you as her mum. Not honourable.

If they stayed with you more, they'd be used to you. It was right to try and call her. She's also forgetting with dear Bob unwell they couldn't have stayed more in the past, surely?

Wish I could hug you dear Oma x

Mine are only 5&6 I'd have my phone near me and on whenever they were with someone else, even family. Especially if I thought they'd be homesick.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/04/2014 22:07

oh gosh you have been busy. not asure the comp will last til I have read so posting and going back if time.

ex is bringing his lap top (hope) so we CAN ORDER A NEW COMPUTER. PRAY IT IS QUICK!

sorry caps lock.

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