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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
BlackeyedSusan · 19/06/2014 13:47

ds is of school with a bad tummy. unfortnately I have a bad tummy too, but need to collect dd. please pray I can cope/find someone to help.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/06/2014 16:38

girl collected. ds and i sat on the bench at the front of school in the shade. a friend bought dd round.

i managed a slice of plain bread before we went, and things seemed to have moved further along, so sore intestines which is preferable to feeling sick.

Dutchoma · 19/06/2014 16:43

You poor thing. Glad you got a little bit of help, hope you soon feel better and dd does not pick up what you two have got.

PositiveAttitude · 19/06/2014 17:35

Hi ladies, sorry for absence recently. Life is totally manic with preparations for DHs return and me trying to take a few weeks off work to spend quality time together.
This week DD2 was admitted into hospital in London and her appendix was removed in the wee small hours of Wednesday morning. She should be allowed out today. not sure yet whether she will be recovering in London, or coming home for a while. She was supposed to be starting a new job this week, but they have been very understanding about it all.

I am going to post this now because my internet is playing up.....please forgive the short message. I do pray for you all regularly as I read.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/06/2014 19:38

mumsnet has been playingup all day.

I am feeling a lot better. ds is still not so well.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/06/2014 23:31

ds is really hot. given him paracetamol again and he has gone back to sleep. he is only in vest and pants as he is so hot.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/06/2014 23:54

aggh. they are synchronised to go off at the same time.. both howling at once. ds is eating his tea.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/06/2014 07:40

1-2.30 on the floor. about 3 the paracetamol wore off and ds came to bed with me. woke me around five for a wee. not yet up. sytuggling with tiredness now.

Dutchoma · 20/06/2014 07:52

BES prayers winging your way. How's ds' temperature?

BlackeyedSusan · 20/06/2014 09:52

still high.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/06/2014 14:51

both of us dosed with paracetamol. off to collect dd and take her to school thing.

Kaykat · 20/06/2014 16:54

I didn't get the promotion but that's ok I could probably do without the extra stress right now.

I am thankful that DS had a fantastic week at school doing some wonderful activities which he really enjoyed and now seems back to normal. He has spoken about the 'wonderful life advice' that his dad gave him last weekend and I had to just smile and nod. Actually I think it's pretty abusive to send him back in such a distressed state and tell him he must keep whatever it is a secret and its made me hope he stays away from us now for another long time.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/06/2014 23:40

sorry kay.

BlackeyedSusan · 22/06/2014 00:35
DontstepontheMomeRaths · 22/06/2014 07:25

His actions are very abusive Kay. I'm so sorry.

Hope everyone is having a lovely weekend.

Dutchoma · 22/06/2014 08:51

Looking forward to ds' visit with ddil and darling Rose.

Kaykat · 22/06/2014 09:19

Have a lovely day Oma.

Normally I keep ex updated with stuff DS is up to and this week he's done some fantastic stuff that I would normally share but now I'm not so sure it's the right thing to do. He upset DS so much that I now feel uneasy about encouraging him to be part of his life and I also feel uneasy about not including him in his life - yes i am confused. DS won't tell him anything himself as they go weeks with no communication. Have any of you with abusive exes felt like this?

PositiveAttitude · 22/06/2014 09:25

Have a lovely day DO

Sorry about the job Kaykat. God must have something better for you.

Praying as I read through.

DD2 is out of hospital, but still feeling too sore to travel home at the moment. She has been told to take 3 weeks off work - her new job, but she is determined to be starting there in 2 weeks time. sometimes I wish she was a little less like me
When I drive up to London on Wednesday she might come home with us for a while, which could work out well, but I am leaving the decision with her.

Things are coming together nicely for DH's return. House is looking good - just a few small jobs here and there which are going to be done this week. Most of my work is getting sorted - just one of the jobs keeps throwing issues at me, but after Tuesday I am going to be very strict and not respond to any emails/texts/calls. They will have to cope without me!! until Thursday at least! Wink

Have a lovely sunny Sunday everyone.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 22/06/2014 09:44

I think fear guilt and obligation are clouding the issue Kaykat. In your circumstances having more distance and better boundaries really is ok. You have to protect yourself and your son. And trying to keep him in the loop and remain amicable for your sons sake is admirable but I think after last weekend, I'd say it was a firm reminder he's not like other men and mustn't be treated as such. No matter how much we want our children to have a good relationship with both parents and think it's the right thing to do. In your situation it's not. He's not a healthy influence on your son. You can't stop your son seeing him if he wants to but distancing yourself more I think over time will pay dividends.

I hope that makes sense?

Kaykat · 22/06/2014 10:12

Yes that makes sense. DS didn't see him for months and became a lot happier in that time. But after last weekend he has been saying that everything his dad says makes so much sense and his dad is the only one who understands him.

CharlotteCollins · 22/06/2014 13:49

I think that'd be wise, Kaykat, to keep a low profile. It does sound like it would be better if he disappeared again. All so worrying for you.

I wonder if you could suggest that DS looks for others who understand him so well? In church, amongst his friends at school? It's good to have a few people that you know that you can depend on when you need them. (And might dilute his influence a bit.)

My DS has his birthday party today at STBXH's house. I'm praying that it's a happy occasion for all the DCs, especially for DS, and that H doesn't spoil it at all. He is quite capable of upsetting the DCs in a way that leaves them convinced that they have done something wrong. (Like getting them to play together long after they've lost enthusiasm for it or long past their bedtime, and then snapping at them for squabbling or getting frustrated and saying he doesn't know why he bothers spending time with them.) The hardest thing about the split is not knowing what's going on any more - although tbh I never knew what to do or say to make it better afterwards anyway.

I'm spending a quiet day at home preparing for mediation this week. Wisdom would be appreciated - discussing large sums of money all feels too grown up for me. Although I do love having some control over what I spend these days.

cloutiedumpling · 22/06/2014 14:07

Kaycat - how old is DS? I have a feeling he is a teenager? If so, I'd leave it up to him to tell his dad about the stuff he has been doing at school etc.

PA - how are things going? Are you standing to be a deacon? I'm afraid I can't remember if you moved churches or not. If you didn't, it may be God's way of bringing change into your church family.

I'm going to England in a couple of weeks. I'll be near a cathedral town and was thinking of going to Evensong. I've never been to an Evensong service before though and I'd be grateful if someone could give me an idea of what to expect. Would there be lots of spoken responses? What would they be? We don't tend to do them in our church and on the odd occasion that I've found myself going to a CofE service I've often felt a bit lost. Thanks.

PositiveAttitude · 22/06/2014 15:19

Thank you Cloutie. The deacons elections are this Thursday. I am standing for election. There are 4 places and 5 nominees, so 1 of us will be rejected. I feel quite relaxed about it - if God wants me there, then I get in, if He doesn't, I don't. I just hope I can be that relaxed after the event if I am rejected! Confused It is with the same church that I have been in for the past 30 years.I didnt move churches - it became an "all or nothing" sort of thing,so I went with the "all" and I will be guided by God if that is His plan too. I will keep you posted......

A day of trips to the tip when I would have preferred to be lying on the beach, but all done now. House is looking good!! Garden is tidy, too.

Dutchoma · 22/06/2014 15:44

I go to Choral Evensong at our nearby very high church. You are usually given a leaflet with all the responses and the 'programme'. I would go and sit where you can see what others are doing and just do what they do. Even if you just quietly in a corner and observe nobody is going to mind. It's my very favourite service.

cloutiedumpling · 22/06/2014 15:53

I like the sound of a programme! It'll be very different from what i'm used to, but I think it is good to try different things occasionally.