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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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sunshinemmum · 19/05/2014 15:43

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Kaykat · 19/05/2014 17:02

Niminy I couldn't find your chat thread but I have a DS a few years older than yours. I would say that 10 is about the age they start to get curious and although you can be very careful with your own internet they will still see things at school on friends phones whose parents aren't so careful.

I dealt with it by giving DS regular lectures about the exploitation of women in porn and how fake it all is and the possibility that some of it could be illegal and it seems that the school back this up by giving a similar message, certainly at secondary school. I also told him that i dislike it so much that if I find any evidence on his phone or laptop I will immediately cancel our internet contract and not to bother trying to hide it because I could ask the internet provider for a list of all sites visited. That appears to have been enough of a deterrent.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 19/05/2014 20:52

Sounds a good, robust approach kaykat

In other news I have an interview for a great job that I think would be perfect for me. Interview is in half-term so I need to work out what I'm doing with the DC - have an adventure play place in mind for them for the two days I'm doing things - interview, and meeting with my voluntary work for Quakers for our annual gathering in the summer.

Also need to visit two pre-schools in the coming week (as job will be based in more than one setting)
Quite exciting to have things to look forward to!

NoRoomForALittleOne · 19/05/2014 21:57

Something has happened that has left me angry and hurt. I'm not going to go in to details but I'd appreciate prayers for a sense of perspective to be found and to know that God has it all in hand so it's not worth getting upset about it.

Niminy I remember reading about a number of 10/11 year old boys regularly watching porn a while ago. There will be good help available I'm sure. There are a handle of Christian sex therapists in the UK who may be able to give you good advise on how to handle the situation without it having long term consequences (in terms of damaging your relationship with him or his ability to have a healthy relationship as an adult). The only one who immediately springs to mind is Tania Bright-Cook but she is amazing at knowing how to deal with children so that they grow up to have a healthy attitude towards their bodies, relationships and sex. Maybe it's worth trying a specialist like her?

NoRoomForALittleOne · 19/05/2014 22:02

Oh, and on a practical note, porn is addictive because of how the brain reacts to it so turning the Internet off and forcing his brain to have a break from porn for a while will help even if he resents it.

tunnocksteacake · 19/05/2014 22:11

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BlackeyedSusan · 19/05/2014 22:43

(hugs) to room and tunnocks

Mulberrystreet · 19/05/2014 23:07

You're in my prayers tunnocks.

Tuo · 20/05/2014 00:57

Stopping by with prayers for all on here tonight.

niminy - that sounds so upsetting and difficult. I like Kay's very clear approach, but I know it's very hard. Praying for wisdom for you in dealing with this.

Room - praying for you in your situation of hurt and anger. May you find a way to resolve the situation for the best and for your own peace of mind.

tunnocks - I am thinking of you and praying for you and for your whole family. May you know love and support and strength, whatever may befall.

Praying also for juggling and PA and BES and sunshinemmum and for all who need our prayers tonight.

From tonight's Northumbria compline:

Save us, Lord, while we are awake,
guard us while we are asleep;
that, awake, we may watch with Christ,
and, asleep, may rest in His peace. Amen

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Tuo · 20/05/2014 00:58

(Actually not tonight's... I don't know what day of the week it is. Blush But appropriate anyway, I hope!)

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Dutchoma · 20/05/2014 08:09

Tunnocks, been catching up (just a little bit) with what you have been going through. Glad you came back on here - you may have gone of my radar a little but you won't have got off God's radar and I do so hope that you actually feel the truth of that. Praying blessings on you day, your husband, your family and on you.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/05/2014 10:36

morning all.

dealing with appointments for medicals and legal services. thank goad they have somewhere in my city and i am not getting sent to the Big city. have to arrange an appointment with GP re other issues I am having.

I am sore and goingtotake NSAIDs today.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 20/05/2014 10:38

Dear tunnocks, thinking of you and your lovely family.
I did just notice in your post where you say "Everyone thinks I should carry on as normal, so I do" and wondering if you need to give yourself more of a break, perhaps find a good person to talk to who can be with you on this journey.
You sound amazing BTW. I don't really keep on top of my housework at the best of times.
Anyway, thinking of you x

madhairday · 20/05/2014 12:24

Just read through and prayed. Not been around for a few days as life suddenly got manically busy after coming home from hospital. Done a bit too much so resting today - off on holiday on saturday so holding out for that.

Praying especially today for tunnocks, niminy, sunshine and room.

NoRoomForALittleOne · 20/05/2014 15:29

I've been invited to attend Reader Panel GrinGrinGrin

madhairday · 20/05/2014 15:37

That's fabulous Room :) :) Wine Cake Thanks

When is it? Praying for you :)

NoRoomForALittleOne · 20/05/2014 15:52

June 7th. Eek!

sunshinemmum · 20/05/2014 19:10

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jan2014 · 20/05/2014 19:35

calling in to say hi and thinking of each of you. thinking of you kaykat, i meant to reply to your post a good few days ago but got busy and side tracked, i hope you are ok and things are going to plan with the solicitor etc

got marriage counselling in the morning. nervous as going to tell him i want to wind the counselling down and want time to think about wether i want to continue (ie i want probably to get a divorce) just don't want all hell to break loose.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/05/2014 20:05

oh no sunshine. praying for a quick diagnosis and treatment.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/05/2014 22:09

ds is not talking to me tonight. he is making a sad face and I am not sure what he wants.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/05/2014 23:06

he resorted to writing me messages. on the plus side I have had a good lok at what he can spell. he is pretty good at spelling "google maps"

he had a long nap afterschool so has woken up for his tea

JugglingFromHereToThere · 21/05/2014 09:22

Thinking of you all

Say a quick prayer for me as am visiting one of the pre-schools this afternoon - in a way the first part of the interview.
And DH has been very tricky this morning about our plans over half-term.

I could do with a more peaceful start to my day. Has anyone got any (peace and calm) ?!

Dutchoma · 21/05/2014 09:55

Praying that you will find the peace of God right and deep within yourself Juggling

JugglingFromHereToThere · 21/05/2014 10:49

Thanks Oma

Just had a good chat with a friend too so that's helped restore some perspective.