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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
Dutchoma · 28/04/2014 07:22

*CaptainDippy has asked for prayer for her foster sister, who has been told the baby she is expecting has died. Full term.

BlackeyedSusan · 28/04/2014 08:18
Sad
madhairday · 28/04/2014 10:30

:( Praying for CDs sister. How very, very tragic :( :(

Thanks for prayers. just waiting now to hear about a bed. hope it's today, they said it would be but you know what it's like.

BlessedAssurance · 28/04/2014 12:36

Oh dearSad. That is just horrible. Praying for CaptainDippy..
MHD how are you? Thinking of you today. Praying that it will be well.

madhairday · 28/04/2014 18:20

Thanks blessed - now in hospital waiting for first IVs - well waiting for line to go in first! Pah. At least I'll get it over with now. Love to all

Tuo · 29/04/2014 00:50

Praying for CaptainDippy and for her sister. What terribly sad news. Also praying for those (on this thread or known to us) who know the unspeakable awfulness of the loss of a child.

Praying for MHD in hospital, for good care and a swift recovery.

And praying for the family, friends, and students of the teacher killed in Leeds today.

Out of the depths I cry to you, Lord;
Lord, hear my voice.
Let your ears be attentive
to my cry for mercy. [...]
I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits,
and in his word I put my hope. (From Psalm 130)

OP posts:
jan2014 · 29/04/2014 14:10

terrible captaindippy. so traumatic... praying.

mhd how are things going, thinking of you stuck in the hospital at the minute.

had a run in with MIL this morning. last thing i need on my way to work (she minds dd when i work a few hours) with her basically putting down my parenting (re toilet training), and dd ending up in tears cos the dog started growling at me, apparently he has an anxiety disorder and hates it when people come and go because i split up with dh.

Dutchoma · 29/04/2014 17:54

Are you really saying the dog has an anxiety disorder because you and h split up? That's why he growls at your dd? It would be funny if it weren't so sad and upsetting for you.

jan2014 · 29/04/2014 19:20

yeah sort of - my MIL has just blown things out of proportion as usual. the dog growls viciously when people come and go. today he growled at me, and mil said 'oh he has an anxiety pyschological problem with people coming and going, because of your break up' and i told her 'well that makes sense in some ways because every time we had an argument, dh followed me round the house till he was shouting in my face and i had to leave the house' - it does make sense, as now the dog associates leaving the house with tension and arguments etc, but mil prob doesn't understand that bit.
anyway i said sorry to the dog, and he nearly went for me, by this stage dd is crying a lot and i pick her up and cuddle and and mil just says, ill just take her now this is just making her worse. im more annoyed about her ridiculing my parenting. its all done with a joke with a jag type way 'if you don't get her toilet trained i'll have your life' 'she doesn't get away with anything with me' 'oh i keep a tight reign on mine' - all implying i don't do any of this. i went out of there so angry and upset. she is my dd i can take my time potty training her till the cows come home if i want to. i just said im doing very well with her thanks... and it took a lot of guts to say that lol.

CharlotteCollins · 29/04/2014 22:06

Well done you for saying that. I didn't potty train any of mine till they were 3 and I am still working on complete success with DS who is 6! So the pressure's off... shame about unhelpful MIL comments, though.

BlackeyedSusan · 30/04/2014 14:18

bad computer issues. hoping can do dd's homework on the computer.

BlackeyedSusan · 30/04/2014 14:18

need a miracle to get cheap school cardis before week monday and the uniform sale.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 30/04/2014 17:17

I'd find new childcare arrangements jan. She'll be turning your DD against you as she grows. It's not healthy for her or you. I'm praying you'll find the strength to keep standing up to her and also to find new childcare before your DD gets bigger and notices more.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 30/04/2014 17:18

BES are you still getting a new computer? As you all know we wanted to bless you and help you. Do let us know if we can help.

BlackeyedSusan · 30/04/2014 19:20

we have one ordered so prayer that the old one turns on and the new one comes soon are in order.

I am posting and running as we are getting random crashes.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 30/04/2014 20:02

Good.

I use my iPhone for mumsnet, fb and e-mail. I haven't switched on a pc at home for days Grin

Although I spend too much time with my phone in my hand looking at things. Which isn't good for my munchkins Blush. They deserve me in the present and not distracted elsewhere. It's too tempting at times though.

I feel so exhausted after days of no sleep and I have so much to do for the course and training day. My DS is on the mend, the antibiotics are working now but it all seems so inconvenient that things like this happen when I have lots to do and need to be alert and well rested.

Kaykat · 30/04/2014 23:52

Jan is that your dog or your mil's dog? It sounds a bit worrying growling and going for people, not to mention that sarcastic and patronising woman. If different childcare is an option at all I think you would have an easier mind.

I am trying to decide which route to go with legal matters. Two options, both better than current arrangements. Prayers that it would become clear which route to go would be lovely,thanks.

PositiveAttitude · 01/05/2014 08:52

Hi ladies, Just popping in to let you all know that I am praying for you.

cloutiedumpling · 01/05/2014 09:12

Lurking and praying

Hope you are feeling better MHD

madhairday · 01/05/2014 10:05

Praying for you all. I am feeling quite a lot clearer this morning - ya! Praying esp for Jan.

jan2014 · 01/05/2014 13:45

mhd glad you are feeling a little better thank you for prayer support..... kaykat i understand how difficult it is making these decisions and knowing how to choose what to do, praying for guidance.

i am always assured that the dog is ok and never left alone with the dc... im not entirely happy about it tbh. i do find mil so so difficult to deal with, her overbearing attitude and know it all attitude.

a lot been happening the last few days - been to EA assessment with the marriage counsellor on my own and the whole thing made me realise why we split up in the first place. also the counsellor said dh acts completely different when he is on his own than when with me.... she said he is more domineering with me. i really don't know what i am looking for from the counselling -like you kaykat, i just don't know where to go from here im not prepared to call it a day just yet but can't imagine a future together. wish God would just give me the answer. dd was misbehaving in her playgroup today and had to go to timeout. quite sad about that - usually she is good when i am not there. i hope she isn't going to start acting up with other people too.

cloutiedumpling · 01/05/2014 14:50

Does the dog belong to mil? If so, I'd use it as an excuse to look for alternative childcare

jan2014 · 01/05/2014 16:23

ideally it would be great to put her in nursery but i can't afford that right now. mum and dad already help me enough so i don't want to ask them for more. MIL is the only alternative really, plus even if i stopped her going on that day, she still spends most of her time with dh at her MILs as he likes getting the help....but at least i would not have to deal with her which would be a bonus. would be great to get a preschool place -i have applied but she is underage so probably won't happen.

BlessedAssurance · 01/05/2014 22:25

Jan so sad to hear all you are going through with your MIL. I am in the same boat as you and i recently posted about our latest argument concerning my new son's name. We currently have no contact which is sad but necessary. I really feel for you especially because it sounds like your hands a are tied wrt childcare. My prayers for you and your little one. Praying that things will be made clear concerning your marriage as well. You have a lot on your plate right now so may God give you the strength that is needed for each day to keep standing.

Kaykat · 01/05/2014 23:16

So after doing an EA assessment and observing that your h is domineering towards you is the counsellor still willing to continue with joint counselling? Because I thought they weren't meant to. Perhaps its time to refuse any further sessions until he can treat you as an equal. I can easily imagine what he's like my own h believes wholeheartedly that he knows more than and better than me in every situation he will never view any woman as his equal. Maybe you aren't ready for the answer yet its so hard to give up on a marriage. It was easier for me to detach because of the cheating.

I have had some clarity today. I realised that i am still very fearful of my ex. Still not sure what to do. Do i stand up for my rights which will make him angry and therefore put me in danger?

Also remembering MadHairDay in hospital tonight and praying your treatments are all successful and result in some long term benefits.

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