I was genuinely happy to see this thread dying especially on such a civil and peaceable note from both tethers and garlic. Then the bigots had to come and ruin it. They cant control themselves hmm. Thank god they have you with your lack of sexual assaults, sexual harassment, sexual discrimination and sexual abuse to 'civilise' them then. You should tell the government that all the laws protecting women in this country are obviously not needed because well western (did we really mean white there) men can 'control' themselves.
This is genuinely my last post because I can see the stirrers want to keep this thread alive and kicking to keep hurling abuse and bigotry at others. First point to those who say they are not convinced. How self important and up your self you are? Please dont flatter yourself. We dont need your approval. If all the world were to be against Islamic covering that wouldnt make me want to stop wearing it for one second. I LOVE HOW I DRESS I DO NOT WANT TO CHANGE! Muslim women are not doing it for your approval they are doing it to draw closer to God. Why do I need to convince you of anything? Its as pointless as trying to convince you to pray 5 times a day or fast in Ramadhan. We do it because its part of our religion and we benefit spiritually from following our religion. Its amazingly patronising and arrogant for you to assume that we have to justify our life choices to you or that we need debate so that you can convince us we are wrong? As if we dont hear your viewpoint enough as it is .
The only reason I engaged in this thread is because there is a serious risk to me, my family and friends that if this kind of bigotry and prejudice goes unchallenged that we are going to sleepwalk in to the dire situation of the muslims in France who are forced to give up aspects of their religion and are still not accepted in to mainstream society. (Cote I know you will try to challenge this but I have friends who live in France who are quintessentially French secularists but still struggle to overcome prejudice because of the colour of their skin. Your experience as a white, European living in a white European country are one thing but try being a black African or an Asian living in France and you will find your experiences will be very different). For my future, I need to gauge now whether I need to stop wasting my effort, time, money and emotional energy trying to integrate in to a society that will never accept me until I apostate from my faith. Luckily this thread has given me hope that there are still people out there who despite their personal opinion support the principles of freedom of expression, freedom of thought and freedom of religion. That is what I love about this country and what makes me proud to be a British Muslim.
Along the way we got in to some interesting debates and exchanged viewpoints about a range of topics from feminism, shame, patriarchy, history of women's rights etc. However I'm saddened that at the end of that some people still feel that we need to be converted to their view of thinking. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can make choices that are different to yours and still live a fulfilled and happy life? I see people dressed everyday in ways that I would NEVER choose to dress and that I secretly hate but you know what I genuinely never for one second think I wish I could change that person to dress more like me. Is that what you want a world where everyone dresses in the same manner as you do? What a dull and boring place it would be. Diversity is the spice of life. It makes humans so much more interesting that we have different cultures, customs, histories, views, ideas, values especially when we can share them without trying to out do or suppress eachother. You dont value modesty and that is fine for you. But understand that I do value it and that is fine for me. Almost every muslim has at one point memorised or recited this chapter from the Quran:
"Say, Oh Unbelievers, I do not worship what you worship. Nor are you worshippers of what I worship. I shall never worship what you are worshipping. Nor will you be worshippers of what I worship. To you be your Way, and to me mine.' Holy Quran; Chapter 109
I will never give up my values or way of life to please or suit you but that doesnt mean we cant get along and live peacefully with one another with all our differences. That is in my opinion the best indicator of a civilised society.