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genuine question from atheist - view on Christanity and personal responsibility

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kentishgirl · 21/03/2014 11:26

Hi - promise this isn't just Christian-baiting.

I've come to the conclusion that Christianity is a substitute for having a personal conscience or taking personal responsibility. Being a Christian is like having a 'get out of jail free card' in that you are taught God will forgive you anything. So you can do anything, as bad as you like, go and pray for forgiveness and move on, slate wiped clean, feeling great about yourself. So it doesn't matter if you do wrong. As an atheist, if I do something wrong, it's always with me, it's always on my conscience, so that makes me always try to do the right thing.
I didn't always think this way. It's the only way I can make any sense of something that happened to me at the hands of a couple of serious, committed Christians. One of them even works full time for a church. They did something terrible to me but have shown no remorse, no guilt, and made no attempt to make things right with me. I'm positive they prayed for guidance at the time and then forgiveness afterwards, and now all's good in their world, while I'm still dealing with the fall-out.
Am I really wrong in interpreting Christianity in this way? Isn't it true that it enables horrible behaviour by teaching you that if you do wrong, all you've got to do is pray for forgiveness afterwards, and you are ok, never mind the effect of what you did? Basically if God is your only judge, and forgiveness is guaranteed, it gives you permission to act like a right bastard as long as you say sorry to God afterwards? there's no personal responsibility for what you have done.

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Contemplates · 05/04/2014 15:04

headinhands verses for what?

Verses to support your statement that God ordained rape etc.

Contemplates · 05/04/2014 15:08

headinhands "Or does he like watching helpless people suffer?"

Ezekiel 33:11 says even God takes "no pleasure in the death of the wicked".

headinhands · 05/04/2014 15:20

And the LORD said unto Moses, 'Take all the heads of the people and hang them up before the LORD against the sun, that the fierce anger of the LORD may be turned away from Israel.'" (Numbers 25:3-4)

headinhands · 05/04/2014 15:23

"Thus saith the LORD of hosts, I remember that which Amalek did to Israel, how he laid wait for him in the way, when he came up from Egypt. Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass." (I Samuel 15:2-3)

headinhands · 05/04/2014 15:25

"Every one that is found shall be thrust through; and every one that is joined unto them shall fall by the sword. Their children also shall be dashed to pieces before their eyes; their houses shall be spoiled, and their wives ravished." (Isaiah 13:15-16)
By the way, ravished doesn't mean kissed passionately in this passage. Confused

headinhands · 05/04/2014 15:27

"The righteous shall rejoice when he sees the vengeance. He shall wash his feet in the blood of the wicked." (Psalms 58:10)

headinhands · 05/04/2014 15:30

He's a bit barbaric your god. isn't he? He very much reminds me of the sort of barbaric and bloodthirsty human characters you got a few thousand years ago.

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headinhands · 05/04/2014 15:37

'But that's the Old Testament' is up there with 'I'm not racist but' and 'she knows how to make me angry'

niminypiminy · 05/04/2014 17:05

Do you two ever actually listen? Has anyone on this thread said that the Old Testament doesn't count any more?

And if I were to offer to go through those quotations you've picked out and discuss them with you, would you be happy to talk about them in detail?

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niminypiminy · 05/04/2014 18:41

I'm on my phone so can't easily go back and check the context of the post you've quoted, and so I don't know what the poster was referring to. But if s/he meant, as a general principle, that the Old Testament is irrelevant for Christians, then s/he is wrong.

I'm happy to have a chat about those quotes, but I've got some child-wrangling to do now, so will come back later when I've got time to think properly.

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Contemplates · 05/04/2014 20:43

headinhands Sat 05-Apr-14 15:20:27
And the LORD said unto Moses, 'Take all the heads of the people and hang them up before the LORD against the sun, that the fierce anger of the LORD may be turned away from Israel.'" (Numbers 25:3-4)

Context, people, context!

The book of Numbers was written by Moses primarily 1444-1405 B.C.
The chapter 25 quoted here refers to a time when the Israelites were in a shaky position spiritually and had hardened themselves against God, choosing to rebel and go directly against God, worshipping idols instead. As always, such behavior brought with it a list of sins as long as your arm. The ringleaders were publically punished by death, not “all the heads of the people” like you described. It was the leaders. How many leaders were there? 10? 5? Or 2? We aren’t told. But it isn’t the masses like you’ve implied.

Where have we seen such pubic executions in modern times? The hanging of Saddam Hussein springs to mind. Why is his death ok but not that of other leaders who brought destruction to their people? Was it how he died? Was it because we decided he should pay the penalty rather than God? And what of people who die on death row. That’s not even for religious reasons, yet I don’t see everyone complaining about it on MN.

headinhands Sat 05-Apr-14 15:23:01
"Thus saith the LORD of hosts, I remember that which Amalek did to Israel, how he laid wait for him in the way, when he came up from Egypt. Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass." (I Samuel 15:2-3)

The background to this (for context) is that God’s people had just escaped from Egypt, warn and weary, probably with very little hope, and were ambushed and attacked without mercy for no good reason by the Amalakites, The Kenites however, showed mercy towards the Isralites and helped them in their distress, so they could recover. AS a result, in verse 6, we see the instruction was to warn the Kenites to flee, so they were not destroyed with the Amalakites.

Remember that, even though God is merciful, He also is a God of judgment. That is why He bothered to inform everyone in the bible, so everyone has a fair chance to escape judgment because they are trusting in Him and not their own ‘works’ for eternal life.

headinhands Sat 05-Apr-14 15:25:48
"Every one that is found shall be thrust through; and every one that is joined unto them shall fall by the sword. Their children also shall be dashed to pieces before their eyes; their houses shall be spoiled, and their wives ravished." (Isaiah 13:15-16)?By the way, ravished doesn't mean kissed passionately in this passage.

Yes I realise what ravishing means. However, again, if you look at the context you will see that the Babylonian warfare was exceptionally brutal and part of a battle involved raping women and then killing the enemy (of all ages) indiscriminately with swords as par for the course.
Does this mean rape is ok with God? Of course not. Does that mean killing each other is ok with God? Of course not. But He deals with us in a human way. There is a massive difference between punishing evil people and genocide.

Would you have orphaned children unable to fend for themselves, dying of sickness and starvation? We even offer to euthanise people to escape suffering these days, why is it such an alien concept just because it was decided by God and not the person suffering? The innocent, like babies, go straight to heaven when they die. We all have to die some day and death is not very pleasant at the best of times. I can't say why God has different lifespans for different people, and one person may live to be 7 and someone else 77. And of course, as I pointed out earlier, God, who is a God of mercy, takes no delight in the death of the unrighteous.

This account in Isaiah is prophetic (described in verse 1 as an “oracle” where these things are ‘seen”) and telling the bloodthirsty Babylonians that there is a war coming that is very real and that they need to be very afraid of, described in the same way that they understood war to be. Interestingly warfare today isn’t always all that much different. We haven’t progressed much as a species, have we?

headinhands Sat 05-Apr-14 15:27:37
"The righteous shall rejoice when he sees the vengeance. He shall wash his feet in the blood of the wicked." (Psalms 58:10)

Again, this is a prophetic prayer of David. I’d like to pose a question to you about this one. This thread started about how Christian’s are perceived to be not held accountable and so ‘get away with everything’, and people think this shouldn’t be the case. Obviously I agree to some extent as I recognise God holds people accountable (though am also glad for God’s mercy), but one theme that seemed to run through was that christians shouldn’t ‘get away with it’. There seemed to be a strong sense of justice where they are avenged by God rather than let off scott-free. How do you see this subject: the case for forgiveness or the case for vengeance?

Would you have a serial killer roam free? I know that if someone killed my beautiful children I would want to see them avenged. To some degree our legal system is a type of vengeance. If you murder you will get imprisoned, or in some countries killed. And in the case of those who are killed, whose blood is on whose hands?

headinhands Sat 05-Apr-14 15:30:04
He's a bit barbaric your god. isn't he? He very much reminds me of the sort of barbaric and bloodthirsty human characters you got a few thousand years ago.

The intent of many who make such claims is to make God look evil, in attempt to justify their position of rejecting Him. But if God didn’t exist then there would be no basis to say there is evil or good and therefore brutality would also be neither good nor evil.

I disagree that God is barbaric. If you look up the word Barbaric you will see it says:
bar·bar·ic [bahr-bar-ik] Show IPA
adjective
1.without civilizing influences; uncivilized;
But God is far from being without civilizing influences. You can’t get more civilizing influence than a Holy God who is more merciful and loving than you or I could ever be.

BigDorrit Sat 05-Apr-14 15:31:26
Oh, but that's only the old testament, apparently that doesn't count anymore.??Although their Jesus character said that it still does...

Of course the OT counts. However, we are told in the NT that the old has gone and then new has come. The coming of the Messiah shifted from the dispensation of law to the dispensation of Grace.

headinhands Sat 05-Apr-14 15:37:37
'But that's the Old Testament' is up there with 'I'm not racist but' and 'she knows how to make me angry'

As I said, the OT counts. However, we are told in the NT that the old has gone and then new has come. The coming of the Messiah shifted from the dispensation of law to the dispensation of Grace and how God dealt with us also altered. Instead of looking ahead to the Messiah and saying to God “I trust in you and the Messiah you WILL send to pay the ultimate sacrifice for our sins, we are now looking back and saying to God “ I trust in you because of the Messiah you DID send to pay the penalty in full”.

We don’t follow the old testament laws because that was under the dispensation of Law. A sacrifice of blood had to be given as a token of faith to the blood that was due to be shed for our sins by the coming Messiah.

Once Jesus had died the dispensation of Grace changed all of that, and the need for blood sacrifices was removed, along with other parts from the dispensation of Law from the old testament. However, the OT is still important because it demonstrates much about God and His interactions with humankind, and weaves a theme that links beautifully consistently with the NT.

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Contemplates · 05/04/2014 22:09

The death of anyone is sad, BigDorrit. If they're evil it is sad that they chose a life that hurt others; if they're "normal" or innocent infants then we see it as tragic. too. But when does death stop being a tragedy. When you're 6 months, 6 years or 66 years old?

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cupsareace · 05/04/2014 22:14

Disobedience to God invokes all sorts of nasties.

The thing is for me, resistance is futile.

He, one way or another, is obeyed else Hell awaits. As some of you well know.

There is something somewhere about who are we to question what God does - or something like that.

You could speak till the end of time, but can never get over the facts.

Presumably some of you will keep on trying though.
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To lurkers. If you do obey, you get many blessings.

Contemplates · 05/04/2014 22:28

BigDorrit Sat 05-Apr-14 22:12:56
I won't say there aren't deaths I have been happy about,
What deaths are ok by you then, and why?

but I'm afraid I can't see that wanton slaughter on this scale is something I'd be cheering on.

No one is cheering, BigDorrit. Not even God, who makes it clear He doesn't delight in the death of the wicked.

niminypiminy · 05/04/2014 22:28

But is Contemplates or anybody else "cheering on" wanton slaughter, or saying it is ok to murder infants? No, of course not. But she or he is looking at the quotations in the context that they occur in the text, not simply picking them out. It's possible to make anything mean anything by selective quotation.

I won't say there aren't deaths I have been happy about so you celebrate death do you? I expect you have a party when you hear someone you don't like has died

Now, I don't for one minute think that you actually do this; but it is certainly possible to take your words out of context and twist them to mean that you do.

I have differences with the way Contemplates reads the Bible but I think s/he is perfectly right to say that to understand we must read the whole text and put these very difficult passages in context. Otherwise we are being like Humpty-Dumpty in Alice in Wonderland and insisting that things mean just what we say they mean.

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capsium · 05/04/2014 22:59

As a modern reader, leaving in relatively (though not completely) times these passages are very difficult. I've certainly not much of a stomach for war. We too easily forget how brutal and bloodthirsty societies can be. The Vikings wanted to die fighting, that was seen as good and honourable death from their perspective. I expect there were lots of similar peoples.

capsium · 05/04/2014 23:02

Attacks? What attacks? I, for one, have certainly questioned but that is what happens on discussion forums.

capsium · 05/04/2014 23:03

^living not leaving. Typo.