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A new Christian prayer thread for 2014

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Tuo · 02/01/2014 00:58

Welcome to our new prayer thread for 2014. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what’s going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad; prayers too for her aunt who is seriously ill; and prayers for a good recovery from her gallstones operation;

... BananasForTed, praying for her mental health and for her difficult work situation, and also praying that she was able to go back to her church and that she found support there;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school;

... BlessedAssurance, when she feels challenged because of her faith at her place of work; also for her pregnancy and for her eye problems;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to find somewhere good to live and a job;

... bountyicecream, thanking God for her renewed happiness after leaving a very difficult and abusive relationship, and praying that she will continue to grow in happiness and strength in the future;

... CharlotteCollinsisinherownplace, giving thanks for her new home and new job;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, thanking God that an MRI has shown her brain to be normal, and for the continued progress of her niece, little Grace, born prematurely;

... DutchOma and Bob, for Bob's health to be as stable as possible and for him to receive good care in the hospice; also praying for him to see some glimpses of light in what is, admittedly, a very difficult situation, so that his outlook may be less 'catastrophic'; and praying for Oma that she may find rest and peace of mind and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, giving thanks for the successful completion of her thesis and praying for her viva to go well; also for Ginger’s MIL who has been diagnosed with cancer;

... HadALittleFaithBaby, for all bugs to leave to Faith household; also for her neighbour who has cancer and for his family;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for a job which interests and fulfils her;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and praying for her DS to cope well with his new situation and not allow his dad to influence him in a negative way; also praying that she will find a welcoming church community in her new place;

... MadHairDay, thanking God for a Christmas spent at home with her family, and praying for continued health in 2014; praying too for health and love and friendship for MHD’s DD;

... NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, for her relationship with her DS and for support for them to understand his anger and frustration and find ways to avoid it if possible;

... niminypiminy, for happiness in her new home;

... octopusinastringbag, thinking of her as she feels drawn to explore faith in more depth;

... PandaG, for her mum's health;

... PositiveAttitude and her family; in particular, at this time, for DD3, praying for a happy end to her pregnancy with no complications; also praying for PA's parents’ health, for her DD1's finances, for her DS's anxiety, and for PA as she awaits the outcome of a job application and misses her DH and DD4;

... revivingshower, praying for her back pain to ease and thanking God for her family who've been supporting her during this tough time;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her DD3 to stay well and to sleep well too, so that Room can get enough rest;

... RunRunRuby, thanking God that she has come to our thread and praying that her faith may be strengthened;

... SESthebrave, for all that she has to juggle in her life, with work and DC;

... SunshinemMum, praying for her and her family as they look for a new spiritual home after leaving their previous church; may they find the place that is right for them, and may it welcome them with open arms;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, for a more peaceful time now to recover from the hecticness that is Christmas, and for her academic work;

... weegiemum, giving thanks for her own better health, but praying for her stepmum and for Kat, who are both seriously unwell and for all in the family affected by their illnesses;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: Bluetinkerbell, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger and her family, JakeBullet, jan and her DD, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, Soozi, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don’t post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God’s love.

May God bless us all in 2014.

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CharlotteCollins · 07/03/2014 23:25

Please pray for me for wisdom in discussing money matters with STBXH. He's trying to get as much money out of me as possible, despite earning a good salary while I have a low-paid temporary job. My gut reaction is still to give him what he wants for an easy life... I need to be a bit stronger!

madhairday · 08/03/2014 09:34

Thankyou TUO. I needed to see that this morning.

Please can I ask for prayers now for dh. Got a text this morning saying 'big difficulties at airport - please pray hard' but no more and he hasn't texted back again :( He is still stuck at airport in DRC, he has already been delayed 24 hrs. I am sure it is just more delays - apparently it is renowned - but I am a bit worried esp as he hasn't text back, but telecommunications are v patchy there, no electricity etc so can't charge phone so could be anything. Please can you pray for safe return for him and the team soon :( Supposed to be back today, then tomorrow, no who knows :(

Dutchoma · 08/03/2014 09:55

Praying MHD

amberlight · 08/03/2014 09:59

Keeping all of you in prayers....

madhairday · 08/03/2014 10:07

Thankyou - quick answer to prayers, not sure what the problems were but seems God has broken them down - booked into a lunchtime flight. Hopefully should be smooth running now. :)

Kaykat · 08/03/2014 11:24

I get that too Charlotte, H in a highly paid job, me struggling to manage renting a house etc, he has our house so no rent and he gives me nothing yet totally indignant at the suggestion he should help me financially. If I ask he just comes up with an argument why I should give him money. They seem to believe very passionately that if we want their money we should jolly well live with them and be an adoring wife putting up with their abuse of us. I am starting to think I will never be able to divorce him or get a penny from him or my house.

Kaykat · 08/03/2014 11:26

Good news MHD and I'm sure he's done some wonderful work out there.

madhairday · 08/03/2014 11:27

Praying for you both, Charlotte and Kaykat :(

Dutchoma · 08/03/2014 11:40

Sometimes answers to prayer come so quickly, praise the Lord.
I have just received three beautiful mini hugs and ten cards. Such an outpouring of love.

BlessedAssurance · 08/03/2014 12:26

Thinking of you Oma. Wonderful news MHD. Praying for a safe journey for your Dh and team.

Kaykat and Charlotte what a difficult situation you both are in. Our God is exactly a God of situations like yours and we can trust Him to see us through,give us positive results. I pray that He will help you handle these situations and sway these men who are so set on crippling you financially and emotionally to your side. It shall be well.

Kaykat · 08/03/2014 16:00

Blessed I don't know why you worry about your English, your words are lovely. Had a bit of a tearful day the sunshine makes me miss my home. It shall be well. That will be my mantra.

BlessedAssurance · 08/03/2014 16:26

Thank you kaykat and yes it shall be well. My mantra is this too shall pass and it always does because nothing stays the same. God is in control and All thins work out together for good for us who love him.

Badvoc · 08/03/2014 19:30

Hello everyone.
Not posting much but thinking of you all, esp Oma, MHD and tuo.
Thank you for all the prayers...they must be working...I am still just about holding my head above the water!
Ds2 is still not "right" :( back to gp I think.
Ds1 had a very good report at parents evening.
Things with my aunt are complicated and she is now in a nursing home. I hope to go and see her next week
the new baby is doing well :) his name is Isaac.
It will be 8 months this month since dad died. I miss him. I just really miss him :(

BlackeyedSusan · 08/03/2014 19:56

adding prayers for the current stage of his journey.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/03/2014 20:06

yay badvoc. we can tread water together, it is always easier to bare/bear* with someone else.

the good news:

the emails sound hopeful, though we shall have to wait and see what comes out of them

the person I was hoping might be around in the day sometimes was around in the day on friday am so I am hoping to get to speak to her sometime

I have rung my mum and she has made a tiny improvement. she is still worried about running out of food, but has said she can open a tin.

I have managed to do some housework today.

h has got his new phone and I can actually hear what he is saying again.

mum has been able to listen to messages on 1571... a miracle given she is still struggling to use the tv.

going back to the head above water thing. today it feels like I have managed to get a bit of wreakage to cling to, still in it up to my neck, but a little easier today.

h and I were discussing grief. he has yetr to go through much of the grieving process too. he also had to pull himself together and have a party the day his parent died for the sake of the children. and he did not get a lot of time off work to grieve. when his sister comes home I am sending him away with her to go and see the ashes site.

Tuo · 09/03/2014 01:53

My prayer tonight is for CharlotteCollins and for Kaykat.

May God bless you both, providing all you need; may the men you married recognise their duties towards you and your children and not try to shirk them; may your lives continue to grow in happiness and in confidence as you rebuild them and move on; and may you be blessed with love and support and friendship on all sides.

It seems to me that the 'Serenity Prayer' is appropriate to both of you today:

God, grant Charlotte, Kay and all of us the serenity the accept the things we cannot change, courage to change the things we can, and wisdom to know the difference. Amen.

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Kaykat · 09/03/2014 10:16

Thank you Tuo

Tuo · 10/03/2014 01:13

My prayer tonight is for all of those on here who have recently lost someone dear to them: for our dear Oma of course, and for Badvoc, and PandaG, and BES, and Faith, and anyone I've forgotten.

From a prayer by William Penn:

We give back to you, O God, whose whom you gave to us. You did not lose them when you gave them to us, and we do not lose them by their return to you. Open our eyes to see more clearly, and draw us close to you, that we may know that we are nearer to our loved ones, who are with you. Amen.

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Dutchoma · 10/03/2014 08:41

I had a bit of a light bulb moment this morning: someone wrote to me saying how 'brave' I was. I realised that I was not 'brave', I was working out of the strength God gave me. As He promised. Why are we surprised when God's promises come true?

BlessedAssurance · 10/03/2014 13:57

Please pray for my DF. He has been having some serious unexplained pain on his right hand. It is not swollen, he has not had a fall. He said it is just so painful yet there is nothing on it. My mother told me he groans with pain and is not sleeping or functioning well. My dad was run over by a bus over 30yrs ago and still suffers from wounds obtained in that accident. I have never heard him complain, not once, so to hear that he in that much pain breaks my heart. Healthcare in Africa is hopeless even if one sees a doctor. The only help he will get are a few pills. I do pray that God will help him and us so that we know what is wrong with him. I think it migt be easier to deal with if we knew what it was we were dealing with..

ALittleFaith · 10/03/2014 18:44

Evening all.

kay and Charlotte you are amazing women. You are brave and strong. Every hurdle you face is the enemy getting frustrated at your progress! Hold tight to your faith. I'm reminded of the phrase Be still and know that I am God.

bes it's still all go eh?! Glad to hear your Mum made some progress.

Thinking of you Badvoc. I think this is one of the toughest times, most people don't think to ask how you are so much any more but it still feels new to you. Praying for peace.

Things are fairly positive here. DH got promoted so I can drop my hours to two long shifts a week. I'll be doing less weekend work which will be good. Faithlet is almost 11 months old! She is a very happy soul :) DH still isn't coming to church (prayers please!) but I'm taking Faithlet when I can.

Praying through.

BlackeyedSusan · 10/03/2014 18:44

thanks tuo

Sad BA

please pray for my fridge freezer to bloomin start working again until monday next week when the engineer will come round. the fridge is currently not working and the dreezer part is showing signs of giving in.

pray for freezer space in someone elses fridge too!

Kaykat · 10/03/2014 22:42

Ah thanks Faith. So spurred on by recent comments on here I decided to tackle H again to try to sort things out. He fobbed me off as usual. The weird thing is that I felt incredibly guilty asking him for money. When I thought about it logically there was nothing to be guilty about, he should support his DC and he destroyed the marriage by sleeping with OW. But the thing is that against all odds I have food in my house and petrol in my car, my bills are paid and I have nice clothes and furniture that people have given me. God has provided so I should be grateful for that and not keep worrying about the future right?

Tuo · 10/03/2014 23:03

Tonight I am praying for our friend BlackEyedSusan.

BES, I pray for energy for you to tackle all the many things that you have going on in your life, for fellowship from your church, and support from those around you. I pray for you as you grieve for your dad, and also for your H as he deals with his own loss. I pray that your mum is well supported and able to cope. I pray for your DC, that they know happiness and acceptance. And I pray for peace in your life - just moments of peace amidst all the activity when you can just be you and be with God, peace of mind, peace and quiet, and the peace of God which surpasses our understanding.

Oh, and I pray to San Pascual Bailon, patron saint of kitchens, for the survival of your fridge-freezer, at least until next week.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

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CharlotteCollins · 10/03/2014 23:23

Thank you for the prayers and the kind words. Tuo - yes, the serenity prayer is spot on!