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A new Christian prayer thread for 2014

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Tuo · 02/01/2014 00:58

Welcome to our new prayer thread for 2014. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what’s going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad; prayers too for her aunt who is seriously ill; and prayers for a good recovery from her gallstones operation;

... BananasForTed, praying for her mental health and for her difficult work situation, and also praying that she was able to go back to her church and that she found support there;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school;

... BlessedAssurance, when she feels challenged because of her faith at her place of work; also for her pregnancy and for her eye problems;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to find somewhere good to live and a job;

... bountyicecream, thanking God for her renewed happiness after leaving a very difficult and abusive relationship, and praying that she will continue to grow in happiness and strength in the future;

... CharlotteCollinsisinherownplace, giving thanks for her new home and new job;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, thanking God that an MRI has shown her brain to be normal, and for the continued progress of her niece, little Grace, born prematurely;

... DutchOma and Bob, for Bob's health to be as stable as possible and for him to receive good care in the hospice; also praying for him to see some glimpses of light in what is, admittedly, a very difficult situation, so that his outlook may be less 'catastrophic'; and praying for Oma that she may find rest and peace of mind and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, giving thanks for the successful completion of her thesis and praying for her viva to go well; also for Ginger’s MIL who has been diagnosed with cancer;

... HadALittleFaithBaby, for all bugs to leave to Faith household; also for her neighbour who has cancer and for his family;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for a job which interests and fulfils her;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and praying for her DS to cope well with his new situation and not allow his dad to influence him in a negative way; also praying that she will find a welcoming church community in her new place;

... MadHairDay, thanking God for a Christmas spent at home with her family, and praying for continued health in 2014; praying too for health and love and friendship for MHD’s DD;

... NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, for her relationship with her DS and for support for them to understand his anger and frustration and find ways to avoid it if possible;

... niminypiminy, for happiness in her new home;

... octopusinastringbag, thinking of her as she feels drawn to explore faith in more depth;

... PandaG, for her mum's health;

... PositiveAttitude and her family; in particular, at this time, for DD3, praying for a happy end to her pregnancy with no complications; also praying for PA's parents’ health, for her DD1's finances, for her DS's anxiety, and for PA as she awaits the outcome of a job application and misses her DH and DD4;

... revivingshower, praying for her back pain to ease and thanking God for her family who've been supporting her during this tough time;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her DD3 to stay well and to sleep well too, so that Room can get enough rest;

... RunRunRuby, thanking God that she has come to our thread and praying that her faith may be strengthened;

... SESthebrave, for all that she has to juggle in her life, with work and DC;

... SunshinemMum, praying for her and her family as they look for a new spiritual home after leaving their previous church; may they find the place that is right for them, and may it welcome them with open arms;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, for a more peaceful time now to recover from the hecticness that is Christmas, and for her academic work;

... weegiemum, giving thanks for her own better health, but praying for her stepmum and for Kat, who are both seriously unwell and for all in the family affected by their illnesses;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: Bluetinkerbell, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger and her family, JakeBullet, jan and her DD, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, Soozi, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don’t post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God’s love.

May God bless us all in 2014.

OP posts:
Dutchoma · 27/01/2014 12:40

Yes, the whole weekend went very, very well. And now...I was in a really deep hole this morning until one of my dearest friends from church, who couldn't be there on Saturday, phoned to ask whether she should come over. And so I have taken some of the leftovers from yesterday out of the freezer and we will have lunch together. God is good.

DidoTheDodo · 27/01/2014 16:47

Rushing in to say oma I am glad Saturday went well and that you have a friend to support you today.

And I am now adding "all in need on MN" to my regular prayers. I wonder what God makes of that?

BlackeyedSusan · 28/01/2014 07:31

dd is off to the hospital, dyspraxia assesment I think or issues similar. she is a bit worried about it. I am tired.

PositiveAttitude · 28/01/2014 08:24

Prayers as I read through.

I wanted to let you all know that despite it taking me too long I am now at peace about not getting the job that I so wanted. I have realised that it was the personal side of the rejection that hurt so much, but I am through that now and trusting God to guide my future, whatever that may be.

DD3 has just 3 weeks to go now and is doing very well - definite answer to prayers as her CFS/ME is now manageable. She is hoping to be able to move house to be nearer to me soon after the birth, please pray that if it is right for her is works out easily.

DD1 is once again desperately looking for work and beginning to get down about all the rejection letters. I am praying so hard that she gets something soon. Please join me in these prayers.

Today I am "mum - sitting" while my dad goes to the hospital.

Prayers for God to bless each and every one of you today.

Dutchoma · 28/01/2014 09:10

Praying for you BES, what is the best way of catching up with you in RL?

Prayers of thanks for PA in coming to terms with not getting the job. 'With my God I can jump over a wall'. Prayers for dd3 in the last three weeks of her pregnancy and for an easy house move. Also for dd1 in finding work that will fit in with her university studies.

I am struggling a bit with a text I got from my dd: "Woot, woot, I have been approved for laparospic sterilisation". She's not quite 32 yet. Why does it hurt so much that she should even want this? Let alone being over the moon about it?

MaryBS · 28/01/2014 09:19

It was a lovely service, DO :).

Please pray for a friend who has had so much go wrong in her life, with no prospect of relief or much comfort. And who won't accept the help she needs.

Also for another friend whose health deteriorated suddenly, and her husband can't cope with it. I was reminded of you, lovely DO and your lovely Bob, and the love you so clearly had for each other. She goes into respite care, but her husband won't visit her there, and it seems that the love has gone. :(

Dutchoma · 28/01/2014 10:24

Visiting someone in respite care is very hard, even if the love has not gone Mary. The person in respite care is often very unhappy to be there and tries to hang on to the carer with every strength they have. Of course this defeats the object of the exercise. When Bob was in respite care I did not visit either, although of course I did when he was in hospital/hospice.

Prayers for your other friend too.

amberlight · 28/01/2014 11:37

Praying through for each of you...

NoRoomForALittleOne · 28/01/2014 12:16

DO I'm 31 next week and have asked for laparoscopic sterilisation. For me, the relief that I will never have to be pregnant again will be immense and I won't have to cope with hormonal contraception. I do realise that I have 4 children and my risks of hyperemesis, gestational diabetes, another birth with a shoulder dystocia and a significant PPH are all very high though and your DD may not have any issues. I guess it is a bit 'final'.

Dutchoma · 28/01/2014 15:01

Yes, that is, I think, just it, Room. She has none of those issues. I could go with it much easier if she did.

ALittleFaith · 28/01/2014 16:38

Praying bes for clarity about your DD's needs.

I think (based on recent comings and goings) that my neighbour has died. However he was at home with his family around and I think he was fasttracked home so they should have had support and good pain relief. Prayers for the family appreciated.

CharlotteCollinsinherownplace · 28/01/2014 21:33

I was delighted about my lapathingy sterilisation, but for similar reasons to Room's. Was there some aspect of pregnancy or the baby years that she didn't like, DO?

Badvoc · 28/01/2014 22:02

Hi everyone.
On phone so haven't read through.
Oma - I hope the service went well?
My aunt my be home from respite this week but... The nurses have basically told my cousin that she is "lazy" and can do much more for herself than she does at home! I am very torn by this....my mum, sis and I have been trying very hard to help/ be there and there have been times it's been very hard/ difficult, but she is dying...she has had enough...doesn't that mean she gets to do what she wants? Or doesn't want? Sigh.
Still can't pray. I don't have the words.
Me, who is usually so gobby eloquent. Oh the irony!
I feel utterly worn down by the demands of my life - my dh, dc, my mother...
I feel so alone Confused

LollipopViolet · 28/01/2014 22:12

Would just like to say thank you Tuo it was nice to see my name in the OP, I haven't been around at all but it's nice to know I'm not forgotten :)

Prayers for all tonight, whatever the reason you need them may be.

BlackeyedSusan · 28/01/2014 23:00

carrier pigeon?

I m getting rather annoyed with the whole thing. tried a new battery. still buggered. we are getting mum broadband. need to ognise computer/printer.

car moted, tax paid for, holiday booked, (lets hope it is actually a holiday rather than torture by sleep deprivation caused by being the filling in a generation sandwich. ) one hospital appointment done.

next: two new mobile phones, computer printer, 2 more visits to ot/pt next week

sounds sad oma. I would be sad too if it were dd.

PositiveAttitude · 29/01/2014 08:58

Badvoc prayers for you. I have had times when praying has been too tough, too. But I have been comforted by the thought that God knows what is on our heart, so words and prayers can come straight from the heart without us having to "co-operate" and put it into words, iyswim. Confused We will pray here for you, so our words and prayers will cover your situation. As I am typing I am reminded of the verse, "Be still and know that I am God." It doesn't say, "Say the right things and you will know that I am God", which is perhaps more of how we expect things to work. I have also found Christian music very helpful, I suppose just taking a few minutes to put some music on, or even just when I am in the car if nothing else, and letting the words just wash over me has helped a huge amount.

Well, your prayers were answered yesterday. Grin Maybe a little too well!! Hmm DD3 heard yesterday that she can leave her rented property with no problem about breaking the contract, BUT they need to move out by 2nd March. They will then be "homeless" for a month as they cannot get into the new flat until 1st April, so they will be coming to stay here with me for that time. So over the next 4 weeks they have to pack up their house, Oh and just the small matter of giving birth and having a new baby with them!!
When they come to stay they will also be bringing their dog, which I will need prayers about. I feel they should be able to bring the dog, so that she does not feel that she has been neglected because of the new baby, but I am allergic to dogs plus I am very concerned because my cats absolutely hate the dog and will scarper out the house when she arrives normally and wont return until she has gone, but the dog will be here for a month, so I do not want my cats to suffer.
Also, DS has a job interview tomorrow morning for a dream job for him. But nothing for DD1 Sad I keep praying for her, but just seem to get nowhere and she is finding it tough again. She has said to me that my prayers work for other people, but not for her and I can see what she is saying, but I do not know what more I can do.

Anyway, that was a bit of an epic.... I have a morning of doing a home blitz today. I dont seem to have got on top of the housework since before Christmas and it is driving me mad, so I have put aside this morning to make it shine like a new pin!! Grin and I have bribed DS to help me!

BlackeyedSusan · 29/01/2014 10:21

I know that feeling about prayer work for others. it is really hard to understand.

Badvoc · 29/01/2014 10:53

Thank you PA.
It doesn't help that the house seems to be falling apart and dh and I are arguing a lot about what work should be prioritised.
I hate it. I hate arguing about such stupid things.

GingerCurl · 29/01/2014 12:35

Praying.

BlessedAssurance · 29/01/2014 12:38

Badvoc- we all go through what i call dry seasons in our prayer lives. At times you can not pray and other times it feels like your prayers hit the walls and back. Just dryness. But God knows our hearts. I like listening to Matt Redman's song The Heart of worship when i feel like that. He sings that when the music fades and all is stripped away,that it is when we just simply go before Him. It is in those quiet and desperate moments we can seek Him,without song,voice,sound or fanfare. Just us. Take heart, it shall be well.

Oma so great that your weekend well.
PA- praying that your daughter will find a job. I can iagine how hopeless she feels right now. It feels like that sometimes when good things are happening for others and you are left wondering why not me? Prayers for patience and of course a job?

I have wondered about this one thing for over a decade now. I know some people are not for it and totally understand. I have prayed,fasted,believed,hoped and expected that i would pray in tongues one day. I have been to youth camps,away from home for days taking time to just focus and be in the presence of God. NOTHINGSad. Pastors have laid hands on me, i have read the bible over and over verses concerning tongues. Many times at prayer meetings padtors just announce that God is blessing some people with the gift of tongues, only it has never been me.

I am very careful when it comes to questioning God and ask why me? I had asked so many times that one day The Holy Spirit as clear as day asked me, "why not you? To whom do you want all these things to happen? Why not you?. So i guess what i want to ask is why haven't i received this special gift yet? I know it is a gift and it is God who gives as He sees fit, but to everyone? Except me? All night prayers which i want to attend are hard. I walk in and everyone is praying in tongues. A person can only pray in one language for a limited time and 10min into prayer my mind already starts going other places. I confessed all sin in my life, known and unknown but nothing. I am just fed up of being the only one that desires this gift but never seem to receive it..Sorry for a long post.just thought someone might be in the same boat. Come to think of it i don't think i have any spiritual gift at all, which is fine,but praying in the spirit would lovely...

PositiveAttitude · 29/01/2014 12:56

Quick prayer request. In a bit of a stew. Working tax credit have said that I cannot claim because me and DH are married.....well yes, we are, but I was told by their helpline to claim as a single person because he is volunteering abroad and has no income. We will be in a bit of a mess if I was given wrong information and they wont pay me!

PositiveAttitude · 29/01/2014 12:59

Sorry I missed your post Blessed. I do understand your frustration. I hope someone can come along and give you pearls of wisdom, but sorry, I am not going to be much help on that one.

Badvoc · 29/01/2014 13:00

I will pray its a clerical error PA x

BlessedAssurance · 29/01/2014 13:05

No problem PA. Sometimes writing something down makes it easiet somehow. I don't feel like i must have this gift, like i am deserving of it either. Its just that it would be wonderful to experience it instead of just hearing others pray with such joy and abandon all the time while i sit on the sidelines and think how blessed they are and how favoured they must be, silly i know..

ZingSweetApple · 29/01/2014 13:57

Having a tough time with DS2Sad
I need wisdom, patience and calm.

bags of it

(even though I don't always post I do read and keep praying for all of you.
Oma glad week went ok)

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