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A new Christian prayer thread for Autumn and Advent... All welcome!

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Tuo · 06/11/2013 00:03

Starting a new thread as we head from Autumn into Winter... This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what’s going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve the loss of her dad; we pray too for her aunt, who’s very ill, and for all those affected by the death of Badvoc’s uncle who was estranged from the rest of the family;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health and for BES to know how best to help and support her, for strength to deal with her DS’s meltdowns, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school;

... Bluetinkerbell, in her new job and as she explores her vocation;

... bountyicecream, who is in a very difficult relationship situation and needs our prayers – may she find strength and support and self-belief;

... CharlotteCollinsisinherownplace, giving thanks that she has had the strength to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship, and praying for a happy future for her and for her DC;

... cloutiedumpling, thanking God that her DS doesn’t need surgery, and praying for his continued good health;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, for her niece, little Grace, born prematurely – may she continue to grow in strength; also for Mome’s health, and in particular her persistent headaches – may they turn out to be easily treatable; and for Mome’s DS to receive the support he needs at school;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; for Oma’s eyes – giving thanks for good sight in the one already treated, and praying for the one still to be done;

... EasyCompadre, for a healthy pregnancy, and for the strength to do what she needs to do for her business while waiting to meet her baby;

... fluffyduckie, that her terminally ill relative is well looked-after and as well as is possible in the circumstances, without too much pain; and that fluffy find a church where she feels comfortable and where she finds a supportive community to sustain her faith;

... FriendOfDorothy, grieving for the loss of her mum – may she know love and support at this difficult time;

... Gingercurl, for the successful completion and examination of her thesis; for strength and discernment for A; for Ginger’s nephew, who has health concerns and is suffering bullying – may he know health and strength and love; and for Ginger’s MIL who has been diagnosed with cancer;

... HadALittleFaith, for her to feel happier now that she has been prescribed anti-depressants; for rest and peace of mind; and for her to find a church where she feels comfortable and welcomed;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for a job which interests and fulfils her, and for peace and love in her immediate and broader family;

... Kaykat, as she continues to deal with the breakdown of her marriage, giving thanks for the support she has already received and the strength which she has found, and praying that she is soon settled in her own home with her DS;

... LollipopViolet, as she mourns her grandad, and as she explores her faith;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness - may she be well enough to spend this Christmas at home with her family and not in hospital; praying too for health and love and friendship for MHD’s DD;

... MaryBS, for her work as a Reader, for her DS, and for her friend who was recently diagnosed with stomach cancer;

... niminypiminy, as she begins ordination training; and praying also for her mum’s health, following a recent fall;

... PositiveAttitude and her family; in particular for her parents’ health and for PA and her sister as they take care of them; for her DD1, thanking God that her depression has lifted and that she is enjoying university, and praying for a job for her; for her DD3 who is pregnant, due in February – may she have a trouble-free pregnancy and birth and may she know the joy of being a mother; praying also for PA as her DD3’s pregnancy brings to her mind her DD, Emma, sadly born too soon; and for her DS who is struggling with settling back in the UK, for his studies and for a job for him; and finally praying for PA’s DH and DD4 in Cambodia – may they stay safe and well;

... RoomForALittleOne, for the whole family as her DH embarks on an exciting new curacy placement;

... tunnocksteacake and family, as they cope with Mr Tunnocks’ illness; and

... youretoastmildred, for her friend, R, for a swift recovery from her operation.

We pray also for more occasional visitors and those we haven’t seen for a while: for BoxOfDelights, for thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, for JakeBullet, for jan and her DD, for notquiteagrownup, for SES, for Soozi, and for weegiemum. And we pray for those who read and pray but don’t post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God’s love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen

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revivingshower · 03/12/2013 11:47

That's wonderful ginger
Prayed for everyone earlier.
Thankyou for your prayers for my back I am making a slow recovery but still struggling to walk or stand for more than a few minutes. Dh and dd have been great though I know it is hard for them both so please pray we all get through this difficult time ok.

madhairday · 03/12/2013 13:52

Glad you are recovering reviving, continued prayers.

ginger yay, that's good news, and great to see you. Xmas Smile

Juggling yes could put it up now but just so super busy through the week, so we're going to try for Friday between home time and the Christmas fair at school, which may be manic but would like it up this weekend and saturday/sunday just too full up.

Is it Christmas name change time?

Where is MaryBS ? Missing you on here...

BlessedAssurance · 03/12/2013 17:24

Hello everyone.Good to be back after a short break filled with studying and preparing for my last exam. By God's grace i managed to sit through two 5hr exams with a few days between them. Good news Ginger and prayers for everyone. Don't have much to add tonight as my mind is still recovering from one of those five hr exams. Need also to testify to the goodness of Our Lord in my life. I was offered some baby clothes by a woman whose children i look after at my workplace(i work part time in a daycare).I went to fetch the clothes carrying my tiny backpack because i thought it would be a few things.

When i arrived,my colleague called me into the playroom and told me that i was in for a shock. I was. This lovely woman had bags,about nine of them,bursting with baby clothes not only used but new as well. The used ones are in such great shape that there was not a single body i had to throw awayGrin. I have all i need from age 0-18months and i only had girl clothes from DD. Had not bought a thing.This wonderful woman has saved and given us clothes worth a fortune.

Thank you Lord Jesus for meeting my need.

Praying for all those who are not well and in need.

CharlotteCollinsinherownplace · 03/12/2013 21:00

That's fantastic, BA! God's abundant love shown through that lovely colleague.

Hope you had a great day, DO.

Great to hear your news, Ginger. That does seem to have taken a long time coming; it must feel good.

Kaykat · 03/12/2013 21:45

How are things with you Charlotte?

I too am thanking The Lord Jesus for meeting my need. I have kitted out an entire house purely with donated items and the offers and gifts just keep on coming.

FaithTheVampireSlayer · 03/12/2013 22:07

Wow we're really seeing God's generosity in here! Wonderful news for you kaykat and BA! :)

DO I hope you had a lovely day.

ginger that's a great answer to long awaited prayer.

Prayer for protection would be great - tonight I shook Faithlet's bottle but forgot the sealing ring so I now have a scalded hand!

Thanking God tonight for saving us from our house fire 2 years ago. Without smoke detectors we wouldn't be here. Instead we have been blessed with Faithlet and a radical change in circumstances Grin

BlackeyedSusan · 03/12/2013 22:56

oh dear. we teetered on the very brink of melt down after school. he rn off the full length of the field... twice. he howled in the car park, while I hugged and rocked. it was not safe to put him in the car with dd until he had calmed down a bit. by the time we had hugged on the stairs and he had filled up on three slices of toast and a hot cross bun and played with dd calm had been restored.

they have both howled at bed time. dd has only just finished enough of her homework to meet the minimum thnks to a lst minute chanage of plan for hte eekend due to schools complete inability to communicate things with reasonable notice.

BlackeyedSusan · 03/12/2013 23:07

ds wants heaven to be soft play. what are his chances do you think?

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GingerCurl · 03/12/2013 23:23

I'm sure God has a special soft play bit of heaven for your DS, BES.

revivingshower · 04/12/2013 00:30

I read in a book that when asked what heaven is like a minister replied it will be like a church service that goes on forever! And quite a few people were not that keen. But I think heaven will be like our present world but without the bad bits. And there will be dogs there. In fact I think the reason dogs live such short lives is because god likes them so much he can only spare them for a short while before needing them back.

Tuo · 04/12/2013 00:41

I like that thought about dogs, reviving! I don't know what I think heaven will be like, but I hope my dogs are all there.

Lots to be thankful for today... for Ginger's thesis, for Kay's new home, for the generosity of BA's colleague, for saving Faith and Mr Faith from the fire and giving them Faithlet, and for Oma's day out.

Also continuing to pray for good health and the ability to breathe more easily for MHD, for a calmer day tomorrow for BES's DS, for continued recovery for reviving's back.

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 04/12/2013 07:50

Oh so tired here!

DD is struggling at the mo in school. I suspect not seeing her Dad much isn't helping. Prayers for her as she's very tearful would be lovely.

Still dating this chap. Taking it slow and playing cool but really I'd have him round every night if I could. Instead I'm seeing him twice a week and not contacting him much inbetween but I'm chuffed I've found a nice chap on match.com.
One step at a time.

Lovely reading all the good news on here.

Dutchoma · 04/12/2013 08:26

I had a lovely day out yesterday. I was a bit thrown by the fact that London Midland won't let you travel on an off peak ticket between 16.15 and 19.15 (there is a big difference between off peak and full price £20.95 to £39.50). 16.15 would be too early, 19.15 too late, so I arranged with my daughter and the children to pick me up and we had dinner at Pizza Express who do lovely food. I made it home with 20 minutes to spare, didn't lose any glass slippers. Mark, who looked after Bob said they had a wonderful day. He left after having prayed with Bob.
Unfortunately Bob is still quite miserable, his foot is very sore and he has not slept very well. He said Mark had looked after him fine but...
It is so very sad.

PositiveAttitude · 04/12/2013 09:55

I have just had a good read through, catch up and prayer catch up with you all.

DO so pleased that you had a lovely day. Sorry Bob wasn't so pleased with his day! Sometimes you do need to put yourself first, though and then you have more energy for the rest of the time.

Joining in with the "Keep MHD well for winter" prayers.

DD1 is arriving home today and staying for a month. Please pray that we can all get on well and peace will reign in this house.

I am also getting a little concerned about DD3 - her blood pressure has risen a bit.....first sign of what happened to me. I ma trying not to let her know how worried I am for her and her baby. (Pre-eclampsia in my first pregnancy resulting in our first daughter dying at 8 days old and me being in intensive care for a week) She is now nearly 30 weeks, though, so that is good.

tuo thanks for your brilliant round-ups - it really helps to keep a track of everyone and pray through effectively.

BlackeyedSusan · 04/12/2013 12:41

prayed quite a lot for you last night mhd.

BlackeyedSusan · 04/12/2013 14:26

i have a dr's appointment for dd... after school. there could be trrouble ahead... in the melt down variety.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 04/12/2013 16:50

Didn't get one of the jobs, so feeling a bit sad about that. Person was quite encouraging though, and said I should try again if something else with them comes up. And the real silver lining is that DH managed to be really sympathetic, empathetic, and nice about it when I just called him - so that is a real bonus. My first job is looking after this lot ATM Smile But, with the right job I think I could contribute positively to a working role too - especially supporting other children and families.
Waiting to hear from other job application, but it's been a while now, sent them an email today to ask for feedback.
Thank God (really) we have one income coming in.
Lots to be thankful for.
Perspective needed!
Love and prayers for all x

  • Oh, and please pray for the Parents prayer group at my DCs school which I'm co-leading with friends next week.
BlessedAssurance · 04/12/2013 17:49

juggling you will find a job and when you do,it will be the one that God has for you and you will be wonderful at it. All the best for future interviews and i do understand that not getting a job after having been called for an interview is a bummer.Also praying for your prayergroup.
Beshoping that all will go well and that your DD will be fine inspite of the meltdownGrin.
DO nice to hear you had a lovely day, it is so sad though to hear that Bob is not feeling well. Prayers your way for Bob.
PAlets make it a declaration that all shall be well in your home and that it will be great for you and your DD to be together enjoying each other's company.
Mome so lovely for you that you found a nice chap on the net, please forgive me if i am being out of line but do be careful as well. Keep your spiritual eyes open during this dating period. Quite exciting stuff and that feeling of being wanted and appreaciated is lovely.Have a great dating time and behave...Grin words from my DM when i was dating..
Kaykat that is fantastic, imagine that!!Our God truely supplies all our needs. What i find humbling though is DH and myself although not rich, we are not poor either and we would have managed fine. However God chose someone to bless us regardless.I am still smiling looking at my piles of clothing.Grin.
MHD thinking of you. How are you feeling?Hoping for some relief for you.
Reviving DD 3yrs said heaven is beautiful, that there is lots of music and dancing because everyone is happy there. I asked her why they are happy and she said because that is just the way it is mummyGrin.
Gingeri am so Envyat you, in a good way.What great news!!! Congratulations and praise God that things are moving forward.
Finally prayers for everyone i have not mentioned needing prayers.
Tuo praying for you as well, just because Grin.. God bless you.

BlackeyedSusan · 04/12/2013 18:06

ds has pushed a toddler out of the way and trampled on them. i am feeling really upset.

BlessedAssurance · 04/12/2013 18:11

I came here to post about what a horrible mother i was today but then got sidetracked. Dd likes to climb as all kids. We were having a nice time and suddenly i heard the most horrible sound behond me. I knew what it was without turning my head and yes she was on the floor screaming her head off because she had fallen off trying to climb on the chair i was sitting on. I have absolutely no idea why i lost it but there was my Dd lying on the floor needing me to pick her up and comfort her and there was me standing looking down at her angry and mad asking her how she had fallen. There was nothing to trip over and i could not understand how she ended up where she was. It took me two sec to realise i was being horrible so just knelt down and tried to do the proper motherly thing.

I am a God fearing, God loving and spirit filled child of God and the question is how do i manage to BE like that? What is wrong with me? This craziness began the moment i found out i was expecting. Patience is a thing of the past, the worst thing is i am ok with other people's kids but with my own i lose it.
Please pray that i will be more patient with my Dd and the rest of the world. God is a God of order, patience and love. Right now i am not showing any of those, at least it feels that way. My Dd is the loveliest child ever and well behaved so she does not deserve this kind of immature behaviour from her own mother. I called DH at work and told him i did not deserve her.He thinks i am a good mother, me notSad

BlessedAssurance · 04/12/2013 18:15

bes that is sad. Is the other toddler ok? I am sure the toddlers mum knows that kids can be like that. Don't think much about it or else you will be sad. It shall be well..

JugglingFromHereToThere · 04/12/2013 19:12

BlessedAssurance - you wrote such thoughtful things about each of our situations - thank you so much for your encouraging words to me this afternoon Thanks
Know that we are all praying for you and dd too x

One thought came to me for you ....
God is not only a God of order and patience but also of surprises and delight Smile

JugglingFromHereToThere · 04/12/2013 19:17

And BA, you must have got a nasty shock when dd fell down suddenly from climbing on the chair, but she's OK. Be kind to yourself.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 04/12/2013 19:19

Thinking of you and ds too bes

Dutchoma · 04/12/2013 19:33

BA I can imagine how upset you are with yourself. I remember my ds on the eve of his third birthday escaping from his nursery (don't ask) and being taken to the police station. It was a friend who told me he was there.
When i came to fetch him he was sitting on a police woman's lap doing colouring and instead of gathering him up in my arms I smacked his bottom as I was so cross that he had run away. I still (more than thirty years later) feel a bit guilty about it, but I think it was born out of the shock of what could had happened.
So often we get angry with the people we love the most. So don't be too hard on yourself and realise that God loves both you and your dd, just as you are, more than you can ever imagine. Patience is a fruit of the spirit and it grows but slowly.

On a completely different note: can I ask you to pray for our friend and church member Jo. She had a stroke when she was 17 and has been quite disabled since. She is still young now, in her early forties, I would think and she was diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago. After a few more weeks in hospital when she became more and more ill, they have now discovered that the cancer has spread to her liver and she has been sent home with palliative care. Her mother, who will look after her is crippled with arthritis, she also has a brother who has a brain tumour. That family just has so much to cope with and not once have I heard any of them complain. I'm just quite gutted by this news.