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for greenheart - You'll need 'em to build up your strength!
Good luck with your big celebration, MHD - hope it goes well.
We are going away (i.e. not to stay with family but away to a holiday house) for Christmas for the first time ever, and taking my parents with us. As long as we survive the journey (6 of us in the one - large - car) without falling out it should be nice, and gives us the opportunity to keep it relatively simple as we won't have space to take much with us!
Don't talk about that programme!
I'm feeling more and more cross and upset about the incredibly partial nature of what they showed. And I know for a fact that they had a lot of more positive footage that they could have used, but they chose a particular line, clearly... 
I don't know anything about that particular singing group, but certainly my gran (who lived with us for years when I was a kid, after she'd had a series of strokes, and who was almost totally aphasic) loved her hymns. She used to settle herself down in the loo and have a good old sing... 'There is a green hill far away' and 'The day Thou gavest Lord is ended' were particular favourites as I recall, and she was word perfect, though she couldn't ask for a cup of tea in ordinary everyday speech.
I really hope you find a solution for your choir, Oma.