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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

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PositiveAttitude · 05/08/2013 23:05

Mome yay for such a good time away.

SES prayers for everyone touched by the sadness of Linda's death. And for you and DH tonight, too.

I would like to echo your lovely words from earlier, too.
I don't think we all need to agree about everything on this thread, but we should always remember that we are here to be supportive and encouraging for each other and also as a witnesses of Christ's love. I am reminded of John 13:35 "By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.? Please don't let anyone on this thread be hurt or made to feel disrespected, this is not showing God's love as a good witness.

I would like to share some real answers to prayer. DD1 is doing so very well after months of praying for her depression. She has come so far over the past few months and is becoming more like her old self, nearly day by day. She smiles so much more, she is loving her new job and working with some lovely people - tomorrow she will be waitressing for Princess Anne She is looking forward to going off to uni in September. Thank you all for your encouragement and support while things were tough for her. She has recognised that God has answered our prayers - seeds have been sown! Just a huge thank you all and thank you to God for answering all of our prayers.

amberlight · 06/08/2013 08:35

Praying through.
Yes, I'm here. I'm scared but here.
Coming 'out of the closet' as a gay Christian is one of the scariest things. I've been face to face with death threats, hate mail, ostracism, had my Christianity work taken away from me by some, been removed from a prayer group, had my autism adaptations stopped by one faith leader as a result...and been so thankful for senior clergy who have assured me that they do not want that set of attitudes for me.
If anyone anywhere thinks LGBT Christians come out for fun or to be rude to others and God, they must have a strange sense of the word 'fun'. It would be so much easier and safer to hide. But I don't want to live a lie to God and to fellow Christians my whole life. Where is the honour in that? I did not choose to be gay, any more than others chose to be straight. Romans says a lot about the people that God despaired of; "envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy" but the churches so often go on and on and on about how only gay people are really hated by God. It's horrible. I already know i'm not getting into heaven - from the Christians who tell me that because I'm autistic, I don't have a soul and am not really a person. It doesn't stop me wanting to make the world a better place by sharing our faith with others and hoping at least they get in, though.
So, for years this place, this thread, has been my prayer home. But it is a prayer home for an already very bruised and scared person who already knows she was born an automatic 'fail' in God's eyes. I know this isn't a debate. But I wanted to explain.

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 06/08/2013 09:23

from the Christians who tell me that because I'm autistic, I don't have a soul Shock Shock Shock

So that's what you're up against? Unbelievable! I couldn't think what prejudice autistic people could suffer in the church, although I believed you when you said there was a lot - now I know. Talk about inventing new ways of doing evil... That's just crazy. So sorry you've had to endure that, amber. Goodness, some days it just seems a long wait till the understanding and rest of heaven, doesn't it? It certainly does for me!

Urgent prayer request from me: I have found a house. From what I can see of it, it looks perfect. But they've batted me away straightaway because of my lack of guaranteed income. Please pray that my brother will agree to and be able to be my guarantor and that the rental agents will accept him. I'm talking to him today and then going back to them if he can do it.

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 06/08/2013 10:07

Forget it. They don't want me. My brother agreed very quickly to be guarantor and the agents accepted that, but the landlord thinks it's too many kids. Too much wear and tear on his 4-bed house. AIBU to think he actually thinks it's too few adults?

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2013 11:59

oh charlotte, that is disappointing.

amber. there are some really thick people out there huh, no soul? how daft can they get. oh and they area bit thick on the theology front too. perhaps they have forgotten that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. some people do like to label things as a sin, usually something they arre not, and then they are "all righteous" by not doing the thing that they don't do anyway.... except they are judgmental and nasty and do a whole heap of other things. Hmm

hope we can make it a safe place here for you. you have already helped me with ds a lot (as has mary)

(here is a nice trivial "problem") have been given some money to spend on the children's future presents. so I ordered stuff. it came in the most enormous box which fills half the kitchen. Confused and I have to find somewhere to put the contents away til next christmas/birthday and rip up the box to fit in the recycling. i do wonder what i waas thinking at the time of ordering.

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 06/08/2013 12:02

I have sent an email to appeal - single mum and 4 kids does look bad, but when they know it's meeee I'm sure it'll be fine. :o

Thinking positive till hopes are dashed again. God, I hope you've got some good reason for all this!

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 06/08/2013 12:11

That's not a serious prayer... This is in your hands, Lord. Your will be done.

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 06/08/2013 12:13

Agent just rang... landlord has agreed to meet me!! As soon as I pressed send on that last post. :o

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2013 13:33

oo charlotte.

I have compacted the enormous box into two carrier bags and caan once gain walk around my kitchen. I have also managed to put aaway the boxes that came in the parcel. that is christmas and birthdays sorted for ra couple of years. Grin

KeepTheFaithBaby · 06/08/2013 13:41

Amber John 3:16 clearly states anyone who believes will have eternal life (it doesn't say anyone unless they have autism!). I believe you make a valuable contribution to this thread/group and know you have given valuable advice. Please stay around both for your own benefit and ours!

bes enjoy the fridge and hope you get those presents sorted soon!

Charlotte I prayed when I read your first post and pray if this is the right home for you all He will make a way!

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 06/08/2013 15:07

Wow, bes, you are soooo organised!

BlackeyedSusan · 06/08/2013 20:22

charlotte, if only you knew how far from the truth that was. Grin

if i was that organised, i would not have spent several days digging out the old fridge freezer! i intend to have a tidy kitchen floor for at least a week!

RoomForALittleOne · 06/08/2013 20:25

Anyone fancy praying for calm and wisdom for dealing with Hannah's sleep? Or just more sleep? Oh and DH has a meeting with the diocese tomorrow about a curacy...

Dutchoma · 06/08/2013 20:34

Praying Room. And for all others too.

I am having trouble finding respite care for Bob again. I thought we could go straight into the home he was at previously but they are decorating and not taking respite care people at the moment. The people I have rung either have not answered the phone, have no rooms with private toilet or, in one case said that they had a room available now but were not sure they could promise to still have it in 3 weeks' time when I need it. What good is that?

SESthebrave · 06/08/2013 22:33

Room - praying for your DH's meeting and also for Hannah's sleep.

DO - praying for a solution to the respite care.

Today's prayer request from me is a sleep related one too. DS has started crying as he's scared at bedtime and didn't settle tonight without extra stories and one of us sitting with him until gone 9pm.
DD has been waking a couple of times in the night teething. I could really do with some decent sleep tonight. She woke up about 10 mins ago so I've dosed her with teething granules and ibuprofen. Praying she will settle for the night now.

RoomForALittleOne · 07/08/2013 04:44

Praying for sleep, peaceful sleep for you SES.

RoomForALittleOne · 07/08/2013 04:49

Also, Lord, please help Hannah go back down in her Moses basket because I'm exhausted and I need a wee!

Kaykat · 07/08/2013 08:04

Amber that's so sad, you do know they are talking rubbish don't you? I remember something I heard a preacher say a long time ago, when I get to heaven I will probably be surprised by who is there and even more surprised by who isn't there. One of the saddest thing I encountered in church was a couple who were unable to accept that their son was a Christian because he was gay. When I asked the mum whether she thought he was born gay or chose it as a lifestyle choice she said without a doubt she knew that he was born gay. So I asked her why she judged him for the way he was born and she couldn't answer that.

Lots to pray for on here and some great answers to prayers too.

Remember me on Friday, I am anxious but strangely have stopped waking at 5am every morning worrying which has been happening for months and now sleeping through until the alarm.

amberlight · 07/08/2013 09:26

Kaykat, no, I don't know that they are talking rubbish. Autism = totally utterly literal understanding. And because only 1 in every 100 churches has ever even thought about including us, it all makes a horrible sense... Confused After all, if we were people and loved by God, they'd want us there, wouldn't they.

niminypiminy · 07/08/2013 09:54

Praying into all these situations, large and small, and for strength, patience, love and peace for all.

My mum's back in hospital with a recurrence of rectal bleeding and anaemia - scary symptoms. And today is the day a new lot of junior doctors comes onto the ward - aka the worst day to be taken into hospital.

niminypiminy · 07/08/2013 09:57

Oh - and on Friday we are supposed to be going on our one week's holiday in the whole year - I so want to be able to go. I know that's selfish, but we wall been longing for this. But I can't let my sisters take all the strain. And the following week is my first ministry training summer school ...

amberlight · 07/08/2013 17:26

Please can I ask for prayers for DH who has been told to go for an MRI scan at hospital tomorrow morning to check that he hasn't had a mini stroke. Praying for everyone else.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2013 17:53

oh amber. Sad

Dutchoma · 07/08/2013 19:50

Oh Amber that's all you need. Many prayers from me too.

RoomForALittleOne · 07/08/2013 20:32

Praying for you and your DH, Amber.

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