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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

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BlackeyedSusan · 07/08/2013 21:31

lots of prayers amber, while i have been washing up and watching the sunset.

Tuo · 07/08/2013 21:44

I'm back!

amber - I am so glad you're still here! I've been thinking of you so much, and praying you'd stick around. I hope that people's reactions on this thread have made it clear that not only are you welcome here, but you are valued and cherished for who you are. I am so sorry to hear about the terrible things that people have said about you and to you; it's no wonder that you are bruised and hurt. But, please God, this is still a place where you are safe and among friends. You bring so much and your words have helped me a lot too.

And, yes, PA's quote hits the nail right on the head... it's all about how we behave towards one another. I was reading 1 John this morning and this quote jumped out at me too: 'Anyone who claims to be in the light but hates a brother or sister is still in the darkness. Anyone who loves their brother and sister lives in the light, and there is nothing in them to make them stumble' (1 John: 9-10). I pray that we all grow in love for our brothers and sisters in Christ. I can think of no greater honour than to be recognisable as a disciple of Jesus by the way that I behave towards others. I know that I fall short of that ideal all the time, that I am often stumbling around in the darkness, but I am clinging to it as an ideal, nonetheless.

I pray too for amber's DH, for a swift recovery and lasting health, and that the MRI gives reassuring results.

I pray for niminypiminy, for your mum's health, for good care for her in hospital at this stressful time (I was admitted with a MC on 1st or 2nd August 1999 and had amazing understanding and loving care from a young doctor with more than a passing resemblence to Doogie Howser MD, but who clearly really cared about this career he was getting into). I pray also for your forthcoming holiday - may you manage to get away despite everything and may it be restorative and peaceful for your and the whole family.

I pray for Room, for a better night's sleep tonight for you and for Hannah, and for your DH's meeting about his curacy.

I pray for Kaykat, praying for wisdom for you and for all involved in making important decisions about your future and for insight for those who need to sift truth and lies in order to understand your situation, and thanking God for the strength and resilience which you have developed with His help and inspiration (and through your own hard work and determination).

I pray for SES, for better sleep for both your children tonight, with peace for DS and pain-free teeth for DD. I also pray for the friends and family of Linda and for all affected by her death.

I pray for a solution to the respite issue for Oma and Bob, for a solution to present itself and for Bob to be happy and comfortable with it so that Oma can relax in his absence.

I pray for charlotte and your house situation, echoing Faith's words... if this is the home for you, may God make it available to you.

I thank God for a great week away for Mome and I pray for MHD at New Wine, praying that her seminar went well. I thank God for presents for BES's DC and for a tidy kitchen and functioning fridge. And I thank God that Mary is back... it's good to see you. And finally (though I'm sure I'll have missed someone...) I thank God for so many answers to prayer in the case of PA's DD1. May she continue on this upward trajectory and find real joy and fulfilment in her life.

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BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2013 00:30

aggghh. they have both gone off simultaneously like airraid sirens..

one hss been given the sick bowl the other had first aid administered.

I have been tidying all day... not that you can tell. the waashing mountain has shrunk but I still need a snow plough on each foot to plough through the mess on the living oom carpet. dmittedly it is slightly less dense and deep, but ds managed to remess it up while I was washing up. Hmm the clothes in the wardrobe are now packed in so tightly that they would remain even if the rail was removed.

been praying for faith and hannah too. may they and the other littlies sleep.

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 08/08/2013 09:36

Hope the rest of your night was better, BES and the littlies are all recovered. I think you do an amazing job, btw, with such small children still and no adult support.

Remember it's totally normal to have a chaotic house in those circumstances. This too will pass! In the meantime, I do enjoy reading the updates because you're so inventive with your descriptions!

Hope Hannah has slept most of the night!

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2013 11:46

oh ye gods.

just had a nasty encounter while trying to fold washing. ears are ringing over the entire neighbourhood. please pray I can continue sorting out without any other nasty encounters. --the culprit will be sent forr cremation next bin day.

1 (frrom ds, the age of the spider that has ceased to be)

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2013 12:26

riot act hs been read. computer haas been banned. two childern are tidying up.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2013 12:34

oops mke that one tidying and one in time out for being rude bout mummy's who mke him tidy.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 08/08/2013 13:17

Lol bes. I'm waiting to discover a spider as I have washing everywhere, open suitcase - still not unpacked and I've had the windows open for weeks. Plenty of chance for them to enter. Mind you it's Autumn I really see them. Bleurgh!

My head hurts today Sad I feel groggy and tired constantly.

I have a scan on 2nd Sept for my head actually. As I have a lot of headaches by an old head injury.

Off to see SALT with DS at 2.30. Please pray he behaves enough to be assessed properly by them. It was one thing his community paediatrician wanted done, as part of this long convoluted process. Tbh his main issues are sensory with a smattering of struggling to communicate and playing well with other kids. Iyswim? But I'm no expert, I just want him to get the help he needs. But in one short appointment it's tricky to get a feel for a child's needs IMO.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/08/2013 13:47

the salt we had as erlly good. she has done throrough assessment of him. it is one of the things you need to do on the asd diagnosis path. see it as a step along the way.

amberlight · 08/08/2013 13:54

Thank you for prayers - consultant happy with DH and has sent us home

niminypiminy · 08/08/2013 14:02

Mome, praying the SALT appointment goes well, and that DS cooperates. When you're going through the diagnosis process it all seems so endless, doesn't it? And praying for your head -- that must be worrying.

Amber that's great that your DH seems to be ok.

Things are really not looking good for my mother. They are now going to do a full colon examination to try and find out what's wrong, but in the meantime there's the risk of a major haemorrhage, which is incredibly scary. My sisters have insisted we go off on our family holiday tomorrow, though I may have to just come back if something awful happens. Had a very scary conversation with my sister yesterday about the possibility mum will die in the next few weeks Sad.

RoomForALittleOne · 08/08/2013 19:20

So I have to say that I'm very pleased with God's timing and the delay with finding out about a possible curacy for DH. We're a bit overwhelmed by the match we've been given. It was my number one choice if we could go anywhere but it is a nightmare in terms of practicality. We are very excited and buzzing one minute then shocked the next. I never thought it would feel like this but we haven't exactly had a typical parish as a match.

Thanks for all the prayers for Hannah's sleep. We've just arrived home so I'm hoping that normal Hannah sleep will be resumed.

PositiveAttitude · 08/08/2013 19:40

oh Nimi sorry to hear about your mum. (((hugs))) I pray that you can have a good time away despite what is happening here.

Amber - good news about DH. I am sure you are relieved.

Room - how wonderful for you and DH. Exciting times ahead!

I have a job interview tomorrow - I would really love this job!!

Only flying by now....I will be back!

Fiona24 · 08/08/2013 20:07

Reading through this thread and praying as I do ..

Tonight is not good. Remembering my dad whose anniversary it is and my dear oldest son, very, very sadly estranged from us and suffering from a difficult mental health problem. Long to hold him again.

Also, beginning to panic about a hospital visit next week following a visit to the GP - thickening lymph nodes/sore breast. May be nothing at all - or not too much - or may be more serious.

Settling into a new job and that's hard.

Finally, another son's A2 results out next week and he is pretty anxious as this year didn't go so well.

Prayers, come to think of it, for all children (and their parents) collecting results roundabout now. May they know that they are previous and wonderful no matter what their results are and that they are young with a lifetime of learning ahead of them. It doesn't end at 16/12/18 - that's just the start!

Sorry to ask for prayers for a few things here - but feeling shakey and worried. Been listening to Cwm Rhondda - sung at Dad's funeral and so inspiring, I think.

Dutchoma · 08/08/2013 21:47

Welcome Fiona. You are among friends here. Let us know how you get on with your medical appointments. Anniversaries are hard.

Can't make much sense about what you are saying about the parish match Room, but that is probably because I don't know the drill. Glad Hannah slept better.

cloutiedumpling · 09/08/2013 07:14

Praying for all as I read through.

Kay - thinking of you today and praying that you'll have the strength you need.

RoomForALittleOne · 09/08/2013 08:48

Praying for all the tough situations on here as I re-read them.

I'm struggling a lot now with DH's vicar of his potential curacy. He's spent two lots of 1.5 hours in the phone to the vicar so that they can get to know each other a bit and question each other. The church sounds amazing but the vicar is coming out with little gems such as 'I don't believe that such a thing as a work-life balance exists' and that he works a 60 hour week and thinks that a 50 hour week is totally normal and acceptable to ask DH to do. He doesn't believe in the idea of working two out of three sessions a day and that you should just work at the office all day as well as doing all the evening stuff. When asked about if I can get involved, his comment was that his wife just looked after the children when they were small and couldn't get involved at that stage as she couldn't fit it in around children and his work. I don't know if we can work with a vicar like that Sad

niminypiminy · 09/08/2013 10:03

Room that sounds unworkable with, and tbh the Vicar sounds like a bit of a nightmare. I pray that a better path will open up before you.

Praying for all who are in hard places. And thank you for your prayers. It's so good to know that you are being prayed for.

BlackeyedSusan · 09/08/2013 11:20

Hmm Shock Angry

work life balance was modelled right at the very beginning... along with plenty of feasts and holy days. twonk. hope the situaation gets better.

kay praying.

BlackeyedSusan · 09/08/2013 13:48

i could weep. still tidying the living room and progress is slow. it was a terrible mess. pray for energy and motivation to carry on.

cloutiedumpling · 09/08/2013 16:53

Oh Room, I don't know what to say. I wonder how his wife felt about him working those really long days? Or if she ever told him? I wonder if she might be able to talk some sense into him and if it would be possible for you to have a chat with her, either now or when you move there?

amberlight · 09/08/2013 20:26

Praying through each message

RoomForALittleOne · 09/08/2013 20:40

Thanks for the support. I want to meet the vicar and chat with him myself before I dismiss the opportunity. It is an amazing church but I don't think God wants DH to put it before his family or marriage. We have a few ideas to put to the vicar about keeping everyone happy.

SESthebrave · 09/08/2013 21:42

Room - that does sound tough. I think you're right to try and talk to the vicar though and see what comes of that. Praying....

Niminy - praying for your mum, your family and you. Hope you get to enjoy your holiday.

PA - how was the job interview? Praying that it works out.

Amber - praying for you and your work

DO - prayers for you and Bob. Is there any progress on the respite care?

Fiona - welcome. Prayers for you as you remember your Dad. Also for your eldest son, exam results and GP visits

BES - prayers for energy and motivation!

Mome - how was SALT? Prayers for you, your appointment in Sept and your DC.

Also holding TUO, Cloutie, Charlotte, MHD, Kay, Jan and anyone else lurking or in need.

If you haven't seen it, can I direct you to this thread for prayers for tunnocks and her DH. here

BlackeyedSusan · 09/08/2013 23:15

phew. we have worked really hard, and are about 3/4 of the way through the room. 92/3 done and done some of the remaining third.

it is amazing how far one jigsaw can get scattered, mix in a miillion pieces of all the toys in the toy cupboard (pot of magnetic letters, duplo, pot of foam letters, five million crayons,) a ream of pictures the remains of several attempts at model making and cutting and stir with a stick....