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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

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Badvoc · 28/09/2013 08:24

Thank you tuo x
So glad you are feeling better!
Lollipop...I am thinking of you and your dear gran x
It is 9 weeks today since I lost my dad.
Still doesn't seem possible.
What a kind and gentle man he was.
I miss his presence like a physical pain.

LollipopViolet · 28/09/2013 08:31

My granddad has passed away :(

I am in complete shock, don't know what to do. This is the first bereavement within my immediate family, mum is being great, she asked me if I was OK, and when I said no and started crying, she said, "I know, but you will be."

Thank you Lord, you have stopped my granddad's pain and suffering, and now I pray for the strength to get through a difficult few months - it would've been my grandparents 50th wedding anniversary in October, his birthday in November, and then there's my birthday and Christmas to get through. But we will.

PositiveAttitude · 28/09/2013 08:47

Lollipops ((hugs)) be assured of prayers for you and your family at this time. May you feel God's love comforting you while your world must feel like it has been shaken to the core.

And Badvoc prayers for you now 9 weeks into your awful bereavement journey. It is a journey and I know you will have humps and bumps along the way and sometimes it will feel like an insurmountable mountain path, but the path does take you through this and God is going through it with you. He doesn't wave you off on the path and hope you make it to the other end. Lean into Him. He is with you.

Dutchoma · 28/09/2013 09:57

Hugs and prayers for all, especially Violet, Badvoc and FoD in their bereavement.
Giving thanks with TUO, PA and NQGU.

And thanking God for another beautiful day

madhairday · 28/09/2013 10:11

Oh Lollipop, I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for God's comfort around you and your family.

Praying this too deeply for FOD and Badvoc.

Mary, praying for your dear friend, and praying for tunnocks this morning.

With love to you all.

"Praise You In This Storm"

I was sure by now
God You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
Stepped in and saved the day
But once again, I say "Amen", and it's still raining

As the thunder rolls
I barely hear Your whisper through the rain
"I'm with you"
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away

[Chorus:]
And I'll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I've cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm

I remember when
I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry to you
And you raised me up again
My strength is almost gone
How can I carry on
If I can't find You

But as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
"I'm with you"
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away

[Chorus]
And I'll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I've cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm

I lift my eyes unto the hills
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord
The Maker of Heaven and Earth

Tuo · 28/09/2013 10:55

Thanks for that MHD.

Lollipop: I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family at this sad time. Don't try to think too far ahead right now; just get through today, and then tomorrow... Other days will be difficult too, but it is enough, for now, to focus on the present. I'm thinking of you; and also of Badvoc, FoD, BES, and all who know what it is to suffer the loss of someone close.

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RoomForALittleOne · 28/09/2013 15:52

I've just had a good read through and a pray. I'm not sure that I've got the right words to say today and fear that I will come out with something trite.

We've had some answers to prayer about DD3's sleep habits and some frustrating times with the curacy process this week. I'm hoping that we can turn our frustration into a prayer opportunity. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit that seems to have passed me by!

FriendofDorothy · 28/09/2013 15:52

Oh lollipops I understand. My my died very unexpectedly on Wednesday. She was in Greece at the time so we haven't been able to say goodbye.

I am so upset about the thought of Christmas and the thought she won't be there for my sons first birthday.

LollipopViolet · 28/09/2013 19:56

FoD it's so hard, isn't it? I pray that you find the strength to get through this - Thanks for you.

I just keep thinking of the practical stuff - he was my uncle's main carer, he's insured on my uncle's motability car, he was the one who'd bring the Christmas decorations down from upstairs, would fix plumbing and minor electrical stuff... the list goes on and on.

Today I learned that I am truly blessed with some wonderful friends, one who offered her house as a sanctuary if I ever need it, she also text my other friends so I wouldn't have to. Other friends have text with their condolences, and offered hugs, shoulders to cry on etc. All their lovely messages keep making me cry!

It also hurts that 1 month and 2 days previous to this, we lost our 13 year old golden retriever - too much sadness :(

Dutchoma · 28/09/2013 20:18

Marking a place of prayer for Tunnocksteacake.

Badvoc · 29/09/2013 07:41

A frivolous prayer request from me this morning!
It's my ds2s pirate birthday party this afternoon...24 x 4/5 year olds :)
Please pray that it goes ok, that everyone has fun and that I get through it without crying...the first big family celebration without my dad.
He LOVED birthdays.
Lollipop...someone told me after my dad died to accept any help that was offered. The person who said it knows me well and knows I am a very Independant person!! It's the best advice I can give you. Lean on your friends. Let him do things for you. Let them comfort you x

Dutchoma · 29/09/2013 09:07

Why on earth is that 'frivolous'? 24? Twenty four? May all the holy angels support you Grin

LollipopViolet · 29/09/2013 09:47

Praying through, and praying that God gives me the strength I need today, to venture out in public for the first time after this tragedy rocked my world. I will be surrounded by friends, but pray that I can hold it all together and complete my voluntary duties this evening.

Badvoc - 24 4/5 year olds! I think that's a brave undertaking!

Badvoc · 29/09/2013 09:57

Haha.
Thank you Oma. Yes, I am quite, quite mad. I am currently cutting out yellow paper to make musical pirate islands! :)
You are in my thoughts lollipop as is FOD x

Tuo · 29/09/2013 21:43

Hello all...

I have been thinking about you all a lot today, but especially about those who are grieving for loved-ones no longer with us. I was in church earlier this evening for a service we have once a month, which is basically about 40 minutes of silence (with prayer stations set out, the labyrinth, etc.) followed by a very simple Compline service. It is such a beautiful contemplative time. Anyway, I lit a candle for all our loved-ones, whether they left us recently (Badvoc, Lollipop, FoD, BES) or longer ago (DH was talking a lot about his dad - who died over 30 years ago - this weekend), and prayed for comfort for all who feel their loss.

Badvoc - I hope that the party went well and that the pirates didn't run riot! Post to reassure us that they didn't make you walk the plank!

BES - I hope that the weekend was OK, and that you've got back safely.

Oma - how is Bob these days? Praying for health and happiness for you both.

Tunnocks - continuing to hold your whole family in prayer.

Here is a prayer from one of the Compline services of the Northumbria Community, which I think will appeal to lots of us at the moment.

Calm me, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still me, O Lord, keep me from harm.
Let all the tumult within me cease.
Enfold me, Lord, in Your peace.

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LollipopViolet · 29/09/2013 21:55

Well, I KNEW I wouldn't get through tonight without crying! A lovely lady who co-ordinates the volunteers (of which I'm one) was chatting to me after - we won 11-0(!) and she said, "I reckon they did that for your granddad, X (one of our players) lost his granddad yesterday too, so they did that for both of them."

That set me off sobbing, and she just hugged me and said, "He's watching over all of us now, love. It won't ever stop hurting, but it will get easier."

It just hasn't sunk in, that he's not going to come home :(

BlackeyedSusan · 29/09/2013 22:24

back safely. there were a few melt downs. i am bearing scars from ds's meltdowns, (hair pulled, clothing pulled, hit, scratched' kicked) and i have had a couple myself, so the calming prayer is much needed. it was the responsibility of arriving at mums, then conjuring up 3 cooked meals in the weekend plus breakfast lunches and snacks and leaving enough food for mum to last until she gets the next delivery.

so... drive 50 miles on friday, cook, day out on saturday, packed lunch, 50 mile round trip, cooking a meal once home, prepping window for painting, based on the info that their dad is coming to see them in the morning, which then gets changed to lunchtime after the point of no return on the painting front, then factoring in an extra trip to asda as their dad is now going to be too late to shop for the bits for lunch... cooking luunch, finishing painting, planting acorns with the children, and apple picking as dd has been waiting all week.

this was a planned trip with fil, who it turns out did not come...

Badvoc · 30/09/2013 10:19

Tuo...it went really well :) all the children behaved brilliantly which is amazing for 4 year olds really! The games went well, as did the pirate songs :)
That's a lovely prayer, tuo. We were at lindisfarne a week before dad died and it's the most amazing place. So peaceful.
BES...gosh, that sounds hard. Are you ok? X

GingerCurl · 30/09/2013 18:00

Industrial supervisor has let me down once again. [frustrated]. I'll be handing in the thesis some time next year at this rate!
DSis has an important decision to make this week and has asked for prayer.
Praying for everyone here.

Dutchoma · 30/09/2013 19:56

How annoying Gingercurl. Is there anybody you can ask for help?
Praying also for you sister.

And marking a place for prayer for Tunnocksteacake.

BlackeyedSusan · 30/09/2013 21:37

grrr GC

ds will not sleep. he had 2 hours sleep earlier.

BlackeyedSusan · 01/10/2013 08:06

if you hear a loud bang and see a ather lrge mushroom cloud in the next few minutes, you ill know thta ds has just found out that he is going to school and dd is not.

MaryBS · 01/10/2013 09:50

Oo, BES how did it go?

Badvoc · 01/10/2013 10:00

Ah yes...ds1s school are onstrike today.
Hope it went ok BES x

BlackeyedSusan · 01/10/2013 13:22

it went better than expected really. there was no violence.

dd and i have been haaving a lovely day. she is getting some long awaited mummy time.. when I am not mning