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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

OP posts:
Badvoc · 15/08/2013 11:14

Oh no! Poor thing. Hope he will be ok x

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 15/08/2013 11:22

It's in his oesophagus behind his heart. Stuck good. X rayed last night and again this morning. Not moving into stomach. Yet!

The plan is to feed him lots today and x ray again tonight. Otherwise tomorrow it's an endoscopy.

It's all good. He's calmed down a bit now. He was sooo freaked last night and it's uncomfy. He's reached acceptance now. More worried about DD as she was dumped and was worried when I left.

Badvoc · 15/08/2013 11:34

Glad he is more comfy.
What a worry for you all!
Love to all of you

Dutchoma · 15/08/2013 11:35

Love and prayers

madhairday · 15/08/2013 14:26

Oh poor ds, mome. Praying it all gets sorted out soon and praying for peace and calm for you all.

Cuddledup · 15/08/2013 17:49

Badvoc I'm really sorry to hear about your father's sudden death. My condolences to you and all your family- you are in my thoughts. When my (elderly) father died I was knocked for six even though it was expected - so I can't begin to imagine how awful you feel. BUT Like you, I felt bewildered and angry because your whole landscape has suddenly changed. I found the kindness of friends, family and strangers (esp lovely MN) keeps you going. Strangely I found going to an acupuncturist (who allowed me to talk lots) really helped. You will come through -but it takes time.

mome I hope your DS recovers swiftly.

KeepTheFaithBaby · 15/08/2013 18:35

Gosh Mome! Praying it moves with food!

Badvoc · 15/08/2013 20:53

Thank you cuddledup.
I wish I could sleep. His final moments keep replaying in my mind. It was such a horrific experience. I keep thinking I could have done more - but I don't know what. I can't even remember that last thing I said to him...something stupid like "I will see you in a minute".
I have no idea how I am supposed to move on from this. Or how.

KeepTheFaithBaby · 15/08/2013 21:09

Oh Badvoc :( I think 'last words' are a bit of a Hollywood thing. I have no idea what my last words were to my Mum and vice versa. My advice would be to focus on remembering that he knew you loved me (its obvious to me that you did, very much!). This is still so very, very new and raw. I'm trying to avoid platitudes....my Mum died six years ago. I miss her every day, some more than others. The strangest things in life remind me of her - the smell of sterilising fluid, cleaning the toilet, every time I look at a coat I hear her saying You don't need any more coats!. Ultimately parents are a huge part of our lives. I wouldn't want to reach a point where I stopped missing her. However, somewhere along the way I learnt how to live my life without her by my side. So it doesn't get easier as such but you will learn how to cope with it. In time. It's ok to feel like the world is ending right now though.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 15/08/2013 22:04

Update: It's moved down. We're home. Need to keep an eye but it should pass through ok now.

So so sorry to hear about your loss badvoc, sounds so harrowing Sad Praying x

BlackeyedSusan · 15/08/2013 22:05

how are you mome? are you coping? any sign of movement? praying for all three of you.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 15/08/2013 22:14

Very tired. Barely got any sleep last night and long day. Flat a mess but I'm in bed relaxing now.

Thanks for asking Grin

DS had a humongous nap this afternoon, so he's only just konked out again or I'd have been in bed sooner.

Tuo · 16/08/2013 00:56

Hello Cuddledup - it's nice to see you again.

Still praying, Badvoc... Really lovely wise words from Faith. In time, if you find you are still reliving the trauma, then counselling might help. But to feel as you do when it's all still so recent and raw sounds completely understandable and normal. Holding you hand through it, across the ether.

Praying for a restful night for you and DS, Mome. Is your DD OK now too?

Praying for MHD to feel much better very soon, ready for her holiday.

And praying (with a little hoorah thrown in for good measure) for Gingercurl. Congratulations on completing the thesis - we all knew you could do it. Enjoy your holiday now.

Thinking also of amber, of Oma and Bob, of BES, of PA, of Charlotte, of Kay, of Mary, of Room and of niminypiminy. Praying for those who've received A-level results today, as they contemplate the next big step in their lives.

I am stupidly tired, but have finished a couple of fairly major tasks today and have only one more day at work before we go on holiday on Sunday. So praying for a last burst of energy to get me through the next couple of days...!

OP posts:
Badvoc · 16/08/2013 07:55

Thank you all. I am sorry for your loss faith x
Glad to hear your ds is improving mome. What a worry for you.
Off to cuddle my dc :)

Bluetinkerbell · 16/08/2013 10:48

Praying and lurking.
You fell of my tio list.
Looking forward to the meet up tomorrow.

BlackeyedSusan · 16/08/2013 11:04

urrgg. tired. the children slept on the sofa cushions on the living rroom floor last night, for a treat.

pa how are your family. praaying, aand in the middle of the night too.

BlackeyedSusan · 16/08/2013 14:21

mmmmm Cake

Dutchoma · 16/08/2013 14:30

Are you bringing some tomorrow?

ZingWantsCake · 16/08/2013 20:14

may I join?

I need strength and patience to look after our children.
and to be less grumpy in general.
and I need guidance on how to be a better wife

PositiveAttitude · 16/08/2013 20:46

Much prayer for you Badvoc and a (((hug)))) thrown in, too.

Zing - welcome!! are you stalking me??? I think I recognise you from elsewhere.......

On phone so cant scroll so easy and I have the brain of a gnat at the moment, so apologies for lack of personals, but prayers for everyone as I read through.

BES thanks for asking. We are mostly all good here, thanks. DH and I "speak" on fb most days - although this often includes me giving him cooking or cleaning instructions. Hmm
DD1 is looking forward to going to uni in just a few weeks and will be looking for a new job to help her sort her finances out. She has done amazing, but we do still have minor blips occasionally.
DD2 is away working at Soul Survivor this week, back Sunday.
DD3 is feeling less sick and doing well. Energy levels do seem to be increasing as long as she does not push herself too much.
DS is looking for work, has an assessment day at college on Wednesday to decide what level course he will be doing. He is missing life in Cambodia.
DD4 is enjoying being back at her International School in Cambodia and probably being away from me!!

Have a good weekend everyone.

ZingWantsCake · 16/08/2013 20:48

positive

Grin not stalking!

Badvoc · 16/08/2013 21:11

Is that cake!?
Just been listening to the church bells - they practise every Friday night.
I love that sound.
Feel very odd today. Things seem very unreal.

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 16/08/2013 21:57

Hope a good time is had by all who are meeting up tomorrow!

BlackeyedSusan · 16/08/2013 22:07

i guess the shock is wearing off badvoc. I remember the disconnected from the world feeling.

I am trying to get ready forr tomorows adventure, but still dealing with small bodies and out of routineness

Bluetinkerbell · 16/08/2013 22:30

See you tomorrow bes :)