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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

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BlackeyedSusan · 12/08/2013 18:23

off to mums at short notice, having expected the painter today and found he is not due til wednesdday/thusday. I could do with some rain here to delay him a little. Grin

Tuo · 13/08/2013 00:32

Ridiculously busy week this week, but I'm checking in when I can and praying.

Praying in particular for health for MHD (PJ/HP day sounds like just what you needed after camping!);
... for a restful day for Oma and Bob;
... for peace and acceptance for amber (I've had situations in my life - when I was younger - when the 'fight or flight' situation has been so strong that I've just run... I know it feels horrible, but sometimes it is literally all you can do);
... for future happiness for Kay and for strength for your DS as he resumes contact with his dad;
... for SES's work situation (that's totally out of order in my view and I hope you get it resolved);
... for PA's new job and for MrPA's safety;
... for BES travelling to your mum's;
... and for all who need our prayers right now.

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Kaykat · 13/08/2013 11:33

So H told some lies to DS I didn't tell him they were lies just listened with interest and hope he realises for himself. More worryingly H asked him to keep secrets from me and it has upset DS especially since I told him a few days ago he shouldn't worry about keeping secrets and could tell his dad anything he wanted about our lives. I guess I should expect ongoing knobbish behaviour. DS has had a wonderful healing time for several months so hoping he has the emotional strength to cope with it.

Hope Bob and MHD are ok with their current health worries.

Dutchoma · 13/08/2013 11:58

More stress for Bob and me! He has not done a wee for over 12 hours and we are waiting for a doctor to call to see if he needs a catheter. Apparently, even with all the emphasis on home care rather than hospital care he will need to go to A&E to have it fitted.

Dutchoma · 13/08/2013 12:28

But the issue got resolved and I'm going out! Cinderella will go to the ball!

RoomForALittleOne · 13/08/2013 18:33

How was your time out DO? Did Bob need a catheter in the end?

Dutchoma · 13/08/2013 20:03

It was only a short visit but I got a Reiki massage (did not quite get the point of that) and a Reflexology massage. Don't see the deeper effect of that either but it was extremely relaxing and I fell asleep for a few minutes.
No Bob did not need a catheter as he 'went' before the doctor came. I rang immediately, but he rang back and said he would be happier checking for himself and did so. He was a very nice man, only three inches shorter than ds who is 6'7 1/2". Bob seems more cheerful after his visit.

CharlotteCollinsismovingon · 13/08/2013 21:01

I am in the process of applying for the house that they nearly didn't let me see! It's a bit nerve-wracking because I have to give details about my income and there's not much to detail! My DB is being guarantor so I'm hoping he'll prioritise these forms. He has a lot of disposable income, so it should be fine, but I am still worried I won't be allowed to rent the place after all this. It is just so right - it will be a big knock if that happens. Please pray that it all falls into place quickly.

Badvoc · 13/08/2013 21:01

Tuo...thank you for including me in your prayers. I know I haven't been here for a while. Have had a lovely pm from Oma.
We lost my beloved dad very suddenly on 27th July. He was only 67.
We were at a family wedding and he collapsed. Dh and I performed CPR but they couldn't save him.
It was his funeral today.
I feel utterly bereft.
My sister was on holiday and my brother practically catatonic with shock so it all fell to me.
To add to the trauma my poor mum suffered a heart attack the same night brought on by grief and stress. (She is doing well and on meds)
It really has been the most awful time in my life.
I have tried to talk to god and I can't.
I am too angry at him.
I know I should be thankful that dad didn't suffer. I know I should be thankful that we were with him and he was not alone. That he was not driving when it happened, but it's hard.
I just want my dad back.

amberlight · 13/08/2013 22:10

Badvoc, no words....just here with you...
...and with everyone else...

KeepTheFaithBaby · 13/08/2013 22:10

Oh Badvoc I'm so, so sorry to hear that. I don't know what to say. It is hard to see the positives so early on in a bereavement. Just allow the emotions to come and go. Be kind to yourself. I'm praying for you and your family at this time Thanks

Charlotte praying this house becomes your new home.

DO I'm glad to hear Bob didn't need a catheter and you were able to relax.

Tuo · 14/08/2013 01:18

Oh Badvoc - I am so sorry to hear this news, and I am praying for you and your family. I am glad to hear that your mum is making a good recovery, at least, and I pray that things will get easier for you all, little by little, day by day. These things take time, and it's entirely normal that you're feeling raw and hurt by it all now. Don't worry if you can't pray right now: we can pray for you and with you, and we're virtually holding your hand across the ether.

Praying, too, for Cinderoma and Bob - for a calm day tomorrow...

Praying for Kay's DS - that his eyes be opened to the lies he has been told, and that he continues to grow in strength and understanding, so that he is able to maintain a relationship with his dad, but with enough distance that he does not allow himself to be manipulated by him.

Praying for Charlotte's potential house. Remember that the forms are generic ones, but not quite 'fitting' with all the boxes doesn't necessarily mean that you won't be accepted.

And praying that MHD is feeling better today.

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RoomForALittleOne · 14/08/2013 02:43

Oh, Badvoc! Of course you want your Dad back. You must be in shock Sad I'm sorry that you have felt alone and let down. Sometimes life doesn't make sense and terrible things happen. It feels so unfair when that happens to us. I have a picture in my head of God crying tears of grief over you. You are not alone even when you feel lonely, hurt and confused. I guess it may make you feel even more angry to think of God sitting and watching but not doing anything. But He does want to comfort you - to scoop you up like a little girl and hold you tight forever SadSadSad praying blessings upon you and healing upon your grieving family xxx

RoomForALittleOne · 14/08/2013 02:47

Tuo what are you doing up? I have a good excuse Grin

DO I'm glad that the situation resolved. Poor Bob must have been in pain. I'm happy to see you nodded off for a few moments. It was worth going after all you had to deal with. Praying for refreshing for you, both physically and spiritually.

RoomForALittleOne · 14/08/2013 02:52

Kay I'm so pleased that you are telling your DS to be open and honest. Your attitude will make all the difference and I'm sure that God will honour you in that decision.

Charlotte praying that the Landlord will not be silly and precious about his house and share it with you so that you get a lovely home. I hate how hung up we get about our houses after all, they belong to God and we can't take them with us!

MHD praying that you can breathe easily and that this is a short, post-NW blip.

Badvoc · 14/08/2013 09:11

Thank you all.
Dh is off this morning but has to be back at work this afternoon.
I have woken up with a dreadful headache so am going to have a cup of tea and see if it goes off.
My mum has her 3 sisters with her til tomorrow....after that I am not sure what we are going to do. My sister and I were taking it in turns to stay with her at night (my brother won't) but its hard for me because if the dc.
My bil is taking my nephews back out to their holiday home for the last 2 weeks of the hols do my sister should be a bit more free to stay.
I'm so tired.

GingerCurl · 14/08/2013 10:04

Just popping in to say that I have a thesis! 80,589 words. I've sent it off to the industrial sponsor for approval (defence related) before I can submit it to the uni for examination. The industrial sponsor has been messing me around a bit with the approval process but, because the person who is suppose to check it has been away with work and then on holiday until this week, it has meant that I had an extra few days to knock it into shape. When we've explained the situation with the sponsor to the uni, they have been brilliant and just asked me to keep them informed of the progress. AND I had a short but really nice conversation with my internal examiner the other day too. Nothing special as such but it meant a lot since I've always felt on the back foot with her.
Thank you for your prayers and support. I'm off on holiday now with DS (unfortunately DH has to work Sad so won't come with us) for a couple of weeks. Unless something completely unexpected happens, I should be submitting at the beginning of September. :-)

GingerCurl · 14/08/2013 10:05

Oh, and as always I have been and am lurking and praying.

madhairday · 14/08/2013 15:25

Badvoc I am so very sorry for your loss. What an awful thing to happen, it's no wonder you feel so hurt and angry. It's OK to be angry at God. Praying for peace and especially for comfort for you, your DMum and the rest of the family. With love.

Ginger that's fabulous, I knew you would do it! Very proud of you :)

Keeping praying for you all.

I still feel low and have a lot of crap on my lungs but taking it easy ready to go on holiday.

ps if anyone wants to listen to the seminar I did on contentment in suffering you can download it here but it isn't free, sorry...

Badvoc · 14/08/2013 15:40

Thank you MHD.
I feel lost.

Dutchoma · 14/08/2013 17:13

Well done Ginger, you deserve your holiday.

BlackeyedSusan · 14/08/2013 22:41

Sad badvoc. so sorry for your loss. it is such a shock. been there, done that and just got though the first anniversary, so lots of sympathy and hand holding.

well done GC.

good luck with the house.

ds is still awake.. it is 3.32 am here... well according to the computer Hmm it has abit of a wobble when it is turned off. Confused

Badvoc · 15/08/2013 07:53

Thank you BES. I am sorry for your loss x

BlackeyedSusan · 15/08/2013 08:30

oh ye god's i as woken at 8 by the sound of the crane starting up, knowing that the painter would shotly be appearing at the windows!

ds is tired and stroppy. as am i

got to get them ready to go out.

Dutchoma · 15/08/2013 11:07

Mome's ds is in hospital with a 20p coin stuck in his throat. It's not moving and may need to come out by way of a small operation. Dd is being cared for by a dneighbour.