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Just curious - how many muslims are on mumsnet?

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Galvanise · 01/12/2012 00:21

Hello/Salaam,

I know mumsnet has a wide and diverse population and I tend to recognise some MN usernames as regulars. Just intrigued to know how big/small a community it may be.

Of course, I respect that there may be those who do not wish to even identify themselves for various reasons - which is fine too.

I am not asking for 'religiousness' levels or any vital stats! Nor is this a muslim-only thread or an 'no non-muslims' thread.
If you really wish to tell me that you are not a muslim, that is fine too :)

:)

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BigMomma77 · 13/02/2013 23:21

Salaam
I've just joined mumsnet - hoping to get good advice and learn from others. I think I was wondering the same thing. Hopefully we can all help each other out when needed W/salaam xx

crescentmoon · 14/02/2013 07:43

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juule · 14/02/2013 10:17

A lot of people think washable nappies are a headache Crescent Smile I can understand why as obviously you have to deal with the soiled nappy where with a disposable you don't (although at some point the mountain of non-degradable disposables will have to be dealt with by someone). I have used a mix of disposables and washables at various times.
After a while it becomes no more than another item of your baby/toddler clothing that needs to be washed.

It does save you a lot of money too. Particularly if you are going to have more than one baby and use the same nappies.

I found it doable for more than one child. I had 3 in washables at one point (3 babies in 2.5 years). Although I did need a few more nappies than just for one baby Grin

I think it's Elimination Communication you are talking about in your post. I always thought that sounded interesting but personally couldn't see me having the patience to do it.

juule · 14/02/2013 10:21

Apologies for derailing onto nappy chat.

crescentmoon · 14/02/2013 16:35

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BlueOrange · 14/02/2013 23:14

Salaam crescent. Some beautiful surahs and duas that you have mentioned. Just one point - i would rather just read the surahs and duas as much as possible (or even once) rather than reading them say 152 times or 129 times. Allah has made islam easy for us and imposing so many readings (ie: a number) which may not be from the quran or sunnah can become a hardship.

The duas that you have mentioned from the Quran are most beautiful mashallah. May Allah reward you for your efforts. Ameen.

Many congratulations to all the expecting ladies. :)

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CoteDAzur · 15/02/2013 11:24

crescent - re "Would you choose dictatorship over democracy cote?"

As I said, quite possibly yes. I would rather live in the Principality of Monaco than Iran, where I would have the right to vote but no hope at all of having many rights I'd consider essential to my happiness.

"Would the familiarity of the middle eastern brand of tyrannical corrupt cruel despot win over the risk of a religious party?"

You seem to be assuming that religious governments are not dictatorial and they cannot possibly be corrupt. I assure you that is not the case.

Personally, I'd choose to live in Saddam's Iraq than Iran or in Saudi Arabia.

"Or do you prefer the dirty politics of the turkish secularists- susurluk the last in a long line? - over the self righteous AKP?"

Religious nuts of AKP are just as corrupt as the others. Look at how they have enriched themselves and how they have totally ruined the justice and education system in Turkey and you will be sick to your stomach.

Susurluk was very far from being "last in line", by the way. That was 20 years ago.

How about you? I'd be interested to hear whether you would like to live in Iran, seeing how it is a "democracy" and an Islamic government as well.

crescentmoon · 15/02/2013 11:39

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fuzzywuzzy · 15/02/2013 12:15

crescent the translation of the verse you posted fmor surah imran is incorrect.

Hannah did dedicate her child to the service of Allah before it was born but she did it under the assumption she would have a male child to send to the temple. She was sorrowful that her intention could not be completed when she had her daughter instead of a son, but it was Allah's plan that her daughter would be better than any son would have been for her.

fuzzywuzzy · 15/02/2013 12:20

actually no sorry mis read, you have translated up to verse 37.

CoteDAzur · 15/02/2013 19:54

crescent - re "No not Iran nor Saudi Arabia, both are supremacist"

What, they are both governed with the belief that Islam is a better religion than any other? Isn't that what you and others on this thread believe as well?

"Iran is a theocracy"

So? Wouldn't you be happy to obey the rules of Islam? To feel the hand of Sharia in government as well as justice system? If not, why not?

"That And marrying political power to religious power- the Sunni dynasties of the past kept those two things separate. "

They were SECULAR, you mean? Smile I thought you didn't like secular states?

CoteDAzur · 15/02/2013 20:24

crescentmoon - re "its funny how vehement you are about the AKP, all i ever read about is how much the other 'religious' parties in the Middle East would do well to model them"

And what does that tell you? That (1) I am an idiot or a liar, or (2) that UK media you follow either deliberately ignored or incompetently missed all that has been happening?

Over a period of several years, I have been Shock Shock and Shock some more over UK newspapers' coverage of the political situation in Turkey, to the extent that I have lost all trust in their abilities and now don't read them at all. I can tell how wrong they are re Turkey, so how can I now trust their judgement re other parts of the world?

I could give you links, but you can't read Turkish. Courts are no longer independent, but merely tools for this government to jail even potential dissenters. There is no such thing as freedom of speech and people are scared even on anonymous forums on the internet, because people have been tracked through their IP numbers and taken to court. There are hundreds of people in prison for years without trial, with each dissenter's name added to an ever-growing list of supposed plotters of a plot to overthrow the government some years ago.

"the chief thing is Turkey's economy whose growth and stability is attributed to the AKP"

The main thing that massively helped Turkey's economy is the drop in global interest rates, which finally brought Turkey's debt payments to a manageable level. And I don't need to tell anyone that this is not some magic that AKP performed but the result of the global credit crunch. (I can go into this in detail if you like, as a former analyst & fund manager in Turkey's financial markets).

"and then how they - sorry to attack your beloved institution cote - managed to neutralise the power of the army"

You make that sound so pleasant Hmm They have jailed over 20% of army's top brass with no trial in sight so they could put their cronies in place. It is very naive of UK media to think for a second that AKP crippled the army for the sake of EU-style democracy. They did it to take out the only force that could stop them turning the country into another Iran.

For the time being, it's not Iran. But have turned the country into a totalitarian place, not dissimilar to Putin's Russia. Prison population of Turkey has doubled in the last decade, and not because AKP is so much better in catching pickpockets.

That is the political party you seem to admire so. I don't know what else to say Sad

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nailak · 15/02/2013 21:46

the shariah can be in government and justice system, while being run by separate authorities.

is that hard to understand?

the ulama and the qadis are different. the Qadi and ulama can declare laws made by shura against Islam.

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nailak · 16/02/2013 18:31

i think Islam and feminism share many common concerns.

I also think Islam and feminism are totally oppossite on many issues.

nailak · 16/02/2013 18:32

I studied Amina Wadud a bit, I dont agree with her

peacefuloptimist · 16/02/2013 22:07

Hi Cote. Have been meaning to reply to your post but have been really busy. I realise the conversation has moved on and apologise in advance for derailing it again.

?Religion was between each man and God, with no need for an institution or leader in the middle. I happen to think that is a good thing.?

I also agree that it is a good thing to cut out the middle man between God and people. However the Caliph in Islam is not a middle man or intercessor between man and God. The role of the Caliph is to be a leader of the community of Muslims. Any community or country or society or organisation needs a head or leader in order to function in an organised fashion otherwise there would be anarchy. That is basic common sense. Even in a democracy you elect presidents and prime ministers who fulfill that role. Islamically the basic description of the job of the caliph is to be a just ruler. In the Quran it emphasises this in the verse that talks about the Prophet David who was the leader/king of the Jews in his lifetime.

?Oh Dâwud (Prophet David)! We have made you a caliph on earth. Then judge with justice.? Surah Saad, verse 26

Unlike the pope the caliph is not God?s representative on Earth and is not considered infallible or owed unquestionable allegiance or anything like that. The first caliph of Islam, Abu Bakr?s first speech gave a succinct explanation of his role and the relationship of the Muslim masses to the caliph.

"I have been given the authority over you, and I am not the best of you. If I do well, help me; and if I do wrong, set me right. Sincere regard for truth is loyalty and disregard for truth is treachery. The weak amongst you shall be strong with me until I have secured his rights, if God will; and the strong amongst you shall be weak with me until I have wrested from him the rights of others, if God will. Obey me so long as I obey God and His Messenger (Muhammad, pbuh). But if I disobey God and His Messenger, you owe me no obedience."

The institution of the caliphate for many centuries provided a measure of unity (not complete unity), security and stability in the Muslim World. For example the Ottoman Empire sent fleets of soldiers with arms to support Muslim rulers in East Africa and in Aceh against the European colonial powers. Its no wonder they plotted its demise as it enabled them to finally colonise some of its former territories such as Syria, Palestine and Iraq amongst others. Now am I saying that we need to reinstate the Ottoman empire. No way. It would be impossible and anyway I think it is delusional to portray it as some sort of ideal of Muslim governance as it certainly wasnt particularly in its later years. But a new system has to be set up to fill that gap.

?One person's "radical, unorthodox" is another's "normal". I honestly think it is a good thing that nobody is "policing" anyone's religion. If there has to be religion in the world, everyone should be free to practice it as he/she sees fit.?

I disagree that ?everyone? should be free to practice it in the way that they have interpreted it, in particular if the way they have interpreted it means that they are oppressing others or damaging the image/reputation of Islam. I am forever being made to answer for the abominable actions of the minority of extreme, radical muslim groups even though I despise what they do as do the vast majority of muslims in the world. It is in the interest of some people to take the actions of the worst group of Muslims to be representative of what Islam as a whole teaches to the extent that the Radicals and Extremists are actually described by some Western, Islamophobic commentators as being the true muslims, the ones who are practicing Islam properly. Rather then having to defend my religion against accusations of allowing ?honor killings? and ?fgm? and ?terrorism? etc I think it would be better to have some sort of organistion or authority that can speak for Muslims as a whole to say that yes there are people within our community who do xyz but the majority of us condemn that, do not agree with that interpretation and do not accept that their actions have anything to do with Islam. Does that make sense?

?Personally, I'd choose to live in Saddam's Iraq than Iran or in Saudi Arabia.?

It comes as no surprise that an athiest such as yourself would decline to live under a religious government. What does surprise me though is that you would rather live in Saddam Husseins Iraq. Really? How about if you were a Kurd living in Halabja in 1988, would living in Iraq really be preferable to living in Saudi then? Or how about if you were a Syrian in the town of Hama when Bashar Assad?s father was in power, would living in Iran with less freedoms really be a worse alternative then having your entire family slaughtered because they happen to be living in the wrong place at the wrong time?

?You seem to be assuming that religious governments are not dictatorial and they cannot possibly be corrupt. I assure you that is not the case.?

Maybe so but in the Middle East the secular, athiest despots like Saddam Hussein, Hafez al Assad, Muammar Gaddafi, Ben Ali, Gamal Abdel Nasser and the rest of their ilk have demonstrated much greater ruthlessness and contempt for their people then the Saudi rulers (not so familiar with Iran) who prefer to bribe their people in to submission. I would much rather live in Saudi Arabia where I could practice my religion without being treated like a criminal and live in peace and security then live in Tunisia under Ben Ali where my husband would have most probably been arrested, interogated and possibly tortured for attending the mosque daily to pray his five daily prayers; where I would not be allowed to access education or work because I wear a headscarf; or live in Syria where my 6 month old ds would have been slaughtered by the Syrian army with impunity. Don't kid yourself that these secular despots would have any more mercy for the non-religious. I spent a bit of time living in Egypt when Hosni Mubarak was in power. I shared a flat with several girls from different countries and also an Egyptian native. One of the girls in our flat had a minor altercation with another girl who subsequently called the police. I will never forget the reaction of the Egyptian girl who stayed with us when she heard the news. She packed all her bags as quickly as possible and made arrangements to stay somewhere else that night and warned us all to do the same. The rest of us who were staying in the flat were all from European countries and we could not understand why she was so afraid of the police coming to our flat when we had done nothing wrong and the incident was relatively minor but her behaviour panicked us enough that we all left the flat that night. Now this girl was not religious in the slightest. She worked in the fashion industry in Egypt and was thoroughly Westernised in appearance and in thought and yet even she was terrified of the Egyptian police. One of my teachers there told us about the last time she saw her son years earlier when he left the house before fajr to go and get breakfast for the family. He never came back as his journey back from the shops took him past a mosque that was being raided at the time and his reason and shopping bags were not a good enough excuse to the Egyptian security police for being out at that time and they arrested him and dragged him off. Would you really prefer to live under dictators like these (not the European variety like that of Monaco) then live in a democracy like Turkey that has an ?Islamist? party in power. If you live in a country where the government has decided that the religion practiced by over 90% of the population is the biggest threat to it then really what chance do you have of living a normal life?

peacefuloptimist · 16/02/2013 22:17

As you were Grin

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