If we were to remove the preconceptions that
[a] truths about the human condition necessarily contain a relationship between humans and god/jesus at their core, and
[b] the stories in the bible are essentially true,
you and I would agree on most of the big questions, niminy. Since you are the one attached to irrational preconceptions, I understand that you will disagree with me about their irrationality. It's either stupid or disingenuous to assert that means there can't be worthwhile discussion with Christians unless it is wholly on my terms. You're not stupid so you're being intentionally simplistic.
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Here's a comparatively harmless example:
"Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what
ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body,
what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the
body than raiment?
"Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they
reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth
them. Are ye not much better than they?"
Is Jesus telling you to choose unemployment and wait for everything you need to just be given?
Now look, I went to school, I've been to church, I live in a christianity-based society. I have heard the replies to my question. It's not obstructive of me to say I'm not that keen on hearing it again!
Especially as the discussion goes on for fucking ever ... 2,000 years and counting.
Socrates, by comparison, said:
"He is richest who is content with the least, for content is the wealth of nature."
That clearly means you can be happy without having loads of stuff, as long as you're content with your lot.
Both these imaginary teachers were saying pretty much the same thing, right? Only the Greek didn't tell people not to work and to choose destitution.
Me, I choose science. It tells me what my physical needs actually are, and that I'll be happier bunny if those are met and I take a laid-back attitude towards getting extras. And it can prove its assertions, in detail, while not being afraid to say "Not sure" about the things it's not sure about.