Er, no, Snorbs, that is very distorted. So, to try again...
Dd comes sidling up to me (as in above point 4.) 'I'm sorry, Mum' she says. 'That's okay' I say, as we have a huge hug. 'I didn't mean to be rude,' she says. 'Iknow, I reply. 'Why do you think you spoke to me like that?'
'Well,' dd replies, 'I just get so angry when blah blah blah...[hence long conversation about what went wrong with dd's school friends, how to hadle difficult situations at school etc etc]
After a while, we say 'I love you', more hugs, then peace.
It's not that different with God IME, in that forgiveness is always there, and the process of confession involves bringing to God everything that is not right in us, and bringing God's love and wisdom to it, so that you can return to life with a new perspective. Nothing to do with being 'good enough' - that's an utterly alien way of looking at it.