A) How much critical detail can you miss out from "someone's birthday falls on the same day as a particular RC feast" when you simplify it?
B) I note you are still being coy about what it is you actually did to the letters/numbers to achieve this miraculous connection. Numerology doesn't have the most reliable of histories. Is the DOB just a day, or day and month, or day month and year?
C) So you take the symbol Chi Rho. You ignore the fact that the very point of it is that it represents the first two letters of "Christ" in Greek using letters that look like P and X. Instead, you then make a stylised representation of your name (which I'm guessing doesn't have an X in it) to make it look like Chi Rho and then - wowsers! - it looks like Chi Rho. And then you marvel at the symmetry of it even though Chi Rho is not symmetrical. Um. Hmm.
D) When you said it was "framed by a waning crescent moon", what exactly did you mean by that? And are you really suggesting that you saw the crescent of Venus with the naked eye and that formed the curve of the P? Must've been an incredibly small curve.
So let's talk of probabilities. (A) still seems roughly 1 in 10 to me. It's not hard for events to coincide with RC festivals.
(B) is harder to ascertain given your reticence to describe the numerology you used but let's assume it's matching two letters plus one day of the year = 26 x 26 x 365 = roughly 1 in 250,000. But I reckon it's probably a whole lot less than that. Not least because I don't regard this as random chance, it's clearly a guided effort to find a match.
(C) boils down to "how probable is it that I can take a random symbol and create a monogram that looks similar". 30 seconds work with a pencil and a piece of paper has shown me that I can create a monogram of the first two initials of my name that looks like Chi Rho. If you make Chi Rho fully symmetrical you can fit all my initials in there.
A further minute allowed me to do the same for my ex's initials and the Sacred Ikon of J. R. "Bob" Dobbs. Which on the one hand might explain an awful lot about my ex or on the other suggests it's really not very difficult.
Moreover guided efforts such as this are not very amenable to probability estimation because it boils down to how much effort and artistic license you will allow in getting the match. It's not random chance. Call it 1 in 10?
Combine all that and you get a chance of, at worst, 1 in 25 million. But, again, in reality I suspect it's massively less than that because a lot of what you say smells very strongly of you trying to find a correlation rather than purely random chance. And I struggle to see the significance of assigning a single number for probability in these circumstances as they're not connected in a cumulative way.
It's like saying "My daughter's friends are called Sophie, Amy and Grace. The chances of the first girl being called Sophie is thousands to one because of all the different girl's names in the world. The chances of the second girl being called Amy is also thousands to one, and the same for the third! Therefore the chances of my daughter's friends having those names is billions to one!" It's not significant. It doesn't mean anything.
How did you calculate a chance of 1 in 500k billion anyway?