I'm a sceptic who'd quite like to be a believer.
What puzzles me most is why, if a medium can communicate with those who have died, can those spirits not just day "hi I'm john smith, I have a message for tracey smith"? Why all the cryptic clues and names that sound like others etc.
Is it hard to understand them? Do they not 'speak' as we do?
I'm not trying to start a debate about the rights and wrongs of mediumship, just curious as to what they hear and see.