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Settling our new dog in - your top tips please?

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Molesworth · 09/03/2009 18:55

Our new doggy is arriving next Sunday afternoon and, as a novice in the dog-owning field, I'd like to make the transition to his new home as smooth as possible for him.

He is a 6 year-old Boston Terrier, so we're not dealing with a pup here.

He is bringing all of his things with him (bed, blankets, toys etc), so will have some familiar stuff around, and I'm going to stick as closely as possible to the sort of routine he's used to in terms of walk times and feeding time. We'll also continue with the same food.

I've kept the first couple of weeks completely clear of any out-of-the-ordinary events (overnight visitors, trips away etc) so we have a chance to get a routine in place, get to know each other and allow him to find his feet.

The idea of a crate has been suggested to me but I'm not sure about that, because he's never used a crate before as far as I know. His owners say that he's very well behaved around the house - completely housetrained, doesn't chew - and he won't be left alone here anyway, or not initially. He's also pretty obedient (although stubborn at times) and will sit, give paw and come when he's called, although of course I don't know how long it will take him to respond to my commands, which gives me the nadgers a bit. I won't be letting him off his lead until I'm confident he'll come back when called.

I'm probably fussing needlessly and hopefully as long as his canine needs are met he'll be perfectly happy!

Any top tips for helping an adult dog to settle into a new home and getting off on the right foot would be much appreciated

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bella29 · 09/03/2009 21:05

I reckon you've got most things covered, Molesworth! I would make sure he gets the opportunity to do a proper wee outside before he first comes into your house, so he doesn't get all excited and do it indoors. I'd then take him out quite often over the next few hour, just to be sure

Molesworth · 09/03/2009 21:12

I'm being a right fusspot aren't I

His owners are bringing him here so he'll have a walk before he arrives and hopefully be drained of wee. Not sure how long they'll stay but I'll take him for short regular walks over the rest of the day to give him a chance to sniff out the immediate neighbourhood, then do a proper longer walk on Monday morning as part of his normal routine.

So excited, I'm just looking for excuses to witter on about him really

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bedlambeast · 09/03/2009 21:12

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bella29 · 09/03/2009 21:21

Not a fusspot - just impressively thorough!

You are right to start off in what will be his 'normal' routine - a lot of people think it's good to take time off/get a dog during the holidays but it's best to let them adapt to the usual routine from day one.

Molesworth · 09/03/2009 21:22

Those are brilliant tips BB, thank you!

My children are almost grown up and one of them is only here at weekends and in school hols, so that's something I don't have to worry about.

I will use an extendable lead at first until he's worked out that I'm his new mum. Apparently his recall isn't 100% reliable when he's in open spaces, but he will almost always come running if he thinks there's a piece of cheese in it for him.

His owners have taken him to training classes and he wasn't keen. I am thinking of having a few one-to-one sessions with a good trainer once he's settled in to address any issues that emerge.

His owner has forewarned me of a few issues he has, which I'm bearing in mind but don't want to assume that these will be a problem before the event, if you see what I mean.

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Molesworth · 10/03/2009 12:33

Aha, I did wonder if an extendable lead might cause more trouble than it's worth, especially if I'm fumbling in an inexperienced manner with it. He's coming with an array of leads, so I think I'll take your advice and keep him in a normal short lead for the first few days until we've established some sort of bond and see how we go.

Re: insurance, he will continue to be covered by his owner's insurance for the trial period of two weeks, then I'll take over from there with a new policy

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stleger · 10/03/2009 13:36

Since my lad arrived nearly 2 weeks ago..it is like having a baby! Lots of admiring 'dog parents', lots of conflicting advice, and mine needs a nappy!

Molesworth · 10/03/2009 18:57

What sort of training methods are you using with your boy stleger? I had a trip to the library today and came back with a few books each with different methods (clicker training, dog whispering, Bruce Fogle positive reinforcement type stuff). I guess they all have their merits but I don't know which method I'm going to go with, apart from attempting to exude Cesar Millan stylee "calm assertive energy"

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LucyEllensmummy · 10/03/2009 20:13

OMG how JEALOUS am I?? Please put a pic on here for us???

Honestly, what to do? Nothing!! Just do what you would usually do when you are around the house. Do feed him and take him for walks though . But i would honestly just give him a bit of space to find his feet. If you can give him a space to call his own - a new basket - or his old one, even better!!!

He will fit in without you even noticing i bet. Its best not to do things differently to how you might do them after the settling in period. Its good not to leave him alone obviously, and start by just doing short periods of time.

Ohhh i bet you can't wait!! do the bribery thing when you are out on walks, have a pocket full of dog sweets and take him out on an empty stomach - best not to exercise after food anyway as this can cause discomfort. Invest in a flexi lead so you can practise your recall. Take him to places where he will meet loads of dogs to socialise him and PLEASE let other peoples dogs come and say hello - so long as he is OK with it of course.

Molesworth · 10/03/2009 20:22

Hello LEM

There's a pic on my profile - he is UNBELIEVABLY CUTE (imho)

I realised today that I'm fussing WAY too much and trying to be 'perfect' in advance, which is silly. It's going to take a bit of time for us to get to know each other. His owners seem very confident that this is the right home for him, because he seemed so comfortable and happy here when he visited us. I'm going to let him settle in at his own pace, make sure he gets plenty of exercise, play and affection, and I'm sure all will be well.

I quite like the look of clicker training but not immediately.

We're in central London and he's a city dog, so he's well socialized BUT he was seriously attacked at the end of last year by another dog, and since then has been somewhat timid, but only when on the lead. I guess this is a combination of not being able to flee when on the lead, and possibly sensing some anxiety from his owner? Anyway, we'll see how it goes because what issues he has don't sound very serious tbh.

Can't wait. And he's coming on my birthday

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LucyEllensmummy · 10/03/2009 20:23

Totally second the two week grace period - we were told this about our battersea rotweiller. He was an angel for two weeks and then right on day 14 all hell broke loose and we were like what have we done??? The dog was a lunatic! Just plain mental - but we were told about his psychoses and he came right in the end miss him big time!

Molesworth · 10/03/2009 20:24

Awww sorry that your rottie's not with you any more; did you get another dog?

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LucyEllensmummy · 10/03/2009 20:25

Oh he is absolutely gorgeous!!! I am extremely jealous - ive always fancied one of those. I think they are great, although i don't really know much about them.

LucyEllensmummy · 10/03/2009 20:26

yes we did - he was our second rottie, our first was from a pup. We now have a border terrier X who is just lovely too . A house without a dog, is simply not a home!! I know that sounds cliche but its so true.

Molesworth · 10/03/2009 20:30

I think Bostons are fairly rare in this country, although there is a Bostons meetup group in London that Champ goes to where lots of Bostons get to play together (nyawwww!)

I am a first-time dog owner hence all the fussing and worrying about getting it 'right'.

Like now I'm trying to work out where to put his bed - somewhere quiet where he can go and chill and not be disturbed, or somewhere in the living room where he's near us?

I should just chill - I expect he'll make his preferences known once he gets here!

Have you got any pics of your doggy on here LEM?

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LucyEllensmummy · 10/03/2009 20:49

no - i will have to post some, watch this space

Molesworth · 10/03/2009 21:12

Re: a house not feeling like a home without a dog - this probably sounds barmy but the flat has felt strangely empty ever since he left after his visit last week, so I think I know what you mean. Am counting the hours until he arrives now!

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stleger · 10/03/2009 21:19

Aww! I really need a cat to be complete! The lady on C4 did clickers, didn't she, in a nifty leather outfit and sports car. Dh is very impressed with Cesar and his energies. At the minute we are quite good at sit, we know our name, but we are liable to dash off in big circles and poo on the landing! I don't know much about crates, I have an American friend whose dog seemed to be crated a lot. It seemed wrong!

Molesworth · 10/03/2009 21:26

ROFL @ your use of the royal 'we' there stleger

I got a book on clicker training out of the library today and it sounds fab - less room for error and misinterpretation than the slightly more 'woolly' approach in the Bruce Fogle book, and I've gone off Jan Fennell since I posted about her on here and thus discovered that her ideas about pack hierarchy are outdated and a bit too simplistic.

I must say I do like Cesar Millan though! I think it's his Mexican accent and Daddy the pitbull

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mistlethrush · 10/03/2009 21:39

Molesworth - my dog responds to the pack method - as do all of my friends .

We had a collie/terrier cross who used a flexi lead fabulously - she would back-track if she went the wrong side of something and never got tangled up - and was using it to its full extent in any direction she wanted to go - so you might find, after you've had your settling in period, that its worth a try.

Good luck with him!

Molesworth · 10/03/2009 21:42

Thanks MT - it seems that there is no one right way to do things; it's a case of finding what works best (eg the extendable lead might be great or a disaster!). Whatever anyone thinks about Jen Fennell's theories on the pack, surely one can't go wrong with Cesar's 'calm assertive energy' strategy? It seems a pretty good philosophy for life in general, not just with dogs!

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stleger · 10/03/2009 23:02

I try to do that with my guy. He has a tantrum before he goes to sleep, and I try the lie down thing cesar uses, but adapted to a dog with tigger like possibilities. I am grateful that dogs don't come with health visitors...one less 'expert' than you have with babies! At 6 your fella should be a bit more sensible, we have to hide biros and pencils, and keep forgetting how tall a dog can become if any food is left in the kitchen!

Molesworth · 11/03/2009 10:12

Piccies please stleger!

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clumsymum · 11/03/2009 10:26

Can I just say THANKYOU to everyone for this super positive thread about dogs.

I get sooooo fed-up of the anti-dog brigade on MN. I also feel a house isn't a home without a dog in it, and dogs and kids really do deserve to live together (as long as basic safety and discipline rules are applied to both parties). I remember our westie being my best friend when I was little.

We adopted a 2 year-old cavvy a couple of years ago, she had been starved of affection, attention, and hadn't even been house-trained. She is a hugely loving girl, adores ds (as he does her), and a very rewarding dog to own.

Good luck with your new boy, I'm sure you'll be fine.

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