Can I tell you my story of when I had 2 reactive dogs that I was besotted with and thought with my heart and not my brain over, and how that was a mistake I won't ever make again?
Paid thousands upon thousands for rehabilitation for these 2 dogs, they were walked and walked and walked every single day, I spent hundreds on equipment to tire them out, was often up at 3am to start their daily routines and prepare stimulating activities for them and work one on one and then two on one with them and gradual introduction to reactive stimuli.
Things genuinely did seem to get better and it really seemed all worth it.
Then one day, it was back to square one except I was stuck in between two dogs who had both been spooked by something I couldn't identify and I was the closest thing to them so guess who got the brunt of it? Me.
I was so lucky to not have any significant injuries but I got both breasts punctured by teeth and bruising that stopped me from walking for a week.
I had to open the cellar door and boot them down the steps, I honestly thought I'd killed them and I just sat in shock, in a pool of my own blood until my partner came home and found me.
He opened the door to the cellar when he got home and they were both stood there happy as Larry wagging their tails like butter couldn't melt, and my heart swelled with so much love for them that I had to realise that if I didn't put these dogs to sleep now in a humane way, peacefully while they knew nothing except love then there were worse things in store for them, and for me. It felt like a real Lennie and George moment.
I don't think these dogs were bad dogs I think they had some needs that I could not identify and the not being able to identify those needs after spending thousands of pounds that I didn't really have to spend is the bit that was the most dangerous thing because I could have spent thousands more and be worse off overall. I had given myself to them for their whole lives. I had done my research on the dogs, spent time vetting breeders and looking for the sociable signs of the right puppy in a litter, had multiple viewings, observed them eating near eachother to check for signs of food aggression and resource guarding etc.
It took me a long time to be around dogs again and when I was, I wondered why so many people just had dogs that were never naturally reactive in any way. I've spent a long time agonising over it wondering what I did wrong to make these dogs like this, but the truth is some dogs just are like this. It's part of their personality whether they were born like or or it was acquired, and they will never be a part of family life with a personality like that.
You can't keep your dogs away from people. They're large dogs. They need to be walked, they need to roam a garden. This has got a high probability of happening again unless you're willing to spend the rest of their lives isolating them from any one or thing they could harm and that is an exhausting and relentless, unsustainable, and unrealistic solution.
If I were writing this post asking for advice from you, what would you tell me to do?
I would tell me to put them to sleep.