My Exotic Shorthair cat just turned 1 on April 10th. She got fixed and now the stitches need to be removed. They should have been removed a week ago, but she is so traumatized from car rides and this that there is NO WAY I can take her to the vet. It has me traumatized as well. The girl that answers their phone said I could remove them myself. She said I undo the know and remove them like shoelaces?????? I am nervous!!! Is there a legit vet on here that can tell me how to remove them? She does not like to be held or messed with much. I am adding a picture to show the incision and stitches. Thanks!