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There is something that has been bothering me for a while....

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ShinyAndNew · 25/08/2010 14:09

Both on here and in rl people seem to think their pets are disposable. I hate his attitude. I was brought up to believe that when you take on an animal, you take responsibility for that animal, for the rest of it's life no matter what, unless that pet poses an immediate threat to the safety of your family.

By immediate I mean like a hormonal Cockatoo who has never been socialised with men and attempts to rip chunks of your neck off when you enter the same room as it, not the dog who snaps at your darling dc when they pull it's tail once too often.

If you are planning on buying a new pet, please consider the following:

It will live for X amount years. How will your life change in those years i.e. If you buy a cat as baby substitute when you are in your early 20's chances are that cat will still be alive and still be your responsibility when you have an actual baby. So if you don't agree that babies and cats should mix, don't get a cat. Get a goldfish instead.

They are hard work and dogs in particular need ongoing training, which could prove to be expensive, if you need to get in a professional. Are you prepared to put in the time and the money?

They may develop an on going illness that will need life long treatment. Are you prepared to be home at certain times of each day to administer medicine, or to bathe your pet in special shampoo x amount of days a week etc?

If it's a furry animal you must assume that they will leave hair on your furniture. Even if the breeder says they won't. There are never any guarantees.

They might damage your house and eat your favourite shoes. I know a dog who ate a whole bathroom carpet in one sitting. He had only been left for an hour.

They might make nusciences of themselves by mewing or barking or whatever at daft o clock in the morning.

They will probably poo in your house at some point during their lives. They may never stop pooing in your house if they have an illness such as ibs or suffer fits which cause them to loose control of bowels.

You will need to arrange suitable care for them if you wish to go on holiday. This is expensive.

They are expensive.

OP posts:
Kaloki · 26/08/2010 17:18

ooh valhalla you have a ferret? Been thinking about getting one for a while

stleger · 26/08/2010 17:32

We have dog licences in Ireland, you get the dog before the licence. We had a warden visit once - we didn't have a dog at the time! Chipping isn't part of the licence. I'm sure plenty of dogs near us aren't licensed; I'm sure in certain areas none are...don't quote me! Ferrets are gorgeous, and I am hearing good things about chipmunks Smile

wildfig · 26/08/2010 17:33

Agree agree agree, especially about the puppy farms. It astonishes me how many otherwise intelligent friends have no idea where to find a responsibly bred dog, or even what to look for. Makes my blood boil when they say, 'Oh, we're getting a dog that won't shed/need much exercise' as though genetic boffins are making perfect dogs in sheds in Ireland, for the good of society. Angry

misdee · 27/08/2010 09:03

hate this.

i have 2 pups. utterly mad but lovable labradoodles. .

but am also having surprise baby#5 in dec.

there is no queastion of rehoming the dogs, though i di get very close last week with one of them (i threatened him with the sausage factory Blush), who was being a complete wotsit all day. but more than mad up for it in the vening with his lovable ways and sleeping on my feet.

someone i know is a bit behind me pregnancy wise. and is rehoming her pup :(

i rehomed a dog before and it broke my heart. it took me over 5 years to agree to another dog (previous dog was rehomed as dh ended up in hospital needing a heart transplant, and Star was being left home alone for 6hours+ each day, which wasnt fair on her)

my dogs have 4 months now till baby arrives. we are starting puppy classes once big kids are back at school, and hopefully by then we will have stopped most, if not all, of the jumping etc.

my main worry is if they knock the carrycot over. but its being placed inside a travel cot for extra safety.

booyhoo · 27/08/2010 15:41

thank god for this thread, and i hope it sticks around.

was visiting my aunt the other night and telling her about my lovely new golden boy. she said "it's good you got a boy because you can breed him and get the money with none of the hassle of the pups for 2 months." yeah, that's why i got a dog, to continue to populate the earth with yet more puppies. that's just why i did it. eyes rolled all teh way up to heaven. he will be neutered as soon as possible.

StealthPolarBear · 27/08/2010 15:58

yes, my parents had dogs, and loved them, but I've seen how much hard work they are, and will not be getting one unless I feel I could make that commitment.

stleger · 27/08/2010 20:24

I have just admired 10 month old westies, brother and sister, and remarked on the size difference. The owner said that he had wondered if they were actually from the same litter, although sometimes 'they sell you the runt...' That sounds like a strange breeder that he went to? They were cute though...

musicmadness · 27/08/2010 21:46

Agree with you 100%
The bit about the dog eating the bathroom carpet reminds me of my dog Blush. He slipped on the tiled floor in the kitchen as a puppy and has hated tiled floors ever since. We came back one day after being out around 3 hours and he had eaten a path from one door to the other through the kitchen! He'd completely pulled all the tiles up and the glue and was down to the concrete foundation! He had only gone for the tiles between the doors though, no where else. I was quite impressed he figured it out actually Blush

stleger · 28/08/2010 10:30

misdee - you make me go Shock then Smile. I'd wonder how most people could cope with the labradoodles and 5 kids, but if anyone can it's you and your gang. My ds and I followed the transplant saga, and I give him updates! Sorry for that 'lovey' aside everyone...

kid · 28/08/2010 10:49

Misdee, you don't do things by half!
Good luck with puppy classes, they are great.

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