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"I was sat in the bedroom"

40 replies

MyChildDoesntNeedSleepAtXmas · 03/01/2012 20:17

Is it 'I was sitting in the bedroom' or 'I was sat in the bedroom'?

Is it a dialect thing? I've only ever heard people use the latter up North.

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Catsmamma · 03/01/2012 20:18

or "I was sat, sitting in the bedroom" ??

dontlaugh · 03/01/2012 20:18

Anyone who was "sat" anywhere should be left there, frankly. What on earth is wrong with sitting?

MrsBovary · 03/01/2012 20:21

"I was sat" sounds wrong.

LeBOF · 03/01/2012 20:21

It is incorrect grammatically, but used in some dialects. It looks odd in written speech though, IMO, and confuses people who wouldn't usually use it in their own dialect.

MyChildDoesntNeedSleepAtXmas · 03/01/2012 20:24

To me 'I was sat' doesn't make sense.

You say 'I was cooking' or 'I was driving', ie. 'I was' then the verb in the present tense.

Come on, is anyone going to answer me properly... the suspense is killing me!

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rockinastocking · 03/01/2012 20:26

I was "sat" is wrong, unless you a piece of furniture than someone has sat somewhere.

I was "sitting" is better, but still wrong as it is transitive. To be correct one should say,

"I was seated."

LeBOF · 03/01/2012 20:26

I suppose you could just about make a case for using it, if somebody had forced you to sit there: "my mother sat me down to talk to me", therefore "I was sat down", but it's stretching a point.

MyChildDoesntNeedSleepAtXmas · 03/01/2012 20:26

Sorry, posted too soon Blush

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rockinastocking · 03/01/2012 20:26

you are

MrsWembley · 03/01/2012 20:28

It depends on the action taking place. Have you just sat down? Have you been on the seat for some time? Were you placed there by someone else?

MyChildDoesntNeedSleepAtXmas · 03/01/2012 20:28

rocking could you explain the transitive thing please?

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Grockle · 03/01/2012 20:28

It is used in northern parts - I've just spent a weekend in Leeds with people telling me 'I were sat in t'bedroom...'

rockinastocking · 03/01/2012 20:39

Shit, sorry, not transitive, present continuous.

As in, the action is happening at the time of speaking/writing - "I am walking", "I am eating", " I am sitting".

Once you have sat down, you have finished sitting, and are now seated.

The action is finished.

TeamDamon · 03/01/2012 20:46

You might say:

I was sitting on the sofa when suddenly Benedict Cumberbatch came into the room...

It is usual to use the present continuous to indicate an interrupted action in this way.

I loathe "I was sat" with a passion and it crops up so often on MN!

MyChildDoesntNeedSleepAtXmas · 03/01/2012 23:51

Why is it not called the 'past continuous' ?Confused

rocking The action has already happened. It's 'I was' not 'I am' Confused

Oh help!

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ChippingInLovesChristmasLights · 03/01/2012 23:59

As well as the 'northern/dialect' thing, I think it also conveys a degree of 'annoyance' at the fact you were sitting there (usually waiting). So, for example, 'I was sat there waiting for him' as opposed to 'I was sitting there waiting for him' The 'sat' being something you clearly didn't want to be doing where as 'sitting' tends to imply something not entirely unpleasant.

I'm in no way saying this is correct Grin just that it's commonly used that way!

rockinastocking · 04/01/2012 00:03

That's why 'I was sitting' is wrong.

It should be 'I was seated'.

But it's better that 'I was sat.'

lollipoppet · 04/01/2012 00:11

Well I think it should be either "I was sitting in the bedroom" or "I sat in the bedroom"

But I am northern....

ChippingInLovesChristmasLights · 04/01/2012 02:21

I like a good 'I was sat...' when I'm annoyed about it Grin I really couldn't care less that it's 'wrong'!

MrsMeeple · 04/01/2012 03:31

Rockin, doesn't that depend on whether you consider that "to sit" only means "the action of going from a standing position to a seated position". If "to sit" is also used to mean "to be seated", then it's ok to use "I was sitting" for a stationary state of being.

If you agree with that, then it's ok to say "I was sitting".

yellowraincoat · 04/01/2012 03:35

I very often get angered with pedants, but this is the one thing that irrationally pisses me off, dialect or no. I was stood, I was sat. GAH.

MrsMeeple · 04/01/2012 03:43

You can see all the verb forms here: conjugation.com/verb/Sit

According to oxforddictionaries.com, sit means:

sit

verb (sits, sitting; past and past participle sat /sat/)
1 [no object] adopt or be in a position in which one?s weight is supported by one?s buttocks rather than one?s feet and one?s back is upright...

(my emphasis)

So it doesn't have to be "I was seated". "I was sitting" is also correct.

kickassangel · 04/01/2012 03:47

More importantly, wouldn't you rather have Martin Freeman walk into your bedroom than that Cumberbumberbababatch fellow?

yellowraincoat · 04/01/2012 03:53

Cumberbatch is over rated.

Jacksmania · 04/01/2012 05:08

I couldn't possibly be a bigger pedant, but personally I heart "I was sat". I'm sorry, but as an ignorant furriner, it just sounds so English :o

And really... Benedict Whatshisname? No.