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Does your Graduate child have a job?

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Karma2023 · 24/08/2026 18:22

The volume of advertised jobs for Graduates is apparentely at a historical low which is obviously worrying for students and their parents.

Just interested in sharing experience and perhaps offering assistance to those going through the job hunting process.

Has your young person secured a job? If so what subject did they do and how did they find the role?

I have a dc who secured an internship this summer, he is studying STEM and found the job directly from the company site. He is hoping to get a return job offer however he hasn't loved the job so will be looking for other opportunities. He may take a year out and improve his language skills as it might add to his CV.

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GardenDiscriminated · Yesterday 10:28

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Yesterday 09:59

@GardenDiscriminated I’m sorry but recruitment policies should be open and transparent to get the best applicants. It’s not ok to take the DS without competition and exclude others from applying for a very sought after role. The firm has no idea if he was the best candidate. This didn’t appear to be a recommendation - it read like active recruitment! No issue with staff putting people forward but law jobs are hugely competitive and most firms look at hundreds of applicants so there’s no discrimination or appointing in the image of those already there. Most law firms know to look widely.

It is absolutely ok...the company has a right to recruit whoever they want, no one was discriminated against - you may not approve but it's not your decision.

Badbadbunny · Yesterday 11:35

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 27/08/2026 21:35

@SwirlyGates My DH employed engineering grads over several decades. I’m afraid it’s definitely an issue. They often don’t write well. Poor punctuation and spelling - yes, even with spellcheck! His “red pen” got used I’m afraid. Engineering consultants cannot send out poorly written reports to clients . It’s embarrassing. All employees should be tested on English it turns out.

Likewise, I've recruited for accountancy trainee positions, both when working for others and now for myself as self employed. The standard of literacy (and numeracy!!!) of some graduates was shocking, even those who had a degree in accounting, or economics, or businesss/finance etc.

I created my own short tests for the candidates to take at interview, very simple just 5/10 minutes, one being a profit and loss account with some "glaringly" obvious errors, such as year end date of 31 February, a figure being subtracted instead of added (when the page clearly said "Add"), a few obvious spelling mistakes (stationary, maintenence, etc), and a short column of figures that didn't add up! No pass/fail mark, just to give me an indication of where they stood in basic literacy/numeracy. Most did well, but a few, including one with a First in accounting, was shockingly bad, and also had dire handwriting too.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Yesterday 12:13

@Badbadbunny Yes, they had Engimeering tests but report writing is difficult when the grad is not expected to do it immediately. Use of English is something I believe universities must be tighter on and ensure grads can write well enough for employment. A well rounded grad is a much more useful one.

SwirlyGates · Yesterday 12:23

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Yesterday 12:13

@Badbadbunny Yes, they had Engimeering tests but report writing is difficult when the grad is not expected to do it immediately. Use of English is something I believe universities must be tighter on and ensure grads can write well enough for employment. A well rounded grad is a much more useful one.

They also need to be able to speak English! My brother has recently conducted some interviews for internships with IT candidates at masters level (in the UK), who could not speak English well enough to understand or answer the questions. How do they get through a degree of any kind in this country, with that level of English?

pinkspeakers · Yesterday 15:20

38thparallel · Yesterday 10:18

I also had one DC graduate in 2020/1 and whilst the grad ceremony was disruptive the job market was so much better.

@Cars4Gov In what way was the grad ceremony disruptive?

I think they meant the grad ceremony was disrupted. by covid.

38thparallel · Yesterday 15:23

@pinkspeakers thank you for answering my question.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Yesterday 16:52

@SwirlyGates Yes. It’s unfortunate to say the least that universities don’t always expect presentations from students and too many say they are too stressful and don’t do them. They are not the same calibre as students who speak well. Employers do find its buyer beware!

OublietteBravo · Yesterday 19:38

GardenDiscriminated · 27/08/2026 12:26

Degrees aren't useless - grads with stem degrees quite often struggled with writing because they hadn't written an essay in years and they also struggled with being personable in interviews - I know it's a stereotype but it what we saw. Non stem grads often had stronger communication skills and those who have strong analytic and numerical backgrounds from school - were definitely of interest - play to your strengths, not your degree.

I did a supplementary subject in history & philosophy of science during my chemistry degree. My tutors hated this - in their view the only supplementary worth doing was advanced quantum mechanics. But I’m now a patent attorney, and learning how to write persuasively during this course has been invaluable.

Although I’m in-house, and would never have been in the position to apply for the internal trainee position without my PhD and my R&D experience. So I’m well aware that the path to your ultimate career might not be what you initially expect it to be. And I don’t regret any of my education - even the GCSE in cookery and the RSA qualification in typewriting I did at night school during my lower sixth have been useful!

Whorulestheroost1 · Today 09:24

DS did CS at Uni took a year out after poor MH . He had a message on Linkedin from one of the FAANG lot and asked him to apply for a software tech role with them. Interviews were brutal but he got a yes. Grad starting salary of 80k (with shares) and a relocation lump sum. It is beyond his wildest dreams tbh and out earns me who has spent 30 years in the NHS.

Bigfatsquirrel · Today 10:15

I have a child who is dyslexic. Has received 25% extra time since primary school. They are anxious about requesting extra time for online tests as it flags them and when companies have a choice of 1000s of candidates why would you choose someone who takes 25 % longer to analyse info? Giving the extra time ticks the box for companies that they don’t discriminate. This AI driven world of recruitment is awful and I agree with a comment near the start of the thread that contacts will become increasingly important to circumnavigate AI driven processes.

Mumof2wifeof1crazytimes · Today 10:42

DS graduated last year,he took a fixed term contractor in October which ended in April this year and then he got a permanent contract. Where he works, they run annual graduate programmes which last for 2 years, he was told he could have one starting this year but he declined it as it was less money (over £15k less) and after the 2 years he would have to apply for a job at the same level he is working at now. My advice would be to look at the companies the young person want to work for, get through the front door and them work hard and see what comes up internally.

DinnerinfrontoftheTV · Today 11:39

I think that is right. Also, lateral moves are much easier at lower levels. So get positioned in the right function while still early.

FeelingOldOldOld · Today 11:54

Bigfatsquirrel · Today 10:15

I have a child who is dyslexic. Has received 25% extra time since primary school. They are anxious about requesting extra time for online tests as it flags them and when companies have a choice of 1000s of candidates why would you choose someone who takes 25 % longer to analyse info? Giving the extra time ticks the box for companies that they don’t discriminate. This AI driven world of recruitment is awful and I agree with a comment near the start of the thread that contacts will become increasingly important to circumnavigate AI driven processes.

The same here (dyslexic dc). I suspect some of the larger firms will accept this, as it contributes to their diversity profile. My dc has just finished an internship with a large company, he disclosed that he was dyslexic at the start of the process, and was given extra time during the 4-5 stage recruitment process to the internship. He is waiting to hear whether he has a return offer for next year (we are all keeping fingers heavily crossed).

DinnerinfrontoftheTV · Today 11:57

There is a big push around neurodiversity now. I don’t believe DC will be disadvantaged if they disclose it. I have a DC at uni currently who is dyslexic. My advice to her is to be open.

FeelingOldOldOld · Today 12:11

DinnerinfrontoftheTV · Today 11:57

There is a big push around neurodiversity now. I don’t believe DC will be disadvantaged if they disclose it. I have a DC at uni currently who is dyslexic. My advice to her is to be open.

I agree. I think especially with internships / Spring break schemes. I have even seen some internships / schemes that especially encourage applicants who fulfil diversity criteria.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Today 14:59

Only big companies can take a hit on someone taking much longer to do a task. If that was transferred to engineering, the company would make no money. Speed of work does matter in SMEs because profit is on the line. Firms do run tests and they are not all bothered about DEI quotas. Yes, large firms offer internships widely and often choose apprentices to fill DEI quotes, but only larger employers I think. Everyone else had to employ the best person for the job, and times are challenging due to NI, wage and employment law changes.

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