iv absolutely had it! when my son was born i suffered with pnd and although i nipped it in the bud really quickly it took along time to build myself up to be a really strong, confident good mum.
we spent the weekend with my dad and step mum and they were constantly undermining me, mainly for the sake of an easy life and save face in public. me on the other hand couldnt care less what the general public think and if iv told my boy to put his coat on he WILL do as hes told.
i really thought it was just a mil thing but obviously not.
our ds 2.8 is as godd as gold with the odd bit of terrible 2's chucked in for good measure. everyone comments on how hes so well behaved and how hes so bright (doing his abc 123 shapes and colours perfectly). i really hate it when they dont think to themselves that my dh and i are really good parents so leave us to it, no, they have to but in and undermine us like we ar still kids ourselves.
after the weekend our ds has been a little more badly behaved which is fine i can deal with that but hes seen how dad and smum have been with me and now tells me he hates be, doesnt love mummy anymore i cant even change his nappy or get his juice or food for him, he hates me so much, my confidence is so low now, i dont want to go back to that dark place i came from
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pinchmeimustbedreaming · 19/02/2010 10:14
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