Genuine query, as my DH and I have recently switched roles. He is now SAHP and I am now working fulltime.
Now, before the birth of DS2 I was working parttime, him fulltime, when I was at home all day I would always cook the meal, considering I had all day to work out what to cook/defrost/buy etc,..... When we had both been at work, we'd take it in turns mostly. Weekends, again, sharing.
Same with when I was at home fulltime for the year of my maternity leave both times. Me at home, me cook.
Now, I would have thought that if I am at work every day that perhaps it would now be, generally speaking, down to my DH to sort out the dinner?
As soon as I am in the door, I do start sorting and tidying, dealing with our DSs (3.5yrs and 1yr), we both get them ready for bed etc.... tasks are shared very fairly I would think, but gone 7pm, I feel that there should at least be an idea of what might be on offer.
No? Am I being unfair and irrational and expecting too much?
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Who should do the cooking in the evening? Me at work or him at home?
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bergentulip · 17/11/2008 16:27
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