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What age did you or are you planning to wean your baby & was it puree or finger food?

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champagneandroses · 30/07/2008 11:17

Trying to get an opinion on this

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champagneandroses · 30/07/2008 13:42

hes 20 weeks on thursday, started feeding him at the weekend, two dessert spoons worth a day. He has only had milk today up to now.

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claireybee · 30/07/2008 13:43

DD 5 months tried with purees but she refused so stopped, started again at 6 months, she still refused so then moved on to blw-she only started eating at 9 months though.

DS 6 months, tried to blw but he got very cross and shouted at me so tried him with some mashed food on a spoon and he was happy. He has had a mixture of puree, mash and finger foods-no problems with any of them though purees are starting to get raspberries blown through them.

ruddynorah · 30/07/2008 13:44

then just stop. he won't even notice. up his milk if anything.

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FeelingDeviant · 30/07/2008 13:47

24 weeks (after a lot of pressure from HV to wean even earlier)
mixture of finger food and puree before taking the blw route

ten10 · 30/07/2008 14:07

I started my DS on Baby rice at 20 weeks,

but was putting big pieces of apple and melon up to his mouth for him to have a suck on from about 16 weeks

jojosmaman · 30/07/2008 14:09

A few spoons of apple puree wouldnt fill him up anyway, I'd drop the puree and up the milk and you'll prob find its a growth spurt which wil settle down again.

My DS still has a few days where he eats loads, drinks lots of milk and even wakes in the night for milk and then a few days later he is back to normal again (he's 17mths).

Anyway, for ds,

Introduced finger food (BLW) at 6mths but he didnt really start eating much of it until 8 or 9 months

MogTheForgetfulCat · 30/07/2008 14:24

DS1 - 20 weeks, purees. Was v keen to do BLW, but just could not keep up with his feeding demands and caved in at 20 weeks . He is a good eater now - will try anything.

DS2 - is 23 weeks and not yet weaned, planning to do BLW from 26 weeks. Think he will be ready, he sits well, can put things in his mouth etc.

needtosavemoney · 30/07/2008 16:43

ds1 20 weeks purees
ds2 26 weeks mainly blw but he has had a few purees

PortAndLemon · 30/07/2008 16:54

The guidelines changed in 2002, though, I think (may have been earlier, but not later. The current 26-week recommendations were definitely in place four years ago... but not sure how diligently HVs were putting them across ).

My GP (several different GPs, in fact) told me DS was fine, had a bit of a cough, nothing to worry about. Actually he had a textbook case of whooping cough and ended up in hospital on supplementary oxygen. The GPs are lovely, were trying their best, but aren't experts on everything.

Definitely not too late to stop if you want.

GillianLovesMarmite · 30/07/2008 17:13

Try this - world health org promoting blw on radio 4 - worth a listenwww.bbc.co.uk/radio4/womanshour/2004_23_thu_01.shtml

My ds is 6 months and is having some finger food and some naturally soft foods eg banana, risotto etc.

La leche league and nct both provide lots of info on blw - which would probably also be relevant if ffeeding.

cupcake78 · 30/07/2008 20:10

15 weeks for simple purees. Been giving finger foods since 6 mths but he has only just caught on and that is with help (10mths)most of it just gets squished and thrown on the floor.

chipmonkey · 30/07/2008 20:42

Ds1 4 months
Ds2 4 months
But they are now almost 10 and 12 and those were the guidelines at the time.
Ds3 at 6 months = 4 months adjusted as he was 2 months prem. This was on the advice of a paediatrician.
And I wouldn't necessarily listen to a GP. I know one who told friends of ours that it was OK to give Petits filous at 8 weeks!

chipmonkey · 30/07/2008 20:42

Oh yes, all were weaned on purees.

lizinthesticks · 30/07/2008 20:46

8 months. A bit of both.

Been doing it a good few weeks now. She was grabbing at our plates all the time, plus has two teeth at lower front, so we thought oh all right then. Why not.

For the first month or so the purees were going well, and we were v. chuffed. She was BF'd until about 6 months - well, expressed w/ a little formula here and there.

Since then it's been formula and puree plus some finger food.

However, she's currently on strike. Could be teething. But it's a downer. Sometimes she'll do really well, and other times she'll be swiping at the spoon like it's a wasp.

This wouldn't bother me so much except for the fact that she's not a huge fan of formula. Never has been. She was coasting the 25th centile for ages - despite being on the 50th at birth (w/ 8lb 5oz). Just had the 6 monthly check (at 7 months!) and she's back up to the 40th.

So good news, I thought. Thing is, with this swiping food away this last week or more I reckon she might have dipped again. I'm not worried really, but it does seem a shame that she's gone off her food. We'll see. Looked at DD1's red book the other week and noticed she didn't gain any weight between 6 and 8 months (!!). Hoping to avoid that with 2.

champagneandroses · 30/07/2008 23:08

Portandlemon - my dd was born in late 2004 and everything I read at that time said 4 months and everybody I spoke to said 4 months. So surely if it had been changed two years previously at least one publication would have had 26weeks as the guideline.

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goodasgold · 30/07/2008 23:30

My best friend's daughter was born in 2001 and the guidelines were 26 weeks then.

Flibbertyjibbet · 30/07/2008 23:32

DS1 born dec 2004, 26 weeks as per guidelines we were given at the time.
ds2 May 2006, waited till 26 weeks but he still wasn't interested, took him till 29 weeks to scoff something.
Didn't puree as have no food processor or freezer and it all seemed a load of faff. With ds1 it was all still very puree a la Annabel Karmel etc. We just mashed up whatever we were having, spoon fed him that and he grabbed other things that we just cut up into chunks.

SIL and Bils gf have had 3 babies between them since Oct 2004 and still do 14 week weaning and mutter about me starving my babies

chipmonkey · 30/07/2008 23:39

The guidelines were 6 months in the USA for years before they changed them over here.

suwoo · 30/07/2008 23:46

22 weeks . Until I searched for this video on youtube, I thought he was older. Anyhoo, 22 weeks and BLW. here he is

nappyaddict · 30/07/2008 23:47

Just copied this from another thread.

Just to clear up a point about how long 6 months weaning has been under discussion:

In the 90s WHO and UNICEF disagreed about what to recommend. Looking at the same evidence, UNICEF took the "safe" route and recommended 6 months; WHO took the "minimalist" route and said 6 months is best, but 4 months is probably OK.

This disagreement drove everybody crazy, especially people who worked for both organisations. Hence, in 2000, the decision to have a huge review of current knowledge to try and clarify the point.

This was done, and when more recent evidence was taken into account, it became clear that the evidence was in favour of 6 months. Accordingly, WHO changed their recommendation to purely 6 months, as it is now.

So just to summarise: WHO have recommended 6 months for many years, but until 2001, didn't actively discourage 4 months. They are now convinced that there is good evidence for 6 months.

THIS RECOMMENDATION IS FOR DEVELOPED AND DEVELOPING WORLD BABIES.

(Sorry to shout, but if I hear the myth about developing world only one more time I will scream!)

threestars · 30/07/2008 23:48

I'd never heard of baby led weaning until I happened upon this thread this evening.

I'm fascinated. Hurrah for mumsnet.

champagneandroses · 31/07/2008 10:11

I think its discraceful then if the guidleines were set in 2001, why the information wasnt pushed forward to new mums, I did a lot of research prior to weaning dd in March 2005 and not one thing I read (and that included leaflets from the baby group and health centre) said 6 months they all said 4 months and sadly I believed it. Just hope DD isnt affected by eating early.

I didnt give ds any apple at all following this thread yesterday and will now wait another 6 weeks to give him it again, i'm still amazed ive got more information from people on here than my HV!

Nappy addict - has anyone on this thread mentioned the developing world apart from you, I must have missed it.

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spottyshoes · 31/07/2008 10:16

DS - 6mths (minus half a week). Finger foods
DC2 - Again whenever they are ready. And Again BLW all the way

VictorianSqualor · 31/07/2008 10:51

champagneandroses, I think nappyaddict just means that on previous threads wrt weaning someone always comes along and says 'oh, that's not in the developing world though'.

It is sad that we aren't told the score quite often from Hv's etc, I was told by my HV in 2000 that it should be four months, but not to adjust DD's age(she was 8weeks prem), I didn't listen and age adjusted anyway because my MiL said it was bollocks(she had had three prem children).
When DS was born in 2004, I was told it was now six months, and I waited, I had absolutely no idea why it was six months though.
Only since I joined mumsnet have I done some proper research and found the reasons behind the guidelines. Though now they recommend waiting until six months but muddy the waters by saying absolutely no solid food before 17weeks, which makes people think 17 weeks will be ok, when we have absolutely no way of telling if it is or not.

If you read the DOH weaning leaflet here even that says

"If you decide to wean at any time before six months, there
are some foods that should be avoided as they may cause
allergies or make your baby ill. These include wheat-based
foods and other foods containing gluten (e.g. bread, rusks,
some breakfast cereals), eggs, fish, shellfish, nuts, seeds
and soft and unpasteurised cheeses. Ask your health visitor
for advice, especially if your baby was premature.
Solid foods should never be introduced before four months."

which of course almost advocates weaning before six months! It's ridiculous.

If you look here it explains when/what the guidelines were changed from/to.

champagneandroses · 31/07/2008 11:08

oh right i havent seen any previous threads so just thought it was a strange to thing to say on this one when I hadnt seen anyone saying it.

am gonna have a read of those leaflets links when i get 5 mins to myself later.

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