My colleague (she of minge flash fame) looked after her first grandchild recently, overnight for the first time - I smiled nicely and bit the inside of my cheeks when she said .......

[MamaG]

"I got him into a routine for her [i.e. her dd, mother of baby] as he's not really in one. He doesn't have a set bedtime and he settled down fine for me. I think she'll keep it up now I've told her how to do it"

• he's 8 weeks old

How can a one off event be a routine?

No smoke without fire.