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Weaning, milk feed, naps…help!

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Gerbera55 · 11/02/2026 09:19

My LB has just turned 6 months old so we’ve started weaning. Nothing much is going in at the minute but that’s okay - I know he’ll get there with that!

He’s a big boy (just below 99th centile for weight and height) and has the appetite to match. He’s formula fed and has always drunk a lot of milk. He slept through the night from around 7-14 weeks but since then, he’s woken for 2/3 feeds a night, it’s like we can’t get enough milk in him during the day.

We’d got him to the point of being able to be rocked to sleep for his naps in the day but that all went out the window at about 4.5 months when his first teeth cut through and his CMPA symptoms kicked in and since then, if there’s no milk going in, he isn’t sleeping! He might settle with a cuddle if he wakes in the night but you can guarantee he’ll wake again an hour later for milk.

I just can’t see how I’m ever going to drop bottles when he won’t sleep without one! I’ve tried everything to get him to sleep without one and even though he’s clearly exhausted, he’ll just cry horribly until I make him a bottle.

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bouncingblob · 11/02/2026 20:39

Gerbera55 · 11/02/2026 17:06

Jesus I didn’t think I was going to get told I was starving my child! I definitely do think he’s getting enough milk in the day! 4.5 hours is an extreme example, when he’s not taken it at 3/3.5 hours when offered! By the time he goes to sleep he’s had 40+oz every day which I know in some people’s eyes would be too much. Then he has a dream feed at around 11pm, plus he will wake for 1 or 2 more feeds.

Cool your jets, nobody said anything of the sort. Your baby is clearly getting enough formula (40oz is absolutely on the high side) but the problem is that they're spreading them out massively over 23 hours.

At 5-6 months our son was on a similar sort of intake but that was sometimes 6-7 bottles just during daylight hours, with no overnight feeds.

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