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Mrgrim · 15/11/2025 23:18

Hi I've never posted here before but I've got some concerns and don't know if I'm just being daft or not , ......so anyways here's my issue , found my partner/fiance/misses what ever term you like ...anyway stuff happened I did a basic Google search and found her profile on a hook up site ( illicit exploits) as soon as I told her I knew she called the police later that night and had me arrested , and now she's been randomly staying out all day and stuff she never normally does keeps her phone in her pocket ,took her spare car key off me ended the universal credit claim paused her activity on the family tracker (she the admin)(also found she's been speaking to men on telegram) ... anyways she been taking our 1 year old with her or leaving him the only place she says she's been which is her parents (dad has late stage heart failure and bad COPD) (mums crippled with arthritis and both do nothing but drink and smoke) is this considered neglect ??? ....to our baby not me

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Mrgrim · 16/11/2025 11:27

Haven't* rang social services

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MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 16/11/2025 11:28

Mrgrim · 16/11/2025 11:27

Because I asked what our boy had for lunch and she said I just gave him some crisps as he wouldn't eat anything else .....which is strange because he eats anything in sight. And I have rang social services because I'm scared , what if she gets me arrested again an they remove our kids ??? I don't know what they will do I've never delt with them before

Surely you want your child removed from such a dangerous person?

Mrgrim · 16/11/2025 11:39

MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 16/11/2025 11:28

Surely you want your child removed from such a dangerous person?

Absolutely I just don't want him in care

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Mrgrim · 16/11/2025 11:40

Plus she will deny it ....then I'll be arrested yet again , and then there will be social involved or she will try win me over and there will be social involved and from what I've heard it's not good

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MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 16/11/2025 11:49

Mrgrim · 16/11/2025 11:40

Plus she will deny it ....then I'll be arrested yet again , and then there will be social involved or she will try win me over and there will be social involved and from what I've heard it's not good

Why would you want to be with someone who is a crap parent and keeps getting you arrested for absolutely nothing at all?

Why would be be in care, you're a parent, why wouldn't you have him?

I would never leave my child with someone who was neglectful, at best, abusive at worst.

It's telling that your main concern is who she is shagging and not your sons safety.

Mrgrim · 16/11/2025 11:56

MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 16/11/2025 11:49

Why would you want to be with someone who is a crap parent and keeps getting you arrested for absolutely nothing at all?

Why would be be in care, you're a parent, why wouldn't you have him?

I would never leave my child with someone who was neglectful, at best, abusive at worst.

It's telling that your main concern is who she is shagging and not your sons safety.

Well if I get arrested and she is deemed unfit or whatever then what's gonna happen to him ? I've heard horror stories , kids once they are in the system they never get out , I have no one to turn to both my parents have passed , I've got no real friends only work mates who I've only known since February as I wasn't allowed to have a job ...well until she wanted to be a stay at home mum , honestly that's why I've turned to this website , she's usually on here telling me all the toxic,vile men hating stuff that's on here , but I thought who would know better than mums right ? And the only reason I care about who's she with is because I don't want some strange internet man around my son , she doesn't even know the guy they have been talking weeks that's it

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WhatNoRaisins · 16/11/2025 11:59

Are these children on the radar of social services? It sounds like they are very vulnerable caught in between all this

Mrgrim · 16/11/2025 12:03

WhatNoRaisins · 16/11/2025 11:59

Are these children on the radar of social services? It sounds like they are very vulnerable caught in between all this

No they are not

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