My 10 year old son is raising money for his school with one of his besties - my son and I have not spoken in depth about fund raising ideas as the school only announced this a few days ago… this morning my son was on the phone and when I asked who he was speaking to, he said it was his besties mum! She had called my sons mobile to speak to him direct from her sons phone about the fund raising - his bestie called my son to say that his mum wanted to speak to him; I asked him to hurry up and end the call. About 30 mins later the mum text me about the fundraising.
My husband thinks that this was inappropriate as he said he would never call to speak to another child without going through their parent first.
A bit of background: both boys used to go to nursery together and now school so we know the family but not in a close friendship way so unsure if the mum felt it was ok to speak to my son direct.
This doesn’t sit comfortably with me either but I’m not sure if I’m over thinking things… any thoughts? Thank you.